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  • 022 A Crown This Cold and Heavy by Stacia Stark
    Today your matron saints of spice are diving into book three of Stacia Stark’s Kingdom of Lies series, where Prisca is processing trauma while everyone tells her she needs to grieve right now, and we’re realizing the pendulum on grief has swung from “suffer in silence” to “perform your sadness publicly or you’re doing it wrong.” We’re unpacking how Regner’s sleeper cell spiders mirror church manipulation tactics, why spiritual gift assessments are basically just helping churches find free labor, and how the terror of “missing God’s will” kept us from making literally any decision in high school. Plus, we’re getting real about how trying to resurrect your dead boyfriend is the same kind of control as exploiting people through intimacy—even when your intentions are really good.Topics Covered:* Why delayed grief is valid and sometimes you literally cannot stop to process because you know it’ll take two weeks of couch-rotting and you don’t have two weeks right now* How Regner weaponizing intimacy through his spider network is exactly what happens in church spaces with “sweet girl coffee dates” and psychological warfare disguised as community* The uncomfortable parallel between exploiting people for evil ends versus trying to resurrect your mate for love—because control is control even when we think we’re justified* The wild difference between shoulder-tapping manipulation (”I need you to do this”) versus developmental invitation (”I see this gift in you, would you like to grow it?”)* How the hourglass amplifies Prisca’s gifts for good or bad, just like our own gifts can build up or tear down depending on how we wield them—and why fundamentalism demonizes tools instead of cultivating discernment* The pressure to choose your “one calling” and how God’s will actually has more to do with daily choices and character formation than finding the single perfect college/job/spouse* God as a God of restoration means you get to start over—resurrection life isn’t about getting it perfect the first time, and sometimes Abraham maybe shouldn’t have tried to sacrifice Isaac at allThe river of grief flows where it needs to flow, spiritual gifts without character development just create narcissistic leaders, and God’s will is big enough to handle all your decisions—not just the one narrow path you’re terrified of missing. Timestamps: 02:00 Policing Grief: From Silent Suffering to Mandatory Processing 06:00 Why Delayed Grief Is Valid and Sometimes Necessary 10:00 Lorian’s Grief vs Prisca’s Grief: Different Rivers, Different Timelines 13:00 Regner’s Spiders and Church Manipulation Through Intimacy 16:00 Control for Good Ends Is Still Control: The Resurrection Problem 20:00 How Gifts Become Weapons Depending on Who Wields Them 23:00 Spiritual Gift Assessments as Free Labor Recruitment Tools 28:00 Shoulder Tapping: Manipulation vs Developmental Invitation 32:00 Why Churches Need Developmental Pipelines, Not Crisis Recruiting 36:00 Prisca Stepping Into Destiny: Fate vs Free Will vs Choice 40:00 The Anxiety of “Missing God’s Will” in High School 44:00 God’s Will Isn’t One Narrow Path You Can Accidentally Miss 46:00 Permission to Start Over: Resurrection Life and Restoration This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit irsbpodcast.substack.com
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  • 021 The Life of a Showgirl by Taylor Swift
    Today your matron saints of spice are breaking down Taylor Swift’s latest album The Life of a Showgirl. We’re unpacking the false binary of “literary Taylor” versus “fun Taylor,” defending intellectualism in giddy romance, and explaining why performative activism on social media isn’t the same as actually loving your neighbors. Plus, we’re getting real about how knowing too much about Taylor’s life actually ruins some songs because we can’t separate her lore from our own experiences.Topics Covered:* First impressions of the album and how the stark tonal shift from TTPD to Showgirl hit different depending on which era of Taylor you entered the fandom through* The problem with binary thinking in both theology and art criticism—moving past “I liked it/I didn’t like it” to actually engage critically with what the work is doing* How people vilify women (and specifically female theologians) for processing pain through Taylor Swift’s music, which is really just policing grief in weird patriarchal ways* The false binary of career woman versus domestic goddess, and how women (including Taylor) contain multitudes without having to choose one identity forever* How the emphasis on performance over practice keeps us from doing actual neighborhood-level activism, because posting black squares isn’t the same as loving Black peopleThe cringe is intentional, the depth is real, and Happy Taylor deserves the same literary analysis as Sad Taylor. Also, dick jokes can be spiritual practices after hard hospital shifts—chaplains said so. 🎭✨💕Timestamps: 02:00 First Impressions: Opposite Listening Trajectories 05:00 Community Theater Experience Making Art Hit Different 10:00 Moving Past Binary Thinking in Art and Theology 13:00 Policing Women’s Grief Through Celebrity Criticism 18:00 Defending Intellectual Depth in Surface-Level Work 23:00 The Cringe Factor and Permission to Be Fully Human 27:00 Folklore Fans and Projecting Pandemic Sadness 31:00 Taylor the Poet vs Taylor the Brand 34:00 Intellectualism in Giddy Romance and Fun Art 38:00 Reimagining Trauma Through Creative Storytelling 40:00 False Binary of Career vs Domestic Life for Women 46:00 Performative Activism vs Actual Community Practice 49:00 Stadium Security and Why Speaking Out Is Complicated 53:00 Performance Over Practice in Online Activism 57:00 Favorite Songs This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit irsbpodcast.substack.com
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  • 020 FMCs of the Bible: Deborah and Jael
    Today your matron saints of spice are putting our literary lens on some biblical badasses who deserve way more airtime than they get—Jael and Deborah from the book of Judges. We’re talking about a prophetess judge who sat under a palm tree settling disputes and leading military strategy, plus a married woman who lured an enemy general into her tent and drove a tent peg through his skull with #biblicalwomanhood. If you’ve ever wondered why complementarian spaces conveniently skip these ladies in Sunday school, buckle up—because this story has sexual imagery, violence reversals, and women exercising authority without a single caveat about “lack of qualified men.”Topics Covered:* Historical context of the Judges period and why Deborah stands as the only legitimately good judge in a book full of increasingly terrible men doing what’s right in their own eyes* How Deborah operates as prophetess, judge, military strategist, and worship leader simultaneously—with zero biblical explanation needed about why a woman has this authority (spoiler: she just does)* The subversive power of Jael using domestic hospitality as her battlefield, complete with intentional sexual imagery in the Hebrew poetry that flips wartime rape culture on its head* Why Barak asking Deborah to come with him instead of the woman needing male protection is a complete trope reversal, and how their friendship models men and women working together without Billy Graham rule nonsense* The uncomfortable moment when the enemy general’s mother casually expects him to be dividing “a womb or two” as war plunder—and how women in complementarian spaces still rationalize male violence today* How both these women are outsiders (Deborah leading when she “shouldn’t,” Jael as a non-Israelite) showing God consistently working through unexpected people to accomplish divine justice* The grounded confidence both women display in just doing what needs doing without fanfare, wrestling, or asking “are you sure God?” seventeen times like Gideon* Why Deborah elevating Jael in song is the ultimate women-supporting-women moment we need more of in ministry spaces that pit women against each otherAlso, the Hebrew word play puts Barak’s name in the tent peg murder weapon, which is absolutely iconic literary trolling. Biblical womanhood: be prepared to drive stakes through enemy temples at any moment.Timestamps: 02:00 Historical Context: Judges Period and Deborah’s Authority 06:00 Why This Story Never Makes It to Sunday School 09:00 Deborah Under the Palm Tree: Leadership Without Caveats 12:00 Barak and Deborah’s Friendship as Trope Reversal 15:00 Moving Past Suspicion Between Men and Women in Ministry 19:00 Barak Willing to Do Right Thing Without Getting Credit 22:00 When Women Normalize Male Violence for Other Women 25:00 Jael’s Subversive Hospitality and Sexual Imagery 28:00 One Tent in the Field: Reverse One Room Trope 30:00 Aspirational Traits: Grounded Confidence and Self-Assurance 33:00 Women Elevating Women: Deborah’s Song for Jael 36:00 Bible Reading Tips: Pay Attention When Women Speak This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit irsbpodcast.substack.com
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  • 019 A Kingdom This Cursed and Empty by Stacia Stark
    Today we're diving into book two of Stacia Stark's Kingdom of Lies series, where Prisca's relationship with time becomes a metaphor for everything we've been taught wrong about God's will, productivity culture, and why evangelical Christianity turned us into anxious overachievers who think every micro-decision could ruin our entire lives. We're unpacking how chaotic theology around time keeps us fragmented, why God wants to be with us more than use us, and how Lorian teaching Prisca to kill her own demons is actually the healthiest relationship dynamic we've ever seen in fiction.Topics Covered:* How ancient philosophers viewed time as chaotic versus Gregory of Nyssa making eternity actually good, and why evangelical end-times theology creates urgency instead of rest—because apparently we were never trained to be future ancestors* The theology of "gentle discipleship" that says God wants to be with us more than use us, which is absolutely earth-shattering for women raised to believe our worth comes from being useful helpers* Why the "God's will as single straight line" theology creates decision fatigue and OCD spirals, versus understanding God's will as a symphony we participate in rather than a choose-your-own-adventure book where wrong choices end everything* How medical caregivers make 300-700 extra decisions daily while being told other "big life choices" matter more, and why this reveals the absurdity of evangelical decision anxiety* The difference between obedience-based faith (behavior modification) and becoming-based faith (virtue formation), plus why the Bible should be authoritative but not authoritarian* How external validation systems in Christianity keep us from developing self-trust, and why Lorian deliberately separates Prisca from Telean so she learns to make her own decisions* The revolutionary concept that women get to be complex characters who contain multitudes, and why the female gaze writes emotionally healthy men instead of just hot ones* How biblical interpretation has been dominated by male perspectives (looking at you, medieval Bathsheba paintings), and why we need diverse voices telling these ancient storiesThe standard isn't that high, folks—we're just asking for emotional health and the radical idea that women are full humans. Also, decision fatigue is real and God's probably not micromanaging your college choice.Timestamps: 02:00 Ancient Philosophy of Time vs. Evangelical Urgency Culture 06:00 Why We Were Never Trained to Be Future Ancestors08:00 Chaotic Time vs. God's Gentle Discipleship Theology 14:00 God Wants to Be With Us More Than Use Us 18:00 God's Will as Symphony vs. Single Straight Line Anxiety 24:00 Obedience Culture vs. Becoming-Based Faith Formation 30:00 Decision Fatigue for Medical Caregivers and the Absurd 35:00 Learning Self-Trust When External Validation Fails 38:00 Prisca's Growth Into Leadership and Healthy Relationships 42:00 Female Gaze vs. Male Gaze in Writing Relationships 44:00 How Biblical Art Objectified Women for Centuries 47:00 Why We Need Diverse Voices in Theological Interpretation This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit irsbpodcast.substack.com
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  • 018 Author Interview with Stacia Stark
    Today we're absolutely thrilled to have Stacia Stark, author of the Kingdom of Lies series we've been obsessing over. Join your Matrons Saints of Spice, Jenai Auman, Kate Boyd, Liz Daye, and Sarah Lewan as we're diving deep into how fiction builds empathy while nonfiction can't, why religious hypocrisy hits different when you have ADHD and justice sensitivity, and how writing becomes free therapy for both authors and readers. Plus, we're talking about the beautiful complexity of female characters who get to be angry, brave, and morally gray all at once—because apparently women containing multitudes is still revolutionary.Topics Covered:* How the romance and fantasy author community became the most supportive hype squad in publishing, and why authors spanning different genres create the best creative conversations* The fascinating process of world-building from a single scene (Prisca getting pushed off a cliff by her mom) versus building from historical inspiration like female gladiators who were erased from history* Why fiction reaches people that nonfiction never could—because nobody's reading your article titled "The Damage of Religion" if they're not already convinced, but they'll pick up a fantasy romance* How religious hypocrisy and justice sensitivity fuel storytelling, plus the beautiful irony of people trying to co-opt your authorial intent to serve their own propaganda machine* The psychology of why highly intelligent people get sucked into cults and conspiracy theories (spoiler: they think they're too smart to be fooled), and how cognitive dissonance makes people cling harder when presented with contradictory evidence* Why writing complex female characters who choose bravery despite consequences feels revolutionary after centuries of women being portrayed as either pure victims or wicked temptresses* How fiction gives permission for anger, complexity, and self-assuredness that many women never received elsewhere, plus the healing power of seeing grief around not knowing who you really are* The community aspect of bravery—how characters lean on sisterhood and female friendship to do hard things, which mirrors what we need in real life right nowReading fiction isn't escapism—it's empathy training, and sometimes asking "What would Madinia do?" is exactly the kind of feminine rage energy we need to channel. 🔥✨📚Timestamps: 02:00 From Copywriter to Fantasy Author: Stacia's Writing Journey 05:00 The Romance Author Community as Ultimate Hype Squad 08:00 World-Building Process: Historical Inspiration vs. Single Scenes 14:00 Complex Character Development and Learning to Love Villains 20:00 Fiction as Empathy Builder vs. Nonfiction's Limitations 24:00 Religious Trauma, Hypocrisy, and Justice Sensitivity in Writing 31:00 When Readers Try to Co-opt Your Authorial Intent 37:00 Fiction's Unique Access to Different Worldviews 42:00 Losing Empathy and Patience in Current Political Climate 48:00 Why Smart People Fall for Cults and Conspiracy Theories 52:00 Permission to Be Brave, Angry, and Complex as Women 58:00 Self-Assuredness, Moral Clarity, and Feminine Rage as Resistance This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit irsbpodcast.substack.com
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