For a long time, the church has assumed that if people just receive the right teaching, real transformation will follow. But this conversation pushes back on that idea in a big way.
Michael Sullivant joins Brandon and Jen to explore what happens when brain science, attachment theory, and spiritual formation are brought into the same room. They unpack how the human brain was designed for belonging, why attachment is central to identity, and how emotional and relational maturity have too often been separated from spiritual maturity.
The conversation moves into the difference between left-brained information and right-brained formation, how trauma leaves unfinished stories in people, and why joy is not a side issue but a major part of becoming like Christ. Michael also shares practical rhythms that can help rewire the brain toward peace, gratitude, and deeper connection with God and community.
This one gets into discipleship, healing, joy, trauma, gratitude, group identity, healthy correction, and why the church may be overdue for a relational reformation.
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00:00:51 Why information alone does not create maturity
00:03:17 Michael Sullivan’s background and conversion story
00:07:57 From church leadership to Life Model Works and Radius Ministries
00:10:19 What Radius Ministries does
00:13:00 What neurotheology means
00:15:07 Defining attachment and why it matters
00:17:31 Attachment love and the image of God
00:19:55 Adoption, belonging, and relational need
00:22:19 Marriage, attachment, and why people matter most
00:24:44 Attachment, addiction, and the right hemisphere
00:26:52 Attachment to God and attachment to community
00:29:09 Emotional maturity and spiritual maturity belong together
00:31:32 Why the right hemisphere matters in discipleship
00:33:56 Trauma as an unfinished story
00:36:15 How to begin building healthy attachment with God
00:38:40 Gratitude as a practice that rewires the brain
00:41:06 Greeting, joy, and golden memories
00:43:27 Golden memories and recognizing God’s presence
00:45:54 Joy, sacred moments, and God memories
00:48:17 Revisiting meaningful moments with Jesus
00:50:39 Why feelings matter more than many Christians were taught
00:53:00 Log jams, deep healing, and releasing what is already in us
00:55:20 What it looks like to practice the disciplines of joy
00:57:43 Love as gladness to be with someone
01:00:09 Group identity and healthy correction
01:02:34 Joy resistance and starting small
01:05:00 Joy capacity and contagious peace
01:06:58 Regulating the right hemisphere and identity practice
01:09:23 Tongues, trust, and right-brain spirituality
01:11:47 Five minutes of gratitude three times a day
01:14:10 Trauma, fear, and the Holy Spirit as the spirit of mental health
01:17:28 Jesus in the trauma story
01:19:52 Humility, healing, and rich soil
01:22:15 Relational reformation and the future of the church
01:26:40 Recommended books and resources