A Different Perspective Official Podcast

Believing in Jesus is a step of faith.  Plain and simple.  Believing that He can and will make a difference to our lives – well that's a step of faith too.  And sometimes – it can be a huge step.
Over these last few weeks we've been talking about being the "me" we were each meant to be, and do you know, we all want that. We all want to somehow grow into who we are meant to be and to realise our destiny. And maybe over these last few weeks you've been tuning in and out and something inside you is just shouting, "YES! YES! That's what I want."
But … There's always a but. "But surely God would never do this for me. Nothing's ever going to change in my life. Okay He raised Lazarus from the dead. Okay He raised Jesus from the dead. That was a couple of thousand years ago. Okay God can do anything He wants but you know something, I just don't think He'd do it for me." That's the crutch, isn't it?
It's amazing. People can believe in a whole bunch of things. We can believe that God could forgive us. We can believe that Jesus rose from the dead. We can believe that we have eternal life. In a sense they're all easy because they can seem a long way off. But when we look at the very real issues and problems of life sometimes they're really big and ugly.
Believing that God can intervene and make things better well, because these problems and issues are so close and sometimes when they're so close they look so big and God feels so far away, believing that God can make a difference. That can be a lot harder. Believing that he can deal with those yucky bits inside us, that can be even harder.
I was an incredibly tough, self-centred businessman. I used to eat wimps for breakfast, you know. So when it came to believing all those other things about God and Jesus and stuff I knew straight away there was some tough things for me to deal with. And on top of it all I was going through a marriage breakdown and divorce. You think, 'surely not Berni'. Absolutely, that's when I came to faith in Jesus twelve years ago. That's life, That's my reality.
I was listening the other day just to a high-profile businessman who I know really well and he was talking about his life. He took a company from nine million to over half a billion in turn over a few years ago. Everyone looked at him and thought, 'what a super star, what a corporate hero this man is'. But in secret he had his head down over a toilet bowl and he was coughing up blood because that's what the pressure was doing to him on the inside and he almost lost his marriage.
The crazy thing you and I do, we all are prone to it. We look at outward signs of success. God, God looks at our hearts. He looks at the stuff that's going on on the inside and I love that about Him. You know something, if he isn't in the business of fixing those things, whatever they are (and yours and mine are bound to be different mind you,) then what's the point? I mean if God isn't going to make a difference, if it doesn't work, what's the point? You know something, when we're in the middle of those things it's so hard, it's so incredibly hard to believe that he could ever come along and make a difference. You know what I mean or is it just me?
The apostle Paul was writing to the Ephesian Church and he was busting to help them with exactly that, this is what he wrote almost two thousand years ago. He writes:
I pray also that the eyes of your heart might be enlightened so that you would know the hope to which God's called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength which he exerted in Jesus when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms far above any rule on earth.
You see, Paul's saying here as you get to know God better, my prayer for you is that you would know that the same power that raised Jesus Christ from the dead, that very same power is the power that's at work in you and that's a promise of God. Paul said, "I want you to know the hope, the riches and the power that you have, the incomparably great power, that power that raised Jesus from the dead is the power that's at work in you and me".
A few years back I went to Toronto, Canada and I visited the CN tower which is the tallest, man-made, free standing structure in the world and part way up at 342 metres there's an observation deck. Now the trick with this observation deck, it's enclosed but it has a glass floor. Now they tell you that the glass floor is five times stronger than a concrete floor. Ha ha! Well that's great but it still doesn't help. I mean I looked down at this glass floor and I was petrified and it took me such a long time to go out there.
It's an awful feeling when you look down between your feet and you see the ground way below and these little specks flying around, they're birds but they feel like they're miles away. And I wasn't the only one. There were a lot of people who were really scared to walk out on that glass floor even though the engineers will tell you the glass floor was five times stronger than the concrete floor.
But here it is. If you or I want to be the "me" we were meant to be we have to walk out onto God's promises and put our faith in Him. Just like that glass floor. And okay, it's unknown and it maybe an uncomfortable feeling, it maybe unnatural to trust God with our lives.
You see, people want to believe in Jesus from a distance and that's not what He wants us to do. He wants us to put our faith in Him. To put our trust in Him. To trust Him with our lives because His plan is to give us life in all it's abundance, hope and riches and power. The apostle Paul again in Galatians, chapter 2, verse 20 writes this, he says:
I have been crucified with Christ and it's no longer I that live but Christ who lives in me.
Now then, a lot of Christians know that passage particularly well but this next bit is the one that I want to point to.
The life I live in the body I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave Himself for me.
Let me say that again, "The life I live in the body I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave Himself for me."
Pretty safe to believe in Jesus from a distance and then we grumble and say, "How come I'm not living the life he meant me to have? How come I'm not being the "me" I was meant to be? How come I have a sense that I'm missing out on my destiny?" The answer is because you don't become the "me" you were meant to be until you have that relationship with Jesus and you trust him with your life and when you live the life in the body by faith in the Son of God.
When we take a hold of that life, the life that He promises us, we discover what it is to be the 'me' we were meant to be. And it's a step of faith. We have to step out and believe it before we can see it. That's His plan and, I know, sometimes it's hard to do and sometimes we're afraid and sometimes we feel like we don't have enough faith but just take the step, just take the step and say, "Jesus, I'm going to trust you with my life, with every little bit. With that difficult teenage kid, with the relationship I'm having with my wife or my husband, with the problem I'm having at work. I want you in that space because I want to trust that part of my life with you."
He wants you and me to be the person He made us to be; to live life with an active faith in Jesus Christ. When we take that step out, He steps in and He does things we could never do. He deals with things we can never deal with and the reason He does it that way is so that you and I can never boast, "It was me. Haw, haw look what I did, I did it." I didn't. He did.

When we make a change – a real change for the better in our lives, it involves in effect dying to the old things and living in the new things.  But try as we will, sometimes we can still be wrapped up in the old.
I don't know if you've ever watched one of those old black and white westerns on TV, I grew up with them. There were the baddies and the goodies and then there was that ubiquitous wanted poster, you know the one that said "Wanted. Dead or Alive."
Now if we really want to live life to the full, to live out our destiny, to be the me we were meant to be then we have to figure out what we're alive to and what we're dead to because so often, things that look like they'll bring us life end up poisoning us and the things that we think are too much trouble, too hard, they're the ones that bring us life. It's true in sport, it's true in work, it's true in life itself.
When I was age 36, about 12 years ago now, I knew I wasn't being the 'me' I was meant to be. I had a lot of potential but somehow never seemed to fulfil it, always it seemed to allude my grasp. I was running an Information Technology Consulting business and we had some really clever people, we were really good at what we did. But the business never quite seemed to blossom the way it should have. It did eventually after I gave my life to Jesus.
In that process of change, letting go of my old ways and taking hold of the new ones, I had to figure out that I was going to be dead to some old things and alive to some new ones. I had to believe what God had to say about me and take hold of his new life that he'd given me. I had to die to some things. To sin. In Romans chapter 6, verse 2 it says:
What shall we say then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace might increase? By no means! We are dead to sin, how can we live in it any longer. The past. If anyone is in Christ they are a new creation, old things have passed away and look, everything is new.
I had to die to myself and my selfishness. For we know that our old self was crucified with Jesus so that our sin might be done away with so that we're no longer slaves to sin because anyone who has died is freed from sin, to the law, the whole rule based attitude to religion. For sin shall not be a master because you aren't bound by the law anymore but you're walking in God's grace. So my brothers you are dead to the law through the body of Christ and dead to be dead to the devil. Now I don't know whether you believe the devil exists, I do because Jesus did but I'm dead to him because God has rescued me from the dominion of darkness and brought me to the kingdom of light.
We have to start believing what God has to say about all this stuff, about sin, about dying to the past, about dying to ourselves, about doing away with rule based religion, about dying to the devil. I had so much sin in my life, there was so much stuff there I didn't know where to begin. Self, I was so full of myself, an ego the size of a small planet and my past was full of so many hurts and mistakes. And I was so prone to sort of a dreary, legalistic, rule bound approach to religion. You know we have been transferred. Jesus paid a huge price.
A great story told by Nicky Gumble who does the Alpha course. (If you've ever been involved, it's a great course to do.) And Nicky Gumble talks about the European footballers. You know when they get transferred from one team to another team a huge amount of money changes hands in transfer fees, millions of pounds are paid to transfer a footballer from one team to another team. But once the footballers gone to the new team, he plays for them. He wears their colours. He goes to their training sessions. If the old coach from the old team rang him up and said, "Where are you for training?" He would say, "Well, I've transferred to a new team. I go to the new team's training now."
When we make a change – a real change for the better in our lives, it involves in effect dying to the old things and living in the new things.  But try as we will, sometimes we can still be wrapped up in the old.
And it's the same thing what Jesus did for you and me on the cross. We've been transferred from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light. We don't play with the old team anymore. We don't train with the old team anymore. We don't wear it's colours anymore. We're on His team and He paid for all. He laid his life down so that you and I would be forgiven and have a clean start in the kingdom of light.
Wondering why I can't be the me I'm meant to be? Wondering why it's not working for me? How come my life is not going where I want it to go? Well, are we dead to this old stuff? Have we said, "I'm on a new team; I'm playing for a new team. I'm not going to this old stuff anymore. I'm alive to some new things, I'm alive to Christ"?
I've been crucified with Christ and it's no longer 'I live' but Christ who lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians 2:20)
I'm alive to the Holy Spirit because through Christ Jesus, the spirit of life, has set me free from the law of sin and death. (Romans 8)
I'm alive to God the Father. Jesus said:
If anyone loves me they'll obey my commandments and my Dad and I will love them and we will come and make our home with them. (John 14)
I'm alive to grace and truth. Jesus became a man and dwelt among us and we've seen his glory, the glory as of the only one of the Father full of grace and truth.
We're alive to righteousness, peace and joy. The word isn't about food or drink or physical things, it's about righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
It's like this, you know, if you have two dogs, a big black one, a Doberman and a small little white one, the question is, which one is going to grow up stronger? And the answer is, the one you end up feeding. You know it doesn't matter what area of life, if we want to achieve something we have to give some things up. It's normally about giving up short term gratification for longer term gain.
When I was a kid growing up, my parents made me learn the piano. To tell you the truth a lot of the time when I was young I just hated having to go to practice, it drove me nuts. Today? Today I can sit down at the piano and make it sing and it brings me such enormous delight to sit down at the grand piano my Mum gave me and to play it and to worship God and to enjoy it.
Whether it's dieting or exercise or saving or learning all of those things, good things cost us something. You want to lose weight you have to die to the chocolate bar and come alive to some healthy foods and exercise. You want to save up for a deposit for a house; you have to go without some things today that you'd like in order to have the money to pay the deposit on the house. You'd like to study and get a degree; you have to give up some money and some leisure time now to get there.
You want to live an amazing life, an abundant life? You want to be the me you were meant to be? It's time to die to some things. There are some things in our lives that stop us from being the "me" we were meant to be. Maybe it's anger, maybe it's a sense of unforgiveness, maybe, maybe it's a nasty attitude, maybe it's a selfish attitude. I mean, there are so many things they're like, they're like grave clothes that we're wrapped in. Jesus came to give us this new life but we're not living it because we've still got one foot in the grave.
Maybe this isn't the message you wanted to hear today but deep in your heart you're going, "You know something, I think God might be talking to me today. I think God might be putting His finger on exactly what it is that's stopping me from being the me I was meant to be."
God has a plan, He designed you, He dreamt you up, He hand crafted you, you are His workmanship. He has a plan. He has a whole bunch of good things for you to walk into but it's not going to happen while we've got one foot in the grave.

It's one thing to believe in Jesus and to believe in eternal life – but there are people walking around who believe that stuff, yet somehow they're not quite living the life that He promised us for here and now.
You know, I reckon if there is a God, I mean if God is God then he is going to want us to live life to the full. I mean outrageously, abundantly to the full. Not a two out of ten, not a seven out of ten, a minimum of ten out of ten and then some. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs, there always will be. But I don't know, my hunch is he'd want us to live a life of outrageous joy right here through the ups and the downs.
But I know so many people, people who believe in Jesus and people who don't, who seem to be living a two or a five or a seven out of ten kind of life always with this nagging sense of destiny that there's something more for them but never really get in close to that. Me? I want to be the 'me' I was meant to be, how about you?
And yet there's an amazing portrait of that kind of half-life, not really complete life, in the Bible. Yesterday we looked at the story of Lazarus, that he was dying, he was a good mate of Jesus, they came to tell Jesus "Lazarus is about to kick to bucket." And Jesus waits a few days before he goes to Lazarus. And do you know what everyone says when he gets there? "Jesus, how come you didn't get here sooner? You could have healed him." I mean they'd seen Jesus do healing stuff.
It's a bit like us, we look at Jesus sometimes and God and we look at the mess we have in life and we say, "God, how can you dish this up to me? Why didn't you come earlier? You could have made it better".
Jesus said to the people, "You know something, I'm glad I didn't get there because God is about to make a point and to do something you don't expect". Everyone wanted Jesus to have fixed the problem before Lazarus died but Jesus said to his disciples, "Lazarus is dead and for your sake I'm glad I wasn't there so that you might believe. Come on, let's go to him." So no-one could see it.
Jesus was saying it to Martha, his sister. He said, "Your brother will rise again." And Martha said, "I know he'll rise in the resurrection on the last day." So she doesn't get it, she's happy to believe in "pie in the sky when you die" not "steak on the plate while you wait". Let's pick up the story and just read the story, if you have a Bible you can go to it, it's John chapter 11 and it begins at verse 38:
Jesus was deeply moved when he came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. "Take away the stone" he said. "But Lord," said Martha the sister of Lazarus, "By this time there's a bad odour, I mean he's been dead for four days." And Jesus said, "Didn't I tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God."
I love that, "If you believed you would see the glory of God."
So they took away the stone and then Jesus looked up and said, "Father I thank You that you heard me, I always knew that You would but I'm saying this for the benefit of the people around me, they might believe that You sent me." And when he said this Jesus said in a loud voice, "Lazarus come on out!" The dead man came out. His hands and feet were wrapped with strips of linen and a cloth was around his face and Jesus said to them, "Take off the grave clothes and let him go."
Jesus was deeply moved. I mean, he loved Lazarus, He cared for him. He was a good mate. He wept for him. So it's not some publicity stunt but it's a tender encounter and people were thinking, 'well, what's Jesus doing? He can't do this I mean Lazarus is dead, Lazarus is on the nose'. I reckon we have to be careful about telling God what He can't do, about putting God in this little box. Imagining somehow that he could never bring Lazarus back to life, imagining somehow he could never really bring life back into us.
You see all these people, Martha, Mary, the disciples, all the others, they'd seen Jesus do amazing miracles, they knew him. Yet they didn't believe that he could bring a man to life. But he did.
But look at the picture of Lazarus when he walks out of the tomb. "Lazarus, come out" said Jesus. "The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen and a cloth around his face." You see, Lazarus was bound up in his grave clothes and this is a picture that looks like a lot of people that I know, living this half-life. On the one hand, Jesus has spoken a word of life into them, on the other they're still bound up in their grave clothes, bound up in the things of the past.
When Lazarus walked out of that tomb, beneath those grave clothes he was living and breathing, there was colour in his cheeks but he couldn't go living the rest of his life in those grave clothes and the same is true for us. Some people have life from Jesus and yet they have one foot in the past, in that dead half-life that didn't work, one foot in Jesus' new life kind of hoping things will work out and they never quite do it.
You know something, there's a reason for that, you can't live your life wrapped in grave clothes. Let me say that again, you can't live your life wrapped in grave clothes. If we believe in Jesus we're like Lazarus, we have colour in our cheeks, he's breathed life into our souls yet people want to hang on to the things of the past, it just doesn't work.
What sort of life do you think it would have been for Lazarus if he had continued on in those grave clothes? And anyway that wasn't Jesus' plan for him, look at what Jesus says. Jesus said to them, "Take off the grave clothes and let him go." You like that last bit? "Let him go. Set him free; set him free to be the Lazarus I meant him to be."
Being the "me" I was meant to be is a "boots and all thing". "Oh, you know Berni but I want to hang on to this compromise or that attitude, I still want to cheat or lie or be tight with my money or not serve other people and I want to be selfish because you know, all this Jesus stuff is not particularly convenient". Great! Great, stay in your grave clothes but don't expect to be the me you were meant to be because you can't be.
The alternative is to set our hearts like flint on being the "me" we were meant to be no matter the cost. You know there is a cost? There is a cost for a heroin addict to give up heroin, there is a cost for an alcoholic to give up alcohol, there is a cost for a smoker to give up smoking.
The first step is admitting where we are and the second step is deciding, here and now, "you know something, that joker on the radio has a point, I have to do something. I can't live my life in these grave clothes anymore and you know our grave clothes are all different."
For some people, it might be lying and cheating, for other people it might be gossiping, for other people it might just be an attitude of selfishness. You look in the mirror and you know what it is.
If you want to be the "me" you were meant to be, you've gotta do what Jesus said. Take off the grave clothes 'cause that's what sets you free. And Jesus is the one who does that. We can come to him and say, "Lord, I just heard this message and you know something? I've got some grave clothes happening in my life, I've got one foot back in that half-life and I recognise that and I don't know what to do about it and I want you to help me".
That's the starting point. That invitation for Jesus is when he steps in and He starts taking control and He deals with the things we can't deal with. Sometimes we have to make tough decisions and sometimes we have to ditch some things to get on with life. The choice belongs to each one of us.

You know, it can sometimes be easier to believe in eternal life, than the fact that God wants to give us a rich, abundant life here and now.  What do you think?
It's great to be with you again this week and we continue on with a series that I've called, "Discover Your Destiny". Can I ask you something? Are you really living life to the full? I mean really. So many people are struggling to discover their destiny and okay, maybe life's chugging along okay but we all have a sense that, well somehow I have a destiny, a life I'm supposed to live, a "me" I'm meant to be.
Now I don't apologise for the fact that over the last couple of weeks we've been unpacking that from A Different Perspective, from God's perspective. I just passionately believe that He so wants each one of us to discover when we have a relationship with Him, a real relationship you know, that all of a sudden we can be the "me" we were meant to be. To, in a sense, die to the old me and rise as a new one.
Now I love how Jesus tackled that when his good friend Lazarus upped and died on him. It's a powerful story the story of Lazarus. It's about a real man who died and whom Jesus bought back to life again. Now there's something in that story, I always like to look at what Jesus did and say, "What does it tell me about Him? What does it tell me about God? What does it tell me about God's attitude?" And it does tell us what he means for us here and now today.
For me the story of Lazarus has had a powerful impact on my life, day to day. Now there are two parts to the story, we'll look at the first half today and the next one tomorrow on the program. So let's have a bit of a read, if you have a Bible you can grab it. John, chapter 11 is where you'll find this story:
Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. Now this Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who previously poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair. So the sister sent word to Jesus, "Lord, the one you love, Lazarus, is sick."
When he heard this Jesus said, "The sickness won't end in death. No, it's for Gods glory so that Gods Son might be glorified through it." Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. Yet when he heard that Lazarus was sick he stayed where he was for two more days then he said to his disciples, "Well okay, let's get up and go to Judea."
"But Jesus," they said, "A short while ago the Jews there tried to stone you and yet you're going back." And Jesus answered, "Aren't there twelve hours of daylight in a day? A man who walks by day won't stumble for he sees the worlds light; it's when he walks by night that he stumbles for he has no light."
After he said this he went on to tell them, "Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep but I'm going there to wake him up again." Now his disciples replied, "Lord, if he sleeps he'll get better." Jesus had been speaking of his death but the disciples thought he meant that Lazarus was just asleep. So then he told them plainly, "Lazarus is dead and for your sake I'm glad I wasn't there so that you may believe but let us go to him."
An interesting story, Lazarus a good mate of Jesus is dying. Jesus could have prevented it, he could have gone there and healed Lazarus, I mean that's why they sent for him, everyone had seen Jesus do this healing stuff but he didn't go because God was going to use this to make a point, a point I think at a couple of levels. The first level is purely to attest to who Jesus is, the power of Jesus because as we'll see tomorrow, ultimately Jesus brings Lazarus back to life again but I think there's a second point, a deeper point, a point that speaks to you and me, here and now. That God is in the business of bringing the dead back to life.
The last couple of weeks we've dealt with an issue that, well so many of us don't really want to deal with head on – sin. I mean in our society sin is a four-letter word. The stuff in our lives we know is wrong that robs us of life itself. When I look back on my life as a wealthy, apparently successful businessman, on the outside people envied me, I seemed to have it all together, I seemed to have it all but on the inside I was dying, I was dead and empty and hollow just like a shell, truly. I described myself as a dead man walking.
You know something, doesn't matter how much we deny it or try and put a respectable face to it or sell it as a feature of our freedom to do whatever we want. Sin does that to all of us, it makes us dead inside and that's how God sees us, that's how we are until we encounter this Jesus. At this point someone might be saying, 'come on Berni, what an old-fashioned point of view.' If you're in that camp I encourage you to do something, take a look, a good hard look at the way that you're living your life and ask yourself, am I being the me I was meant to be?
God lets us go through this death that sin is, God lets us be that 'dead man walking' for a reason. It's the same as with Lazarus, Jesus waited for him to die before bringing him back to life again. God wanted to make a point that he is in the new life business and it's a miracle and he needed to make the point because sometimes we just don't get it, I didn't and nor did Lazarus' sisters. Let's take a look:
On his arrival Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. Bethany was only two miles from Jerusalem and many Jews came to Mary and Martha to comfort them. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming she went out to meet him and Mary stayed at home. "Lord", Martha said to him, "If you'd been here, if you'd only been here earlier Lazarus wouldn't have died". And Jesus said to her, "Your brother will rise again". And Martha answered, "I know he will rise again in the resurrection on that last day". Jesus said to her, "I'm the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me will live even though he dies and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this? And she said, "Yes Lord. I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God who has come into the world."
And after she had said this she went back and called her sister Mary. "The teacher Jesus is here". She said, "He's asking for you". When Mary heard this she quickly got up and went out to him. Now Jesus had not yet entered their village but was still in the place out where Martha and he had met. When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house comforting her noticed how quickly she got up and went out they followed her thinking that she was going to the tomb to mourn there for Lazarus.
When Mary reached Jesus and saw him she fell at his feet and said, "Lord, if only you had been here my brother wouldn't have died." And when Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who had come along, also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and troubled. "Where have you laid him?" "Come and see Lord." And Jesus wept. Then the Jews said, "See Jesus loved Lazarus." But some of them said, "Couldn't he who opened the eyes of the blind have come and kept this man from dying."
Nobody was expecting Jesus to come along and raise Lazarus from the dead, they were all regretting the fact that Jesus didn't get there earlier to heal him. They'd seen Jesus do healing stuff; they'd never seen Jesus bring a man back to life. The sisters knew Jesus, they'd seen the miracles, they couldn't imagine how here and now, Jesus could bring their brother back to life and isn't that sometimes the way with us.
We look at our lives and we see how dead things are inside and we look at God and say, "God, why didn't you show up earlier? Why did you let me marry this person? Why did you let this happen to my child? Why couldn't you have been there and stopped it from happening? And we can't imagine how God could breathe new life into that situation.
We can believe he could have done something back there, we can believe that one day we will rise again and have eternal life but it can be so hard to believe that Jesus could come and bring a new life today. Let me ask you, what do you believe?

I passionately believe that God has the most amazing plan for your life and mine.  In His heart He conceived us and with His hands – He made us who we are. And He wants us to be the person He made us to be.
Over these last couple of weeks on the program we've just been spending some time discovering your destiny. Survey after survey tells us that 75% of people don't enjoy their work. I wonder how many of those are trying to do a job they just weren't cut out to do, it's just not them.
And yet it's not hard to see how different we each are.  Some people are great working with children for instance. Me? That would drive me crazy – all that noise and running around.  No.  Not me.  Other people are great with their hands – they seem to be able to turn all these pieces of wood into a house somehow – I wouldn't know where to begin.
Some people are great at sports and athletics – hmmm I love to stay fit, but I can't throw and catch and kick all that well. It's as plain as the nose on your face and mine that people are all made to be different. And what is such a tragedy – we've talked a little bit about this already so far this week – is people trying to do things that they're just not cut out to do.
A child at school who is great at creative writing – but terrible at mathematics.  So – what do we do? We make them work harder at their mathematics, instead of encouraging them to go with the creative writing thing that we're good at. Of course, we all have to do a few things that we're not good at from time to time, but if we end up majoring in those things, it's a disaster.  When I left school I was accepted into a medicine degree – I would have made a terrible doctor, and a law degree – and same with being a lawyer because the law is all about detail and I'm not into detail.
So – pardon me for saying so, but blind Freddie can see that we have all been made differently.  I'm a fairly unemotional person – it's not that I don't care about people. I do, deeply, I'm just not an emotional person.  I'm not into hugs and kisses from people the way others are.  I don't tend to feel other people's pain, instead I want to do things that help them not feel the pain.  That's how I'm wired.  And it took me a long time – a very long time – to get comfortable inside my skin, to get comfortable with who I am, and stop trying to be like other people are.
I think it was Oscar Wilde who said – Be yourself, Everybody else is already taken.  Pretty good thought that.
Okay baby is born right, what does it grow up to be? It grows into who it already is, let me explain. A little baby gets born, it can't even go to the toilet on its own, it can't feed itself, it can't protect itself – in fact it can't do anything pretty much except eat, sleep, scream and dirty it's nappy. So …is it any less a human being than you and me? Well, no of course not, this little bubs is just in an early stage of life and just like we all did, it goes through all stages. It begins to recognise and smile at its parents and the psyche develops and it grows an awareness and it crawls and walks and it becomes a toddler and it goes to school and becomes a teenager and then an adult, it's a natural progression.
What is it that influences who that little baby becomes when it grows up? Well two things, firstly its natural disposition, its abilities, who God made that child to be and secondly, the things that happen along the way. Now some of those things along the way are positive, some of those things like the good parents who love you and good teachers at school. Those things develop the child's natural abilities, but some of the things that happen rob the person, rob the child, give it a wrong impression of itself.
You see bad things will always happen to good people, they do, they always have and they always will. But if we know who we are and if we let God into our lives to be with us, to develop us, to care for us, to nurture us, those bad things instead of robbing us end up enhancing our characters. The negatives get turned into a positive. The problem is so many people never get with God's plan for who they are.
For years I tried to be all things to all people, I set myself up to be this and set myself up to be that because I thought it would make me look important and good. But it wasn't until I got with God's plan and started seeing myself the way he sees me that I really started being the me I was meant to be. God made me to be doing what I'm doing right now spending this time with you. I'm never as happy and as fulfilled as when I'm sitting here with you.
A friend of mine, a Pastor, once said to me, "You know Berni, you should be more pastoral than that." In other words, you should be around lots more people and you should do this and you should do that and you should be this. And I love people but think about it, much of what I do is I prepare these programs alone and then I come into a studio basically alone.
Okay millions of people are listening around the world but they're not in this room with me right now. If God made me to be someone who needed to be around a lot of people, don't you think I'd get awfully lonely doing what I do? He didn't so I don't.
Who are you? Who did God make you to be? Maybe you're just one of those people who loves entertaining and having a house full of people over all the time. That's a gift, go and be that person, go and grow into that, go and love it and enjoy it and be the person who God meant you to be. Maybe, maybe you're a quiet, backroom kind of person who does things, book keeping or cleaning or cooking and you know, when you're doing those things you feel so fulfilled, can I tell you something?
Go for it, if that's what God made you to be, don't compare with other people, grow in that, develop that, be delighted with who God made you. When we compare ourselves with others, we aspire to be someone who we aren't, who we were never made to be and come on – that's just plain crazy. I'm excited about who God's made me to be – and I focus on the things I'm really good at, try to grow in areas where I'm still a bit immature … and leave the stuff I'm not good at to other people – people who actually love doing those things because they're good at them.  It's not really that complicated, is it?
Eph 2:10 For we are God's workmanship created in Christ Jesus to do the good things that God prepared beforehand for us to walk into.
That's exactly what God's Word says – do the things that God prepared for you – not the things that other people want you to do.
God knows who we are, he made us and he made us to be the me we were meant to be. Right now in this instant, His heart and His eyes are on you and me and He knows who He made us to be and He is delighting in us. Wake up! It is time to stop trying to be someone else, it is time to stop trying to squeeze into the world's mould, into a shape that doesn't fit, into something that ultimately becomes a distressing straight jacket. He wants each one of us to be the person He meant us to be.
I am so excited because God has a plan, he has a plan for me, he has a plan for you. And we only discover who we're meant to be - it only happens when we get right up close to him, when we have a relationship with him through Jesus Christ. Jesus said, "I am the vine and you are the branches. Apart from me you can do nothing." And you know? You're going to grow different fruit to me 'cause that's how Jesus made us. And if you want to grow the fruit that you were meant to grow in your life, you need to get right up close with Him. His word and His Spirit in a rich and dynamic relationship that's so wondrous and so huge and so safe and secure and at the same time exciting, then and only then can we be the me we were meant to be.
I'd like to encourage you just right now, look at your life, are you being the me God made you to be? Because if you're not he wants to change that for you today. God wants you to get close to him so that you can live out the life he planned for you.