Becoming Wilkinson

Send us a textIn this engaging podcast episode, host Wilkinson reconnects with Rick McCarthy, who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man. From his childhood in Boston to navigating relationships and family dynamics, Rick discusses the challenges and triumphs of coming out. He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic, his career evolution, and the importance of community involvement. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-love, personal growth, and the lessons learned throughout life's journey.TAKEAWAYSRick shares his experience of growing up in a traditional family in Boston.He discusses the process of coming out and the reactions from his family.Rick emphasizes the importance of self-love and acceptance.He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic on his relationships.Rick highlights the significance of community involvement and activism.He encourages listeners to seek help and get involved in their communities.Rick believes in the power of personal growth and self-discovery.He shares insights on navigating relationships and the importance of communication.Rick discusses the idea that relationships can be successful even if they end.He concludes with a message of abundance and living life to the fullest.Image: Copyright Wilkinson 2025Contact Wilkinson: [email protected]

Send us a textCHAPTERS00:00Introduction to Murph and the Gay Men's Collective02:43Murph's Early Life and Self-Discovery05:08Coming Out and Understanding Identity07:50First Experiences and Relationships10:07Exploring Sexuality and Community12:34Uber Stories and Encounters15:00Bachelorette Parties and Observations17:29Reflections on Safe Spaces and Community Dynamics22:33Observations on Social Dynamics in Gay Bars23:43Navigating the New York City Gay Scene27:09The Transition from Acting to Retail Sales32:35Skills Transfer: From Performance to Sales Training34:43Future Aspirations and Retirement Plans43:22Life Lessons and Personal InsightsSUMMARYIn this engaging conversation, Murph shares his journey from his early life in Ireland to his experiences in the LGBTQ community, including coming out, navigating the AIDS epidemic, and his life in New York City. He discusses his time in the drag scene, memorable Uber stories, and the lessons he's learned throughout his life. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, and the joy of travel and personal connections.TAKEAWAYSMurph's early experiences shaped his understanding of his identity.Coming out can be a complex journey influenced by societal perceptions.The AIDS epidemic had a profound impact on the LGBTQ community during the 80s and 90s.Personal relationships can be both innocent and transformative during adolescence.Life in New York City offered Murph a vibrant LGBTQ culture and opportunities.Memorable encounters while driving Uber reveal the diversity of experiences in Palm Springs.Traveling can lead to self-discovery and deeper connections with others.Lessons learned include the importance of taking chances and being true to oneself.Respect is more important than being liked in personal relationships.Finding joy in the small moments can reset one's perspective.BIOJohn "Murf" is Irish-born, New York-based, and living proof that wanderlust, wit, and a well-curated playlist can take you far.He’s as happy glamping in the woods as he is lounging on a beach — ideally after museum-hopping and a three-course lunch. A Modigliani fan, Paris devotee, and certified foodie, he curates his life like his music: part 70s disco, part 90s nostalgia, all vibes.Gay, glam, and occasionally grounded, John believes in good shoes, great stories, and never saying no to dessert — or a flight to somewhere fabulous.To contact Wilkinson:  [email protected]

Send us a textCHAPTERS00:00Navigating Technical Glitches and Film Discussions02:39Exploring Nuanced Acting in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps'05:24The Collaborative Spirit of Indie Films08:08Intimacy and Comfort in Filming10:51Future Projects and Industry Insights13:20Reflections on Humanity and Personal GrowthSUMMARYIn this engaging conversation, Matt Pascua reflects on his experiences in the film industry, discussing his roles in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps', the creative process behind 'Scrambled', and the importance of intimacy coordination in film. He shares insights on navigating current events, personal growth, and the significance of kindness in everyday life. The discussion highlights the collaborative nature of indie projects and the emotional impact of storytelling.TAKEAWAYSThe importance of emotional connection in acting.Indie projects foster a family-like atmosphere.Intimacy coordinators enhance safety in film production.The journey of filmmaking is as important as the final product.Kindness can significantly impact someone's day.Navigating the film industry requires adaptability and openness.Creative collaboration leads to better storytelling.Recognizing personal growth is essential for happiness.Current events can challenge faith in humanity.Art can reflect societal issues and provoke thought.BIOMATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.Matt's IG/:  https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/Photo credit:  Kristi Griffith Photography

Send us a textTHIS IS PART ONE.  PART TWO WILL BE RELEASED IN A FEW DAYS.:00Introduction and Background02:47Journey into Acting05:37Navigating the Acting Industry08:28Life in New York vs. LA11:25Travel and Personal Life14:07Finding Love and Relationships16:54Coming Out and Identity19:39Family Dynamics and Support20:33Exploring Sexuality and Identity23:21The Making of 'Say Yes'27:53Character Reflections and Personal ConnectionsSUMMARYIn this conversation, Matt Pascua shares his journey from a Midwest upbringing to becoming an actor in New York City. He discusses the challenges and joys of navigating the acting world, the competitive nature of LA and New York, and his experiences with love and identity. Matt reflects on his coming out journey, the support from his family, and how he relates to his character in the independent film 'Say Yes.' The conversation highlights themes of self-discovery, emotional honesty, and the importance of community.TAKEAWAYSMatt Pascua grew up outside of Chicago and didn't pursue acting until later in life.He found his passion for acting while studying at Ithaca College.Matt emphasizes the importance of emotional honesty in acting.He believes there is no correct trajectory in an acting career.Self-assessment is crucial for artists to ensure they find joy in their work.Matt's journey of coming out was supported by his younger brother, who is also gay.He values the growth and learning that comes with family dynamics.Matt identified as bisexual and acknowledged his late exploration of this part of his identity. He now simply identifies as Queer.He shares a positive experience of finding love through Grindr during the pandemic.Matt relates deeply to his character Caden in 'Say Yes,' infusing personal experiences into his performance.BIOMATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.Matt's IG/:  https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/Contact Wilkinson: [email protected]

Send us a textCHAPTERS:00:00Introduction to Personal Growth Journey09:25Experiences at Awaken Your Highest Self Conference18:39Breathwork and Emotional Healing27:29Ancestral Connections and Healing36:35Transformative Breathwork and Financial InsightsDESCRIPTION:In this conversation, Wilkinson shares his personal journey of self-discovery and healing through breathwork and spiritual practices. He reflects on his experiences at a mens retreat and also at a recent  "Awaken Your Higher Self" conference, discussing the emotional breakthroughs he encountered, particularly related to his family dynamics and his recent cancer diagnosis. The conversation emphasizes the importance of openness to experiences, the healing power of breathwork, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding.TAKEAWAYSWilkinson emphasizes the importance of being open to experiences.Breathwork can trigger profound emotional releases and memories.He recalls a significant breakthrough during a breathwork session.Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal healing.The concept of allowing others to have their own journey is vital.Wilkinson's cancer diagnosis has prompted deep introspection.He experienced a sense of connection with his ancestors during breathwork.The healing process involves confronting past traumas and shame.Wilkinson's journey reflects a shift towards love and kindness.He remains hopeful about his health and the lessons it brings.Contact Wilkinson at [email protected]