Shane Doan: Raising Resilient Kids, Surviving Social Media & Playing the Right Way
Shane Doan, a former NHL player and current special advisor for the Toronto Maple Leafs, shares his insights on youth sports, parenting, and the importance of community in sports. He discusses his own experiences growing up in a small town, the value of playing multiple sports, and the challenges of coaching his own children. Shane emphasizes the significance of letting children experience both success and failure, embracing what's best for the team over the individual, and the role of sports in teaching life lessons.Chapters 00:00 Introduction03:37 Why Shane Cares Deeply About Youth Sports04:55 Parenting from the Sidelines06:20 What He Wanted His Kids to Get From Sports07:30 Learning as a Parent from Different Sports08:30 Dealing with Expectations and Legacy Pressure10:15 Teaching Confidence and Perspective12:25 Josh Doan’s Journey: The Long Game14:55 The Kamloops Moment: Testing Desire17:50 Letting Kids Choose Their Path19:15 The Value of Failure20:30 Guiding, Not Controlling23:05 Learning Through Failure (and a Little Humor)28:20 Playing the Game the Right Way31:40 Small-Town Roots: Halkirk, Alberta33:15 Community vs. Club Sports36:50 Multi-Sport Benefits and Perspective38:50 Balancing Club and School Sports41:30 Longevity Through Athletic Diversity43:45 Lessons from His Parents45:22 Managing Pressure and Emotions49:20 Listening Instead of Fixing51:20 The “Anything Is Possible” Mindset53:00 Coaching Your Own Child55:00 Influential Coaches and Mentors56:30 Navigating Parental Relationships as a Coach59:00 Building People, Not Just Players01:00:30 The Social Media Challenge01:03:20 Highlights vs. Real Life01:05:00 Parenting and Social Media Boundaries01:06:50 The Biggest Issue in Youth Sports Today01:09:20 Fixing the Game: Rebuilding Understanding01:12:41 Closing Thoughts
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Gareth Rees: Access for All, Culture through Community & What are You Being Sold?
Gareth Rees, a proud Canadian who is a prominent figure in international rugby, discusses the multifaceted nature of youth sports. He emphasizes the importance of community, parental influence, and the need for a balanced approach to sports participation. Rees reflects on his own experiences and the lessons learned through sport, advocating for multi-sport participation and the necessity of creating a supportive environment for young athletes. He also addresses the pressures faced by parents and children in the competitive sports landscape, urging a shift in focus from high performance to holistic development.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Gareth Rees04:25 His Passion for Sports05:45 Parental Behaviour Youth Sports07:05 Navigating the Business of Youth Sports08:40 Where Should Parents Look for Direction11:00 Gareth's Early Sports Journey and Influences13:40 The Importance of his Parents Modeling Participation in Sports15:00 Sports Parents and The Fear of "Not Making It"17:35 The Value of Independence in Youth Sports20:45 Choosing Rugby: A Personal Journey23:35 Comparing Canadian and New Zealand Sport Cultures25:27 Self-Governance in Rugby and Community Values29:25 Encouraging Inclusivity & Building Self-Worth through Sports31:55 Barriers to Accessing Sports35:00 The Future of School Sports32:51 Enhancing Access to School Sports39:00 His Parental Approach Youth Sports42:40 Navigating Pressure in Youth Sports44:35 Overuse of "Elite" & "High Performance" in Youth Sports46:30 Identifying Good Coaching Practices49:05 Red Flags in Coaching51:05 Values Instilled Through Sports53:45 Building Community Through Sports56:40 The Importance of Mentorship in Sports58:40The Case for Multi-Sport Participation01:03:45 Forging a Unique Path in Sports01:05:40 Access and Affordability in Youth SportsResources:Gareth's Induction Speech at Canada's Sport Hall of Fame https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Q9WGTaTjgI
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Sideline Strategies: Say NO to FOMO
The Fear of Missing Out is a common pitfall in youth sports today. Find out how to spot it and combat it so that you're making the decisions that work best for your children and your family.
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Travis Snider: The Weight of the Words, Free Play for All & An Elephant on a Pool Cue
Travis Snider, a former Major League Baseball player, discusses his transition from professional sports to advocating for youth sports and the evolution of his company, 3A Athletics. He emphasizes the importance of emotional development, the impact of parental expectations, and the need for unstructured play in children's lives. Travis shares his personal experiences with identity crises and mental health, highlighting the significance of communication between parents and coaches. He advocates for a supportive community in youth sports and stresses the necessity of education for parents and coaches to foster a healthier environment for young athletes.Chapters00:00 Introduction04:05 Transitioning from Baseball to Youth Sports Advocacy06:30 Identity Crisis: The Fragility of Self-Worth in Sports08:45 The Impact of Personal Struggles on Professional Life17:05 Parenting and Emotional Regulation24:30 How Travis' Parents Approached Youth Sports25:15 The Importance of Unstructured Play in Youth Sports26:30 The Role of Community in Youth Sports30:00 FOMO: The Fear of Missing Out in Youth Sports32:35 Ensuring Enjoyment is Present in Youth Sports35:00 How Are We as Parents Getting Better?37:00 When Pressure Became Present for Travis40:57 Generational Impact of Parenting in Sports43:10 Adversity in Youth Sports45:00 The Impact of Intensity and Expectations48:30 Creating a Stronger Foundation for Kids52:00 Bridging the Gap Between Coaches and Parents55:25 Prioritizing the Mental Health of Our Children58:00 Improving Communication in Youth Sports01:01:20 The Power of Words and Their Impact01:09:10 Coping With Failure in Sports and Life01:12:30 The Importance of Modeling Behavior01:15:43 Resources for Parents and CoachesResources: https://3athletics.com/
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Landon Ferraro: Son of a Gun, Keep the Focus on Fun & I'm Never Doing THIS Again
Landon Ferraro shares his experiences growing up in a sports-oriented family, the pressures of constant comparison to his famous father, and the importance of fostering a positive environment for young athletes. He discusses the impact of parental influence, the value of multi-sport participation, and the necessity of free play in developing a love for sports. Landon emphasizes the need for parents to respect boundaries and allow coaches to guide their children, while also highlighting the importance of fun and enjoyment in youth sports. His personal anecdote about trying out refereeing as a kid provides a shining example of how adult behaviours can impact participation.Chapters00:00 Intro04:30 Navigating Legacy: The Ferraro Name08:10 The Pressure of Expectations10:30 Parental Influence in Youth Sports13:30 Early Sporting Memories and Influences19:00 Finding Balance: Father and Son Dynamics23:15 How His Father's Approach Changed Over Time27:00 Choosing Hockey a Path to Pursue31:00 Approaching Specialization vs. Multi-Sport as a Parent35:50 The Importance of Free Play in Youth Sports40:00 What was it about Hockey that Drew Him in?44:10 Can You Tell Which Kids Really Want to be Playing a Sport?51:05 The Role of Parents at Practice in Youth Sports1:00:05 Understanding the Coach-Parent Dynamic1:05:10 Landon's Experience as a Young RefereeResources: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/100-canucks-with-ferraro-shannon/id1819755909
Hosted by veteran broadcaster Scott Rintoul, Better Sports Parents is a weekly video and audio podcast aimed at parents who are navigating the complicated world of youth sports. The intent is to provide parents with an easy to consume resource that delivers important perspectives on how to help create a better youth sports experience for their children. Those messages are delivered by recognizable professional athletes, coaches, executives, and experts who will offer insight into their own experiences in youth sports, their approaches with their own children, and their views on relatable issues that parents encounter in youth sports.
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