Created by: Mocha SMC LLC (Author)
Hi, Pod. First, I want to thank you for listening to this podcast series. As you listen, you may notice areas where the ep...
Aisha, former co-host of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) podcast, is launching Start to Finish Motherhood, a podcast for those thinking or already Single Mothers by Choice, just looking for practical advice for navigating life's relationships. When you decide to have children on your own, it doesn't mean that you're completely alone. Aisha is partnering with you every step of your journey.
Start to Finish Motherhood website: Start to Finish Motherhood
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*New Podcast Alert* NorthStar GAZE
Embark on a transformative journey with the "NorthStar Gaze" podcast, sharing intimate stories from Geo-Stem luminaries. In 1-on-1 chats, explore their journeys and profound contributions to geography and GIS.Inspired by our Telescope program, each episode offers a telescopic view into their lives. Uncover the human side of Geo-Stem, where passion meets purpose, and racial justice is central."The NorthStar Gaze" is your invitation to a Homecoming, where diverse voices paint the tapestry of contributions to geography and STEM. Tune in and let the brilliance of these geo-stars guide you.
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S4E10: Parenting the Child in Front of You
In this, the podcast series finale, Aisha sits down with some of the moms she admires to discuss parenting. In this heartfelt episode, our host reflects on the parenting wisdom imparted by their own mother and how it shapes their approach to parenting today. Joined by fellow SMC moms Christina and Jillian, they dive deep into the joys and challenges of raising children as single mothers by choice. The conversation spans topics from respecting children's individuality and creating safe, emotionally supportive environments, to navigating school systems and setting healthy boundaries. Tune in for touching anecdotes, valuable insights, and practical advice. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more inspiring content!
00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections
00:48 Meet the Guests: Christina and Jillian
03:49 Parenting Philosophies and Early Expectations
09:27 Navigating Discipline and Emotional Health
17:54 Intentional Parenting and Family Values
25:27 Cultural Etiquette and Parenting Reflections
26:50 Navigating Modern Parenting Challenges
28:00 Balancing Boundaries and Family Dynamics
29:30 Surprising Lessons in Parenting
33:20 Understanding and Supporting Special Needs
34:47 School and Developmental Milestones
41:33 Building a Supportive Village
45:39 Kids' Career Aspirations and Parenting Joys
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S4E9: Ask Me Anything I'm an Open Book
In this episode, explore the common question of whether to move closer to family and dive into the personal journey of relocating for a vibrant SMC (Single Mothers by Choice) community. Our speaker discusses the importance of assessing your reasons for moving, leveraging your support network during emergencies, and the intricacies of child care. They also shed light on the necessity of estate planning, financial readiness, and the nuances of filling out official paperwork as a single parent. Tune in to get practical advice and heartfelt insights, and don't forget to join our SMC community for ongoing support and connection!
00:00 Should I Move Closer to Family?
01:22 Assessing Your Village and Community
01:56 Leveraging Support During Emergencies
04:51 Finding and Trusting Childcare
07:28 Estate Planning for SMCs
10:04 Financial Readiness for SMCs
12:06 Filling Out Official Paperwork as an SMC
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S4E8: Debriefing Twin Pregnancy Challenges and Strategies for When Pregnancy Gets Complicated
Join Aisha as she debrief's the challenges and experiences shared in last week's episode about SMCs (Single Mothers by Choice) and twin pregnancies. In this candid discussion, she revisits the medical complexities such as gestational diabetes and intrauterine growth restriction, personal stories of navigating these issues, and the emotional toll they take. Also covered are some practical strategies for balancing pregnancy with work, finances, and childcare. This episode offers invaluable insights and a support system for anyone going through similar experiences. Tune in, share with someone who could benefit, and be sure to join the conversation!
00:00 Introduction and Recap of the Twins Episode
00:52 Personal Pregnancy Experiences
01:08 Challenges of Gestational Diabetes
02:42 Inter Uterine Growth Restriction (IUGR)
04:51 Impact on Daily Life and Work
09:35 Financial Considerations of Twin Pregnancies
11:25 Decisions Around Embryo Transfer
13:27 Physical and Mental Impact of Pregnancy
14:20 Epidural and Labor Experiences
16:06 Conclusion and Debrief
Created by: Mocha SMC LLC (Author)
Hi, Pod. First, I want to thank you for listening to this podcast series. As you listen, you may notice areas where the episodes have been edited, and that's by design. The Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast is actually based on an original co hosted podcast, which ran from January 2021 through November 2022.
This edited series is a way for me to tease out my individual contributions and those of the guests who generously gave of their time during the interview. These are some of my really good friends who supported me through my SMC journey and I wanted to value their contributions as well. It really mattered to me that the content remained available to Black women considering the SMC path.
It also memorializes who I was, where I was, and how the pandemic impacted me as a solo parent. I have since moved on and created a second podcast series that is solo hosted by me. It's called Start to Finish Motherhood. It was created in November of 2022. This podcast series, Black Single Mothers by Choice, focuses on my trying to conceive journey and the early parts of me parenting two children as a solo parent.
And Start to Finish Motherhood is a podcast that focuses on parenting and on me coming to terms with my own identity post children. I wanted to take a bit of time with this new trailer to explain that to you because I do respect you as listeners. I hope you support both podcasts, Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood.
They're both a labor of love for me. I hope you enjoy. Bye now.