Dont Make Me Call Her

EP 9. We’ve all done it. You keep holding the door open for someone just because you have ten to thirty years of history together or because you share the same last name. But let’s get real: a long timeline or a bloodline isn’t a lifetime pass to wreck your mental health. It’s time to start issuing some "Access Denied" notices.
In this episode, Jason and I are talking about how to spot the ultimate energy vampires, how to spot a narcissist, and master the art of the being the best door biatch.  You don’t always have to block them completely—you just need to take away their VIP pass to your sanity. If you know a conversational hijacker or have experienced countless encounters of people ill treat you then this episode is for you. Don’t fall for the history trap! This week’s Ginja Ninja Combat Zone we go all bubbly!  It’s time to clean house again! 
Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
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Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

If you work in the creative industry or the freelance world, grab a matcha latte and sit down. This week, Jason and I are pulling back the curtain on the absolute circus of chasing what you’re actually worth.
We’re breaking down the ultimate "Dos and Don’ts" of setting your rates, and exposing the oldest client trick in the book: the classic "we just don't have the budget" sob story. Funny how that budget magically evaporates even when the economy is flying high, innit?
We’re also calling out the people ruining the ecosystem by doing high-value work for absolute pennies. It’s hard out here, but undercutting everyone else just makes it worse for the rest of us. It’s time to grow a backbone and start charging properly.
We’re heading straight back into the alleyway for this week’s Ginja Combat Zone and we need your ammunition. Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

EP 6. If you want to know how Grace Lam claps back this one is for you. Apparently, the "sweet primary school" era has a much shorter shelf life than it used to. One minute you’re dealing with lost lunchboxes, and the next, the social dynamics have shifted into a low-budget teen drama—about three years ahead of schedule.
In this episode, Jason and I discuss the "Year 7 Pivot." We’re not pointing fingers, but let’s just say the parenting bar in the wild is currently sitting on the floor or even in the basement.
Apparently Y7 is all about hanging with the 'cool kids' but may I remind you all that those so called 'cool kids' in high school are definitely not cool anymore....jus sayin. Grace shares some good quotes from renowned child psychologists -Gabor Mate and Dr Becky Kennedy.
Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

Why are we all so terrified of a little chat? In this episode, we’re diving into the awkward, sweaty-palmed world of confrontation.
Most people would rather move to a different country than tell a friend they owe them money or tell a colleague their "reply all" habit is bloody annoying. We explore why everyone has become so sensitive and why "refusing to talk things out" is actually just a slow-motion car crash for your relationships.
Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!
DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.
Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com

Episode 4:
What happens when your nervous system is pushed to the absolute limit? In this episode of Don't Make Me Call Her, things get real—and a little terrifying. Jason and I are opening up about a high-stress incident involving an intruder trying to break into our home and how our bodies instinctively took over.
We’re breaking down the "Fight or Flight" response, but through two very different lenses. You’ll hear how Jason’s "Monk Trained Brain" (calm, collected, almost eerie) collided with my 0 to 100 "Chinatown Brain" (fast, loud, and ready for war). It’s a study in survival, temperament, and why we react the way we do when the stakes are high.
In this episode, we explore:
The Intruder Incident: The minute-by-minute breakdown of what happened and how we survived it.

Brain vs. Brain: Why Jason’s zen approach and my "Ginja Ninja" instinct are both a blessing and a curse.

Post-Stress Processing: How to come down from the adrenaline dump without taking it out on each other.

Ginja Combat Zone: This week’s dilemma is a classic. We’re tackling a common couple’s problem that almost everyone has faced—tune in to hear our take (and probably a bit of a debate).

Whether you're a "Monk" or a "Chinatown" thinker, this episode is about finding balance in the chaos.
New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa (or a glass of water) and let’s get into it.
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Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography
TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle
Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco
Produced by Herrrooo Production
Music by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com