Medium in the Middle Podcast

In this episode of Medium in the Middle, I break down the differences between Tarot cards and Oracle cards in a way that feels clear, accessible, and practical, especially if you are newer to working with cards or have felt unsure about which deck to use. This conversation is designed to remove the pressure of doing it "right" and instead help you understand how each type of deck works and why you might reach for one over the other.
I talk about the structure of Tarot and how it differs from Oracle decks, including why Tarot tends to feel more system based while Oracle cards allow for more flexibility and intuition. 
This episode also explores how to know which deck is right for you and how to choose a deck without overthinking it. I share guidance on how to connect with a deck, what to pay attention to when selecting one, and why your relationship with your cards matters more than the "type" of deck you use. I also talk about how your needs, energy, and intention can change over time, and how that can influence which cards you reach for in different seasons of your life.
I also cover when to use cards in your practice, whether that is for personal reflection, intuitive development, or support during decision making, and how cards can be used as a tool rather than something you rely on for certainty or validation. This conversation emphasizes that cards are meant to work with your intuition, not replace it.
If you have ever wondered whether Tarot or Oracle cards are better, which one you should be using, or how to trust yourself when working with cards, this episode will help you feel more confident, informed, and grounded in your own intuitive process.
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I had a brave Reiki Level One student ask the question that is on everyone's mind.
How long does it take to feel something? How long until you feel confident? How long until you feel like you actually know what you're doing?
In this episode, I talk about what it really looks like to learn Reiki, mediumship, or any intuitive skill over time, and why the early stages can feel so uncomfortable even when you're doing everything right. If you've ever wondered whether your progress is normal, this conversation is for you.
I share realistic timelines that I've seen again and again, both in my own development and while teaching others. Around three months is often when things start to make more sense and understanding begins to settle in. Between six and nine months, confidence usually starts to grow as practice becomes more familiar. And around a year to a year and a half is a realistic goal for feeling genuinely good at something, not because you're perfect, but because you've practiced enough to trust yourself.
We talk about how confidence doesn't suddenly appear. It grows through repetition. The more you practice, the faster you get there. And the feelings of doubt, uncertainty, and questioning yourself are things we all experience, even if it doesn't always look that way from the outside.
I also share why keeping notes as you practice can be one of the most helpful tools for building confidence. When you write things down, you begin to see your growth over time, even when it feels slow in the moment.
This episode is a reminder that feeling unsure is normal. It is not a sign that you are failing or doing something wrong. You are learning a new skill, and learning takes time.
Keep practicing until you feel confident, and trust that your confidence will grow along the way!
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REIKI LEVEL ONE
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REIKI LEVEL TWO
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At the start of January 2025, I did something I don't normally do. I booked a year in review card reading. One card per month. Twelve cards. A full look ahead at what my 2025 had in store for me.
And almost immediately, I understood why I usually avoid future focused readings as it added weight to the year before it even began.
In this episode, I share what it's like to receive future focused information when you're someone who usually prefers not to know. There are two camps in spirituality, the people who want to know and the people who don't want to know. 
I share about how this particular reading made me worry about 2025 and how I interpreted the information I was given in the reading. Relationship themes. Major life changes. Health concerns. Endings and beginnings that felt daunting before the year even started.
This episode is about how we take in information, how we interpret it, and how it can actually affect us. Also, how knowing certain things can shape how we move through a year.
If you've ever wondered whether knowing too much information from a reading can shape your experience, this conversation is for you! 
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Register for the next virtual Usui Reiki Level One Course on  January 10 & 11 and February 7 & 8, 2026.
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Register for the next virtual Usui Reiki Level Two Course on  January 24 & 25 and February 21 & 22, 2026.
REIKI LEVEL TWO
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The holidays can also feel overwhelming when you are sensitive to energy, emotions, and environments. In this episode, I share three simple but powerful reminders to support you through holiday gatherings and the busy holiday season.
We talk about navigating crowds without absorbing everything around you, staying grounded during family events, and how to clear your energy regularly. I also share practical reminders for boundaries, both energetic and personal, and how to actually rest and fall asleep more easily, even during a busy season.
Your sensitivity is not something to push through or ignore, especially at this time of year. However, there are a lot of tools to help you feeling "normal" while you are out celebrating. 
I also want to take a moment to say THANK YOU to the Middlers! Another year of podcasting, sharing, listening, business and community would not be possible without you. Your messages, reviews, and support mean more than you know, and I am deeply grateful to be here with you. Thank you for an amazing 2025!!! 
If this episode resonated, please share it with a friend who might need it during the holidays. Sometimes a reminder at the right moment makes all the difference.
The podcast will return on January 7, 2026. See you in 2026! 
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Virutal Goal Setting Workshop happening on December 28 from 1:00 pm - 3:30 pm MDT
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In this week's episode, I share part 2 following episode #287, with what happened when my family listened to the mediumship recording together, and how the messages continued to unfold.
Listening to the recording as a family was a powerful experience. There were moments where the messages landed differently for each of us, and moments where the meaning revealed itself as we listened together. There was also one single word said at the very end of the reading became a complete mic drop moment.
This episode also explores not so subtle signs that showed up for different people. Things we found at the lodge that let us know my uncle was there with us. The unexpected discovery of a CD while in town...yes, a CD!! 
I also share the experience of having one family member who was not interested in listening to the recording at all. I share my perspective on how to navigate situations like this and why not everyone needs to be on board with mediumship.
This episode is a reminder that messages do not end when the reading is over, and that healing often happens in layers, conversations, and moments we do not expect. Good job Uncle! You really showed up for your entire family with this one. 
Book a session with Medium in the Middle (Virtually or in-person in Banff):
BOOK A SESSION WITH MEDIUM IN THE MIDDLE
Virutal Goal Setting Workshop happening on December 28 from 1:00 pm - 3:30 pm MDT
2026 Vision: A Year in Review & Goal Setting Workshop 
SAVE YOUR SPOT
Register for the next virtual Usui Reiki Level One Course on  January 10 & 11, 2026. 
REIKI LEVEL ONE
Register for the next virtual Usui Reiki Level Two Course on  January 24 & 25, 2026.
REIKI LEVEL TWO
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