The Holy Post

Thirty years ago, Joshua Harris became the cheerleader for purity culture with his book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye." Since then, he's apologized for the book, exited from ministry and his marriage, and announced he's no longer a Christian. He talks to Skye about his journey from fundamentalism to deconstructionism, and back toward curiosity about Jesus. Also this week, how the Trump administration is making paganism great again, why secular progressives are rediscovering the benefits of religion, and how Christians in Springfield, Ohio, have organized to protect Haitian immigrants from deportation. Plus, cannibal jellyfish are taking over Venice, and Phil has seen the wrap light.
 
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8:52 - Cannibal Jellyfish Attack Venice!
 
14:18 - Springfield Christians Help Haitian Immigrants
 
24:04 - Donald Trump, the Pagan King
 
35:19 - Secular Progressives Miss Religion
 
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54:09 - Interview
 
58:35 - Teenage Fame
 
1:09:52 - What Wisdom Does Joshua Wish He Had?
 
1:14:50 - Value of Slowness
 
1:20:22 - Trump and Deconstruction
 
1:26:55 - End Credits
 
Links Mentioned in News Segment:
Cannibal Jellyfish Attack Venice!
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15511319/Venice-invaded-cannibalistic-jellyfish-vanishing-anus.html
 
Ohio Churches Help Haitians:
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/02/us/springfield-ohio-haitians-deportation-threat.html
 
Donald Trump, Pagan King:
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/11/opinion/donald-trump-pagan-king.html
 
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The big game was on Sunday, and for most of the country, it was a big letdown unless you're heavily invested in the culture war. Phil, Kaitlyn, and Skye start by breaking down Bad Bunny's halftime show (en español) and Turning Point USA's alternative with Kid Rock. Then they discuss how Jesus became such a big part of football culture. Is it good that so many players start their media interviews with a shout-out to their Lord and Savior, or has it become a distracting cliche? Skye talks to Tyler Johnson, the Chief Impact Officer for Come Near, about how their Super Bowl ad this year still hopes to point people to Jesus but with less controversy. Also, this week, Bonnie Kristian says everyone is too obsessed with gender.
 
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0:00 - Show Starts
 
2:50 - Theme Song
 
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5:40 - Bad Bunny's Halftime Show
 
10:01 - Turning Point's Response
 
14:40 - Christianity and Athletes
 
27:49 - Are We Obsessed with Gender?
 
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52:51 - Interview
 
57:57 - 2026's "He Gets Us" ad
 
1:06:08 - Why Spend So Much Money?
 
1:17:47 - Less Controversial This Year?
 
1:24:55 - End Credits
 
Links Mentioned in News Segment:
Bonnie Kristian's Article on Gender
https://www.christianitytoday.com/2026/02/the-gender-obsession-kristian/
 
Washington Post Article on Christianity and Athletes:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2026/02/06/faith-super-bowl-christian-athletes/?utm_campaign=wp_week_in_ideas&utm_medium=email&utm_source=newsletter&utm_content=week_in_ideas&utm_term=jtk-flex-day
 
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We've all heard the stories of people raised within American evangelicalism who became disillusioned because of abuse, scandals, or political idolatry. Some migrated to more progressive church traditions while others deconstructed their faith entirely. Joshua Harris, made famous for his seminal purity culture book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye," was in the latter category. Harris now says he is emerging from "a season of overcorrection," having seen the "bully energy" in progressive spaces, and that he is curious about Jesus again. Then, Katilyn talks to feminist author Leah Libresco Sargeant about her provocative new book, "The Dignity of Dependence." Also this week—new signs of hope as cities, states, and courts are resisting ICE.
 
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2:46 - Theme Song
 
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8:38 - Child Returned from I.C.E. Custody
 
19:43 - Josh Harris Second Slap
 
34:15 - Faith in Church vs. Faith in Christ
 
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52:32 - Interview
 
55:17 - Defining Feminism
 
1:05:42 - Autonomy vs Meaning
 
1:23:28 - End Credits
 
Links Mentioned in News Segment:
Joshua Harris on Returning to Christ:
instagram.com/p/DUHCCe3DsmM/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
 
Other Resources:
The Dignity of Dependence: A Feminist Manifesto (Catholic Ideas for a Secular World) by Leah Libresco Sargeant:
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The country is on edge after another protester was killed by ICE officers in Minneapolis. Phil, Kaitlyn, and Skye look at how different Christian journalists and media outlets are covering, or not covering, the story, and what protests against ICE share in common with the Civil Rights movement, and how they're different. Speaking of the Civil Rights era, Justin Giboney is back to discuss his new book, "Don't Let Nobody Turn You Around." He believes too much of the American church and our politics has been captivated by the culture war, and learning from the example of the Black church, which rejected the "conservative vs. progressive" binary, can help lead us out. Also this week, the cows are coming for us!
 
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3:38 - Theme Song
 
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7:07 - Cow Tools
 
12:55 - Christian Journalists on Alex Pretti
 
25:03 - Media Ecosystem
 
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47:17 - Interview
 
55:46 - The Black Church's Tradition of Witness
 
1:06:30 - Humanizing Your Political Opponents
 
1:15:00 - Persuasion in Politics
 
1:24:00 - End Credits
 
Links Mentioned in News Segment:
Cow Tools:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cj0n127y74go
 
Religion News Service on Clergy Protesting ICE:
https://religionnews.com/2026/01/23/inside-the-effort-to-organize-clergy-nationwide-to-resist-ice-minneapolis/
 
The Atlantic on ICE Protests:
https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/2026/01/minneapolis-uprising/685755/
 
Christianity Today on Authority and Responsibility:
https://www.christianitytoday.com/2026/01/authority-responsibility-not-excuse-alex-pretti-ice-shooting-minnesota-trump/
 
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Don't Let Anybody Turn You Around: How the Black Church's Public Witness Leads Us Out of the Culture War: https://amzn.to/45ZnNrG
 
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Over the last 30 years, the number of Americans who say they highly value patriotism, religion, community, and family has dropped dramatically. At the same time, the number of Americans who care about making more money has gone up. Phil, Kaitlyn, and Skye discuss David Brooks' new article about the culture's shift toward autonomy and away from loving attachments, and how Christians can begin rebuilding their social muscles. Sociologist and former pastor, Ryan Burge, is back to discuss why the political polarization of Christianity is hurting both the church and democracy. Also this week, why small houses are better for your soul, and monkeys are missing in St. Louis—or are they?
 
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3:38 - Theme Song
 
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7:00 - The Monkeys are Loose in St. Louis!
 
15:24 - David Brooks on Love
 
38:00 - Are You Socially Muscular?
 
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52:34 - Interview
 
55:34 - Number of Christians Holding Steady
 
1:00:23 - Do Revivals Need to be Inside the Church?
 
1:09:38 - What is a Moderate Congregation?
 
1:17:50 - Evangelicalism Became Fundamentalism
 
1:24:00 - End Credits
 
Links Mentioned in News Segment:
Monkeys! On the Loose!
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/10/us/monkeys-loose-st-louis.html
 
We're Living Through the Great Detachment:
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/02/opinion/americans-marriage-loneliness-love.html
 
Elizabeth Oldfield on Social Muscles:
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/24/opinion/community-housing-friendship.html
 
Other Resources:
The Vanishing Church: How the Hollowing Out of Moderate Congregations Is Hurting Democracy, Faith, and Us (Why the Culture War Led to Polarization and What We Can Do About it) by Ryan Burge: https://amzn.to/4r1rbKL
 
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