The Parenting Police

What happens when the pop culture our kids love starts sending messages we’re not quite ready for them to hear?
In this episode of The Parenting Police, Sean Szeps is joined by actress, musician and mum Tammin Sursok to take a closer look at girl groups, pop music and the increasingly blurred line between entertainment and the sexualisation of young girls. Using the hugely popular girl group KATSEYE as a starting point, Sean and Tammin unpack how the imagery, lyrics, fashion and choreography surrounding young female performers have evolved — and ask an uncomfortable question: at what point does pop culture stop being harmless fun and start shaping how our daughters see their bodies, relationships and self-worth?
Tammin draws on her own experience growing up in the entertainment industry, including her struggles with anorexia and the pressure she felt to seek attention through her appearance. She opens up about becoming addicted to what she calls the “male gaze” and why she believes sexualisation can become an attention cycle that is incredibly difficult to break.
The conversation also explores what parents can realistically do when children are inevitably exposed to sexualised content through music, TikTok, YouTube and their friends. Rather than trying to control everything their children see, Tammin argues that parents need to give them the language, values and confidence to question the messages they're consuming.
From girl groups and Britney Spears to body image, beauty standards, social media, parenting boundaries and the difficult conversations we sometimes avoid, this is an honest and thought-provoking discussion about raising girls in a hyper-connected world.
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LINKS :
Follow @tamminsursok on Instagram
Watch Tammin's series 'Aussie Girl' on YouTube
Watch Tammin's latest movie 'You, Me & The Penguins' on Netflix
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CREDITS:
Host: Sean Szeps
Guest: Tammin Sursok
Video Producer/Editor: Aidan Parkes
Theme song co-written and produced by Josh Pyke
Executive Producer: Damien Haffenden
Managing Producer: Ceci Herbert
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What does it really take to raise boys who are confident, kind and emotionally healthy?
In this episode of Parenting Police, Sean Szeps is joined by developmental paediatrician and author Dr Billy Garvey to unpack what parents need to understand about raising boys in a world where ideas about masculinity are changing.
Billy shares his own experiences growing up and the lessons he learned about hiding emotions, being tough and what it means to “be a man”, before exploring how these expectations can shape the way boys communicate, manage emotions and build relationships.
Billy and Sean discuss why boys don't necessarily need to be “toughened up”, the importance of emotional connection and empathy, and why the old idea that “boys will be boys” can sometimes prevent children from learning healthier ways to behave. Billy also explains why punishment isn't always the answer when boys become aggressive, and what parents can do instead when their child is overwhelmed or struggling.
From the role fathers play in modelling emotional behaviour to the importance of warmth, boundaries and respectful relationships, this is an honest and practical conversation about raising boys without limiting who they can become. This is an important conversation for anyone raising boys — and anyone who wants to better understand the boys and young men in their lives.
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LINKS :
Dr Billy Garvey's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys is available now
More on Guiding Growing Minds
Follow @drbillygarvey on Instagram
Listen to Billy's podcast Pop Culture Parenting
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CREDITS:
Host: Sean Szeps
Guest: Dr Billy Garvey
Video Producer/Editor: Aidan Parkes
Audio Producer: Adrian Walton
Theme song co-written and produced by Josh Pyke
Executive Producer: Damien Haffenden
Managing Producer: Ceci Herbert
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Wondering if the new movie' Forgotten Island' is suitable for your kids?
In this special episode, I'm putting the latest DreamWorks animated movie under the Parenting Police microscope, looking at what parents really want to know before taking the family to the cinema. From the film’s beautiful animation, hilarious characters, Filipino culture and folklore, and its emotional story about friendship, growing up and holding on to memories, there's plenty to love.
But it's my nine-year-old twins who have the final say on the movie — including what they found funny, what they found scary, and whether they’d watch it again.
So, is Forgotten Island too scary for younger kids? What age is it really suitable for? And will parents enjoy it too? This is everything you need to know without the spoilers.
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CREDITS:
Host: Sean Szeps
Video Producer/Editor: Aidan Parkes
Audio Producer: Adrian Walton
Theme song co-written and produced by Josh Pyke
Executive Producer: Damien Haffenden
Managing Producer: Ceci Herbert
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Why does your child suddenly need a Labubu, $80 socks, friendship bracelets, press-on nails or the latest fashion trend — simply because “everyone else has one”?
In this episode of The Parenting Police, Sean Szeps takes a deep dive into the ever-changing world of kids’ fashion and trends, from school uniforms and mullets to bag charms, novelty socks, ear piercing, makeup, crop tops and social-media-driven beauty culture.
Joining Sean is social media sensation Fashion Critical, who brings her trademark sharp and entertaining perspective to the fashion choices taking over children’s wardrobes. Together, they explore the tricky line between self-expression and peer pressure, and ask whether some of these trends are harmless fun or whether they can contribute to children feeling like they need to look, dress and spend like everyone else.
The conversation also tackles the real cost of kids’ fashion, including the pressure on parents to keep up, socioeconomic differences between families, fast fashion, brands such as Shein and Temu, and the challenge of explaining to children why they can’t always have what their friends have.
From school uniforms and playground competition to Sephora, social media and beauty trends, this is a candid conversation about how childhood fashion is changing — and how parents can navigate the pressure without losing their sanity.
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LINKS :
Follow Fashion Critical (@fashion_critical) on Instagram
Fashion Critical's book Red carpet lewks and LOLs from an undercover fashion critic is out now
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CREDITS:
Host: Sean Szeps
Guest: Fashion Critical
Video Producer/Editor: Aidan Parkes
Audio Producer: Adrian Walton
Theme song co-written and produced by Josh Pyke
Executive Producer: Damien Haffenden
Managing Producer: Ceci Herbert
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What happened to vegetables on kids’ menus?
In this episode of The Parenting Police: Investigates, Sean Szeps takes a deep dive into a familiar frustration for parents: taking your kids out to eat and being presented with a children’s menu dominated by nuggets, burgers and chips.
Sean investigates how kids’ menus evolved, from early children’s menus that included vegetables, fruit and more varied meals to the rise of the fast-food-style kids’ meal, complete with toys, simple choices and food designed to keep children happy. He then looks at 125 kids’ menus across Sydney, examining what restaurants are actually offering Australian children today — and the results raise some big questions.
The episode also explores why kids’ menus at cultural restaurants so often abandon the cuisine being served to adults in favour of the familiar nuggets-and-chips formula, and what Australia might learn from countries where children simply eat smaller portions of the same food as everyone else.
Ultimately, Sean asks whether restaurants could be doing more to offer families healthier choices — rather than making the fried favourites the default. So next time you sit down at a restaurant with your kids, take a closer look at the menu and see if you can spot the vegetables.
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CREDITS:
Host: Sean Szeps
Video Producer/Editor: Aidan Parkes
Audio Producer: Adrian Walton
Theme song co-written and produced by Josh Pyke
Executive Producer: Damien Haffenden
Managing Producer: Ceci Herbert
Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram for videos from the podcast and behind-the-scenes content
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.