Being Real Parents

The Real Parents team aim to support parents to find their confidence and have more fun parenting.

Anna and Jason Tiatia unpack the confusion around gentle parenting and the research behind it, exploring warmth alongside clear boundaries and expectations. They connect these ideas with the research which, calls this auhroritative or democratic parenting, or the rākau (tree) approach. Through everyday examples with tamariki aged 0–5, they explore what this can sound like when children say no, feelings run high and parents are tired.

Join Kate and Keryn from Brainwave Trust as they explore how ordinary, day-to-day moments are powerful opportunities to support the development of tamariki aged 0-5 years. In this episode, they discuss why the early years truly matter while reminding us that perfect parenting doesn’t exist. Hear how simple activities like talking, playing, and even hanging out the washing can help young tamariki brains grow and develop.

What helps when life changes in ways we never wanted or expected? Dr Lucy Hone joins Anna for a deeply human kōrero about her new book, How Will I Ever Get Through This? Together they explore grief beyond bereavement, the losses we don’t always recognise, and practical, research-backed ways to navigate change and uncertainty. Anna didn’t realise how much she needed this book until she read it for this interview. You may discover that you need it too.

Have you ever wondered whether fostering could be for you? Diana Hamilton from Key Assets explains how the process works, what fostering can look and feel like, and the support available along the way. We talk honestly about the challenges, the rewards, and the many different people who can make brilliant foster carers. An encouraging first listen for anyone curious about opening their home, supporting tamariki and giving something meaningful back.