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In today's episode, Pastor Kaleb and Pastor Chris sit down with Jerrad to talk about the next season of Dad Tired.
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Biblical Masculinity: Part Two
In this powerful follow-up to the series on biblical masculinity, Chris Hilkin continues unpacking what it means to be a man after God's own heart through the PRIME MEN acrostic. After Jerrad Lopes opens with a heartfelt update and thanks the Dad Tired community for their support, Chris teaches through the next key biblical traits of godly manhood: Intentional, Meek, Enduring, Moral, Empathetic, and Noble. With deep theological insight, biblical references, and real-life application, this episode challenges men to take spiritual leadership seriouslyāat home, in the church, and in the world.Bible Passages Mentioned:John 8Ā ā Jesus and the woman caught in adultery1 Timothy 3:4-5Ā ā Managing one's family wellEphesians 6:4Ā ā Fathers training and instructing childrenGenesis 18:19Ā ā Directing oneās household in the way of the LordGenesis 3:6Ā ā Adamās passivity in the Garden1 Samuel 3:11Ā ā Eliās failure to discipline his sonsMark 5Ā ā Jesus healing the bleeding woman2 Timothy 1:7Ā ā Spirit of power, love, and self-controlProverbs 16:32Ā ā Better to be patient than a warriorPhilippians 2Ā ā Christās humilityProverbs 24:16Ā ā The righteous fall seven times but rise again1 Corinthians 16:13-14Ā ā Be strong, courageous, and do everything in loveLuke 23Ā ā Jesus carrying the cross1 Timothy 4:8Ā ā Godliness has value for all thingsTitus 2:7-8Ā ā Teaching with integrity1 Samuel 15Ā ā Saul's disobedienceMatthew 4Ā ā Jesusā temptationJohn 17Ā ā Jesus interceding for his disciplesNehemiah 4:14Ā ā Fight for your familiesPhilippians 4:8Ā ā Whatever is noble, think about such thingsProverbs 22:1Ā ā A good name is more desirable than richesMicah 6:8Ā ā Do justice, love mercy, walk humblyActs 5Ā ā Ananias and SapphiraJoshua 7Ā ā The sin of AchanJohn 18Ā ā Jesus on trial before PilateIsaiah 53:7Ā ā Like a lamb silent before its shearersLuke 23:34Ā ā Jesus forgives those who crucified HimDiscussion Questions:Which of the PRIME MEN traits (Peacemaking, Repentant, Intentional, Meek, Enduring, Moral, Empathetic, Noble) do you most naturally embody, and which one do you struggle with the most? Why?(Bonus: Print the list and literally highlight where you're strong and where you're bleeding, as suggested in the episode.)Read Ephesians 6:4. What does it look like for you, specifically, to take spiritual responsibility for your kids? In what ways have you been tempted to hand that role off to someone else?How have you misunderstood meekness in the past? What would it look like for you to walk in āpower under controlā this week?How does your private life reflect your integrity? Are there places in your life where you are āfractionedā or living in two different personas? What does integration look like for you?In a culture that values comfort and ease, what does it mean to endure like Jesus? How can you practically grow in endurance and perseverance when life gets hard?
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What is Biblical Masculinity? Part 1
Show Notes: Biblical Masculinity Part 1In this first part of theĀ Biblical MasculinityĀ series,Ā Chris HilkenĀ walks through what it truly means to be a man after Godās own heart. He shares personal storiesāfrom growing up watching WWF to mentoring young men at youth campāand challenges cultural stereotypes of masculinity. Instead of aggressive or passive extremes, he calls men to embody Christlike traits. Chris begins walking through an acronym,Ā PRIMEMEN, and unpacks the first two attributes:Ā PeacemakerĀ andĀ Repentant.What Youāll Learn:Why culture has distorted our view of masculinityWhy āThe Rockā and pop-culture heroes fall short of biblical manhoodHow peacemaking and repentance are signs of real strengthThe difference between feeling sorry and true repentanceWhy Jesus is the perfect picture of masculinityBible Verses Mentioned:Matthew 5:9Ā ā āBlessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.āRomans 5Ā ā Jesus made peace with us through the cross.Romans 12:18Ā ā āIf it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.āJames 1:19Ā ā āEveryone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.āGenesis 4:8Ā ā Cain kills Abel out of rage.1 Samuel 18:6ā9Ā ā Saulās jealousy drives him to attack David.John 8Ā ā Jesus diffuses the angry mob with wisdom and justice.Luke 8Ā ā Jesus calms the storm.Acts 3:19Ā ā āRepent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out.ā2 Corinthians 7Ā ā Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation.Proverbs 28:13Ā ā āWhoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.āLuke 15Ā ā The Prodigal SonLuke 19Ā ā Zacchaeus repents and makes restitution.Hebrews 4Ā ā Godās Word is a double-edged sword.Garage Group Discussion Questions:What images or messages about masculinity did you grow up with? How have they shaped youāfor better or worse?Chris says, āReal men create no drama and control their anger.ā What does that look like in your home or workplace right now?Read Matthew 5:9 and Romans 12:18. How can you actively pursue peace in a relationship where thereās tension?Repentance is more than saying sorryāit's turning and changing. Whatās one area of your life where you're apologizing but not truly repenting?Chris shares how Jesus is āthe better Cain, the better Saul.ā In what ways can you look to Jesusānot cultureāas your model of manhood this week?
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Two by Two: Why You Need Brothers in the Trenches
Jesus sent His disciples two by twoānot alone. Why? Because ministry, life, and discipleship are not meant to be solo endeavors. In this episode, we unpack Luke 10:1 and explore the biblical foundation for companionship in the Christian life. From accountability and encouragement to strengthening our testimony, weāll discuss why godly friendships matter for every manāwhether youāre a pastor, a truck driver, or a dad just trying to raise your kids well. Godās design for brotherhood isnāt just about survival; itās about finishing well.
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The Third Traveler: Friendship, Faith, and the Presence of Christ
Make sure to connect with dwell at: dwellbible.com/dadtiredOn this episode of Dad Tired, we explore the road to Emmaus and the way friendship and faith intertwine in the Christian life. When Jesus walked alongside two confused disciples, He met them in their questions, in their grief, and in their search for clarityājust as He does with us today. Drawing from Luke 24, the lives of Perpetua and Felicity, and the wisdom of St. Bernard of Clairvaux, weāll discuss how friendship is essential to holiness, how Christ is present in our shared struggles, and why discipleship isnāt meant to be done alone. If you've ever wrestled with doubt, isolation, or the mystery of Godās plan, this episode will remind you that the Third Traveler always walks beside you.
Dad Tired is a community of men who are taking their faith, family, and marriage very seriously. We are equipping Christian husbands and dads to lead their family well. Past guests include: Gary Chapman, Cody Carnes, John Mark Comer, John Eldredge, Bob Goff, Stephen Curtis Chapman, Risen Motherhood, MercyMe, Tony Dungy, Paul David Tripp, Louie Giglio, Darryl Strawberry, Lecrae, Beneil Dariush, and many more!