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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas

Ruth Vercoe
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
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  • 047 Why Knowing Your “Normal” Could Save Your Life
    What if prioritising your own health could be the most important thing you ever do for your children? In this powerful and deeply honest conversation on Demystifying Child’s Play, Ruth Vercoe talks with Tamara Milne, a radiographer and mum who was just 33 and weeks away from welcoming her second baby when she received a life-changing diagnosis: breast cancer.Tamara shares how knowing her normal and performing regular self-checks quite literally saved her life, and how every parent can do the same. This episode might be a little off-topic from play, but it’s a vital one for every mum, dad, and caregiver to hear.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why no one is immune from breast cancer, regardless of age, gender, or lifestyle.The signs and symptoms of breast cancer you need to know (it’s not just lumps).How to model healthy body awareness and wellbeing for your children.Why looking after yourself isn’t selfish, it’s essential.How regular breast self-checks can become part of your everyday routine.Key takeaway:“If I’m not looking after myself and my wellbeing suffers, I quite literally might not be here for my children.” – Tamara MilneTamara’s story is a powerful reminder that as parents, we can’t pour from an empty cup. Looking after your health is looking after your family.Read the full show notes and transcript: https://playschemas.com/blog Learn more about Tamara’s movement: https://checkyourbits.co.nz Follow Check Your Bits on Instagram: https://instagram.com/checkyourbits Follow The Play Schemas Collective on Instagram: https://instagram.com/play_schemasSend us a textIf you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review! I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.Facebook and Instagram @[email protected] and if you are keen for a freebie... head to playschemas.com/free to see what there is for you!
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  • 046 How Play Builds Language: The Secret Link Every Parent Should Know
    Did you know your toddler’s everyday play is secretly building the foundations for language and communication?If you’ve ever worried about whether your child is talking “enough,” or wondered how you can best support their speech and confidence, this episode will give you the reassurance and practical strategies you’ve been searching for.As parents, we often look for ways to help our children learn—but the truth is, the most powerful tool is already happening right in your lounge, at the park, or even in the Tupperware drawer: play.In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I talk with Paige from Talk First Words and we explore the fascinating connection between play and language development, and why the games and activities your child chooses aren’t random at all. They’re essential building blocks for how your child will talk, think, and connect with others.You’ll discover:Why play is the foundation of language and how it shapes your child’s brain for communication.How everyday games like peekaboo, hiding under blankets, or pretending to feed Teddy link directly to early speech and vocabulary growth.The different stages of play; from simple social games to imaginative storytelling, and how each stage supports communication in a unique way.The role of play schemas (like enveloping, trajectory, and positioning) in giving your child the words and concepts they need to describe their world.Play is so much more than entertainment. It’s your child’s first language. By understanding the link between play and speech, you’ll feel empowered to support your child without pressure or overwhelm.When you join in your child’s play, even for a few minutes a day, you’re not just building their vocabulary. You’re building connection, confidence, and the emotional security that helps them thrive.And perhaps most importantly, you’ll gain reassurance: if your child isn’t yet talking as much as you expect, the play they’re doing now is laying all the groundwork they need for future communication.Because every giggle, every game of peekaboo, and every block tower isn’t “just play”—it’s your child’s brain and language growing in action.Send us a textIf you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review! I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.Facebook and Instagram @[email protected] and if you are keen for a freebie... head to playschemas.com/free to see what there is for you!
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  • 045 Everyday Moments Matter: Turning Daily Routines Into Language-Rich Opportunities
    How does play shape your child’s speech and language?If you’ve ever wondered whether those endless games of peek-a-boo, block towers, or toy tea parties actually do anything for your child’s speech development, you’re not alone. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, we’re unpacking the fascinating connection between play and speech, and how understanding this link can help you feel more confident in supporting your child’s growth with Paige O'Dwyer from Talk First WordsAs parents, it’s easy to get caught up in worries: “Should my toddler be talking more by now?” “Am I doing enough to support their speech?” or “Does play really matter when it comes to language?” This episode brings reassurance and clarity by showing you how the everyday play your child already loves is laying the groundwork for communication, expression, and confidence.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why play is the foundation of speech: Discover how the simple act of playing opens the door to language learning.The role of play schemas: Find out how different patterns of play, like throwing, spinning, or hiding, give your child the chance to practise sounds, gestures, and storytelling in their own way.How play supports confidence and expression: Learn how imaginative play, role play, and even the messier moments of play help your child experiment with communication.Practical tips you can try today: Easy, everyday ways to nurture both play and speech without adding more to your already busy schedule.Why this matters for youYour child’s play is more than just fun, it’s their way of making sense of the world and building the tools they need for speech and language. By tuning into their play, you’ll not only feel more connected, but also gain insight into the small steps that support big milestones.No need for flashcards or rigid drills. Instead, you’ll leave this episode with a fresh perspective: the games, giggles, and even the chaos are helping your child learn to talk.For more resources on play schemas and child development, visit www.playschemas.com or connect on Instagram @play_schemas.Send us a textIf you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review! I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.Facebook and Instagram @[email protected] and if you are keen for a freebie... head to playschemas.com/free to see what there is for you!
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  • 044 From Mess to Meaning: Baking and Child Development with Play Schemas
    Ever felt like baking with your toddler is more mess than magic? You’re not alone. But what if I told you that the flour on the floor and the endless stirring are actually signs of learning in action?In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I share the 10 main play schemas and how they show up while baking gingerbread with your little one. From pouring flour (trajectory) to lining up cookie cutters (positioning) to covering cookies in sprinkles (enveloping), every “chaotic” moment is full of developmental gold.When you learn to spot these schemas, you’ll stress less, connect more, and maybe even enjoy baking together again.Today I talk through:What play schemas are and why they matter for child development.How baking reveals schemas like trajectory, transportation, rotation, and more.Simple ways to support your child’s learning without constant correction.How baking fosters independence, communication, and emotional connection.Send us a textIf you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review! I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.Facebook and Instagram @[email protected] and if you are keen for a freebie... head to playschemas.com/free to see what there is for you!
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  • 043 Baking with Kids Made Easy: Create Memories, Not Stress
    Ever thought about baking with your toddler but stopped yourself because of the mess, the chaos, or the fear it’ll all go wrong? You’re not alone. Many parents love the idea of baking with their kids but find the reality overwhelming.Flour on the floor, sticky fingers everywhere, and a kitchen that looks like a tornado hit... sound familiar?Baking with children isn’t just about producing perfect cupcakes. It’s about connection, learning, and making memories that last far longer than the cookies. In this week’s episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, I sit down with fellow Kiwi mum and baking expert Heather Kalisch, founder of Bake With Me NZ, to talk about how baking with kids can be fun, meaningful, and actually manageable.Heather shares her top five tips for baking with children. It's all practical advice that helps you swap the stress for smiles. Together, we explore how to make the kitchen a place of learning, laughter, and family connection, without worrying about Pinterest-perfect results.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why preparation matters – and how a little setup makes baking with toddlers easier and calmer.How to turn food safety into fun – think superhero handwashing and aprons instead of nagging.The magic of progress over perfection – why the lopsided cupcake is more valuable than the picture-perfect one.Cleaning up as part of the process – how to make tidying a team activity (and actually enjoyable).The power of memories – how slowing down in the kitchen creates connection your child will treasure for years.Along the way, we also talk about how baking builds real-life skills like maths, literacy, problem-solving, and science. Every time your child stirs, measures, or pours, they’re learning through play. And the best part? They’re doing it alongside you.If you’ve ever wondered:“How do I bake with my toddler without losing my mind?”“Is it even safe to let my kids help in the kitchen?”“What if the mess just makes it harder?”…this episode is for you. Heather and I want to reassure you that baking with children doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be intentional. With a few simple shifts, it can become one of the most rewarding ways to connect with your child.You can find Heather on Instagram @BakeWithMe.co.nz and online at www.BakeWithMe.co.nzSend us a textIf you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.Support the showIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review! I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.Facebook and Instagram @[email protected] and if you are keen for a freebie... head to playschemas.com/free to see what there is for you!
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About Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas

Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey. Get in contact atEmail [email protected] and Instagram @Play_Schemas
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