In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Lucia Garcia is joined once again by Fr Sam for a deep dive into the sacrament of confession. Building on last episode’s discussion on forgiveness, Fr Sam helps us understand why confession is not just about “telling God directly,” but about loving Him in the way He asks to be loved. Discussion Points: Why confession is more than a formality — it’s God’s chosen way of healing us. The “battle at the confessional door” and why saying our sins out loud matters. How confession restores us completely — as if the sin never happened. The power of hearing the words of absolution spoken aloud. Practical tips for overcoming hesitation, shame, or nerves when approaching the sacrament. Confession as a doorway to spiritual direction and growing deeper in love with God. Fr Sam also shares insights on how going to confession regularly helps us live a freer, humbler, and more merciful life. He reminds us that confession isn’t about perfectionism but about being at peace with who we are, trusting in God’s boundless mercy. Join the Conversation Confession can feel intimidating, but it’s one of the most profound ways we encounter God’s love. As Fr Sam reminds us, God doesn’t just forgive reluctantly — He restores us completely. Take a moment to reflect: What holds me back from going to confession more regularly? How have I experienced healing or peace after confession? In what ways can I encourage others to see confession as a gift rather than a burden? We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share your reflections with us and join the conversation. You can: Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes
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[Rebroadcast] Why Do My Kids Want to Hide Their Mistakes?
In this episode, we are joined by Chehade Richa, a father, mentor, and teacher. Together, we delve into how parental reactions influence children's emotional development and worldview. We discuss the significance of consistency and authenticity in parenting to prevent fostering a 'two-faced' nature in kids. Discover how building trust and open communication, along with virtues like charity and patience, can create a nurturing environment for your children. Parental Reactions as a crucial factor in shaping children's emotional development and worldview. The importance of being truly present, investing time, and sharing personal stories to build trust. Integrating virtues, such as charity, patience, and forgiveness into parenting practices to nurture character and resilience in children, balancing love and expectations. You can: Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday Remember to hit FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes!
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25. Can We Really Forgive and Forget?
In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Father Sam explores the deeply human and deeply divine reality of forgiveness. He talks about why forgiveness is so central to the Christian faith, why it can feel so hard, and how it shapes our relationships — especially in family life. Father Sam shares personal reflections, gospel stories, and practical insights to help us see forgiveness not just as a duty, but as a path to healing and true freedom. Discussion Points: Why Forgiveness Is Necessary Without forgiveness, we remain tied to the people or events that hurt us, trapped in what Father Sam calls a “victim mentality.” Forgiveness in the Christian Faith At the heart of Christianity is God’s unconditional forgiveness, most powerfully shown on the cross. Christians are called to forgive without limits, because we have first been forgiven. Divine Forgiveness vs. Human Forgiveness God forgives fully, restores us completely, and forgets our sins because of His love. Human forgiveness can be incomplete; we often struggle to truly let go. The Role of Feelings and the Challenge of Letting Go Forgiveness isn’t always about feeling ready; it’s often a choice before it becomes a feeling. Sometimes people hold on to hurt because it gives a sense of identity or emotional power. Forgiveness in the Family The home is the first place children learn what forgiveness looks like. True forgiveness in families includes mercy and helping each other grow into better people. Parents shouldn’t fear hurting their kids by setting expectations — children need to see love, joy, and a call to something greater. Join the Conversation Forgiveness isn’t just about forgetting or excusing what happened — it’s about choosing freedom and love over resentment. Father Sam invites us to see forgiveness not as a one-time decision, but as a process that draws us closer to God and makes us more like Him. Reflect on these questions and share your thoughts with us: When have I experienced real forgiveness — either giving or receiving — and how did it change me? What does forgiveness look like in my family? Do we make space for both mercy and growth? How can I help my children — or those around me — experience forgiveness as something healing and hopeful? We’d love to hear your stories. Share your reflections and keep the conversation going with us! You can: Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes
Welcome to the Growing Hearts Podcast, the place where we ignite discussions that help nurture your family’s Catholic faith adventure. Join us as we delve into meaningful conversations designed to help you, as parents, explore ways to grow a vibrant and enduring faith in your home.
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