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- The Cornell 7 case has been dominating headlines and social media feeds. It's equal parts horrific, frustrating an maddening. Abbie deconstructs how misogyny and power structures all intertwine to allow this kind of behaviour, and what men actually need to do to help prevent this.
CW: This episode contains mention of sexual assault, please take care while listening and remember help is always available. You can contact Lifeline 24/7 website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or call them 13 11 14. You can also contact 1800RESPECT any time confidentially at 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au.
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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. - Abbie is trying to get out of burn out land but having adult problems and responsibilities makes it so much harder to recover?? So what the hell do we do divas?? Abbie shares her experience with an ADHD coach and what's helping her at the moment, but let us know in the pod form or in the comments what's been helping you cos god knows we all need it
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Check out @itsalotpod on IG
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. - That's right, we're treating you with two eps today!! We thought we're all in need of a classic listener story and this chook's is like something off of Abbie's NMF bingo card!
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Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. "How Do I Co-Parent with a 'Boys Don't Cry' Dad?" - Dr Billy Garvey Answers Your Parenting Questions
01/10/2026 | 33 mins.Even after a big chat on Tuesday, there was so much we didn't get to with Billy. So, we've got him back to answer your questions!
LINKS
Buy Billy's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-raising-boys-9781761620850
Follow Billy on IG @drbillygarvey
Listen to Billy's podcast Pop Culture Parenting: https://linktr.ee/popcultureparenting
Learn more about Billy's work at Guiding Growing Minds https://linktr.ee/guidinggrowingminds
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Dr Billy Garvey @drbillygarvey
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.DR BILLY GARVEY: Raising Boys, Masculinity, and Ending the Cycle of Violence
28/09/2026 | 1h 26 mins.From the manosphere, to mental health, to sexual assault and family violence - it is more apparent than ever that we must reckon with how boys are being raised, and the damaging behaviours that are normalised. But how do we raise boys into emotionally healthy men? Abbie sits down with developmental paediatrician Dr Billy Garvey to discuss his new book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys. They talk about why rigid masculinity is so dangerous, how parents can create safe spaces for their boys, why aggression in boys is a signal not a problem, and so much more. This is an essential conversation for parents, caregivers, and anyone with young boys in their life.
LINKS
Buy Billy's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-raising-boys-9781761620850
Follow Billy on IG @drbillygarvey
Listen to Billy's podcast Pop Culture Parenting: https://linktr.ee/popcultureparenting
Learn more about Billy's work at Guiding Growing Minds https://linktr.ee/guidinggrowingminds
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Dr Billy Garvey @drbillygarvey
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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