If your child falls apart the moment you make a simple request, this episode is for you.
PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) is not a behaviour problem. It is a nervous system response. And when we treat it like a behaviour problem, we make it worse, even with the best intentions.
I share what this looks like in real life with my own child, the meltdowns at acrobatics, the shutdowns at skate lessons, the moment my reminders to drink water created a threat response instead of compliance. I also walk through my clinical approach to supporting PDA children through nervous system regulation, adrenal health, gut-brain connection, flower essences, herbs, and minerals.
In this episode:
What PDA actually is and why the name matters
The three nervous system responses and how they show up in demand avoidance
Why your well-intentioned support might be fuelling the meltdowns
The "I wonder if…" reframe that changes everything
My clinical tools: flower essences, minerals, herbs, gut-brain support
Why I treat mothers and children together, not separately
Resources mentioned:
Read the full blog post: daniafoster.com/blog/pda
Mother and Child Package: daniafoster.com/mother-and-child-package
Book a free connection call: daniafoster.com/consults
About Dania Foster: Dania Foster is a clinical naturopath (BHSc) and energetics therapist specialising in supporting burnt-out mothers and their highly sensitive and neurodivergent children. She combines functional pathology, clinical herbalism, flower essences, and nervous system regulation to treat the whole family, body and soul.
Connect:
Website: daniafoster.com
Instagram: @daniafoster.naturopathy
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