Planting Seeds Podcast

Ngaire is a Māori creative — artist, moko practitioner in training, wahine deeply rooted in te ao Māori and committed to uplifting other wahine through her mahi. Recorded on the East Coast at Tūranga-nui-a-Kiwa, this kōrero feels like sitting in the sun with someone who has walked through real darkness and come out clearer on the other side.
In this conversation, Ngaire opens up about what it means to stop surviving and start thriving! The real mahi behind that shift, the trenches she had to walk through to get there, and why she now puts herself at numbers one, two, and three on her own priority list.
She also talks about creativity as a way of life, losing her nan during COVID through an iPad screen, the moko style she's developing exclusively for wahine, and what it means to be a portal, a creative, and a wāhine in full becoming.

Episode Breakdown

✨ Stepping out of the shadows to be seen
✨ Two types of fear: the one that destroys you, and the one that expands you
✨ "Don't let loss be the lesson", shifting out of survival mode into a thriving mindset
✨ Creativity as a way of life
✨ How living outside of clock-based thinking keeps her present
✨ The real work behind choosing yourself as a wahine
✨ Overflowing your own cup first so there's actually something to give
✨ Wahine carrying both roles, and what it means when tāne step into their own leadership
✨A new style of moko exclusively for wāhine, rooted in whakapapa wāhine
✨ How grief and enlightenment arrived at the same time
✨ Always looking for the gap, the new, the unexplored
✨ All the answers are already within us, we just need people who help us remember

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Rob Hayne is the founder of Chur Kaha, a CrossFit gym built on community, love, and the belief that everyone deserves to feel proud of themselves — no matter where they start.
In this kōrero, recorded on a trip to Tūranga-nui-a-Kiwa, Rob opens up about where his deep sense of care comes from (his mum, unsurprisingly), the leap of faith it took to open his own gym, and the philosophy that drives every part of his life: freedom. Freedom to choose how your day goes. Freedom to express. Freedom from the barriers most of us don't even realise we're carrying.
This is a conversation about identity, brotherhood, building something from nothing, and the radical idea that you get to choose how you want to feel when you wake up.

Episode Breakdown
✨ Where Rob's deep sense of care and manaaki comes from
✨ Learning what it means to truly feel free
✨ The real story of starting Chur Kaha
✨ "Just learn to do hard shit"
✨ Telling the boys "I love you" and why that's never been hard for Rob
✨ Fatherhood, raising kids as best mates, and breaking generational patterns around affection
✨ Designing your own days
✨ Living better, not just longer
✨ What younger Rob would think of the man he's become

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What got you here won't get you there. In this Grow With Me Q&A, I unpack the belief of why running has never once solved anything.
This week's Grow With Me session is a community Q&A — real questions from the Planting Seeds whānau, answered through lived experience rather than theory. I move through identity, healing, relationships, and what it actually takes to build a community of caring tāne. Just my perspective that might bring clarity to wherever you're at in your own journey.

Episode Breakdown:
✨ Why running from pain only delays it and what regulation actually looks like✨ Meeting "Samantha" — naming and detaching from the inner critic✨ Why some people choose something new instead of doing the hard work of staying✨ Projecting your growth onto a partner, and learning to accept different journeys✨ Building a community of caring men

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You can be giving everyone the best of you AND still be running on empty.
What happens when you finally choose yourself — and why that took courage for Nepia Takuira-Mita?
Nepia Takuira-Mita is an actor, musician, and creative — known for his work on Ahikāroa, one of Aotearoa's first bilingual dramas. But before the screens and the stages, there was a kid raised on te reo Māori, kapa haka, and books, in a home with no TV, guided by parents who had the vision and courage to choose identity over convenience.
In this kōrero, Nepia opens up about the season he's currently navigating: sobriety, intentionality, and the confronting work of turning his manaakitanga inward. He talks about learning to show up for himself, not instead of his whānau, BUT so he can show up better for them.
This is a conversation about identity, creative purpose, what it means to be raised Māori in a world that doesn't always make that easy, and the quiet courage of choosing growth.
Episode Breakdown
Nepia's season of growth: sobriety, intentionality, and leaving alcohol on the table for something better
Manaakitanga as a value that can turn into people-pleasing and how to reclaim it for yourself
How a childhood without TV ironically led him to become a TV actor
Insight into acting: theatre vs. film, intimacy coaches, and falling in love with storytelling on stage
Landing the role on Ahikāroa, and what it meant to be part of Aotearoa's first bilingual drama
The gap between what you post and how you actually feel, the cost of the grind
Learning to ask for help, lean on people, and stop burning out quietly
Writing and performing "Lean On Me" AND the healing that came from singing it for the first time
Māori men, mental health, and finding ways to build momentum when life gets hard
What drives him now: his babies, his partner, his whānau, and showing up for himself first

Episode Links
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What if the reason you can't get to where you want to go… isn't about what you're doing but who you're being?
It took me half a year to learn this lesson. And one simple shift at 4:15am changed everything.
This is a Grow With Me solo episode, coming straight off the back of our brother-to-brother wānanga where tāne came together in person after 12 weeks of journeying online.
I'm sharing three things in this kōrero:
The teachings that came through the wānanga — clarity, the subconscious mind, and how the weeds we never planted are still running our lives. The honest, real-time experience of the post-wānanga come-down (yes, I popped off at the tamariki and what that taught me). And the framework that's changed my entire year: What / How / Who — and why focusing on who you need to become is the only thing that actually moves the needle.
This one's for the Tāne who showed up, for anyone in service mode whose cup is drained, and for everyone in the Planting Seeds whānau who's stepping out of old paths into something more aligned 🌱

EPISODE BREAKDOWN
✨ The brother-to-brother wānanga✨ Why the weeds in your subconscious mind aren't yours✨ How "internal safety" changes the way you show up✨ The honest truth about the post-wānanga come-down✨ Keeping your energy in — the discipline of grace when your cup is drained✨ The What / How / Who framework that changed everything✨ Why waking up at 4:15am unlocked a year of alignment✨ The one simple action hidden in every transformation

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