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Dr. Olivia Kessel
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  • Medication for ADHD: Breaking Down the Science and Stigma
    Should you consider medication for your child with ADHD? As both a doctor and the mother of a neurodivergent teenager, I've navigated this question from multiple perspectives—and discovered that much of what we believe about ADHD medication simply isn't supported by science.The hesitation many parents feel about medication stems from understandable concerns, but often these worries are based on myths rather than medical evidence. What surprised me most in my own journey was learning about the significant developmental gap children with ADHD experience. Their executive functioning skills—abilities like emotional regulation, working memory, and self-motivation—typically develop at approximately 30% behind their peers. This means a 12-year-old might functionally have the capabilities of a 9-year-old, with this gap widening as they grow older.This crucial insight helps explain why ADHD medication works so effectively. Rather than changing who your child is, medication bridges this developmental gap. For 55% of children, stimulant medication completely eliminates the executive function delay while active in their system, while another 35% see significant improvement. The research is compelling—with an effect size of 1.2 (compared to 0.5 for antidepressants), ADHD medication ranks among the most effective psychiatric treatments available.Throughout this episode with Jane Trowbridge from Sensational Tutors, we explore the difference between stimulant and non-stimulant medications, address common misconceptions, and examine the serious long-term consequences of leaving ADHD untreated. Particularly striking is research showing untreated ADHD can reduce lifespan by 11 years—a sobering statistic that underscores why effective treatment matters.Whether you're currently weighing medication options or simply want to understand the science behind ADHD treatment better, this episode provides clear, evidence-based information to help you make informed decisions that could profoundly impact your child's development, confidence, and future success.www.sendparenting.com
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  • The legal lifeline for SEN families with Richard Orr, CEO of SOS SEN
    Richard Orr, CEO of SOS SEN charity, shares how they empower families navigating the special educational needs system through legal support, advice centres, and their national helpline. Their pre-action protocol letters achieve a remarkable 97-98% success rate in resolving cases without going to tribunal, saving families from lengthy legal battles while securing proper educational provisions.• SOS SEN started 20 years ago when concerned individuals helped parents fight a special needs school closure• The charity offers both emotional support and practical legal guidance to families struggling with local authorities• Their pre-action protocol letters remind local authorities of their legal obligations, often resolving cases immediately• Local authorities spent £100 million fighting tribunals with only 2% success rate – wasting money that could support children• The charity has expanded to offer advice centres across England and doubled their helpline hours• All services are designed to be accessible regardless of financial circumstances• Top tips include: keep everything in writing, find your supportive "tribe" of other SEND parents, and use first names with professionals to level the playing fieldClick here to get more information on SOS!SEN Click here to join our private WhatsApp SEND Parenting community for a safe space to connect with other parents navigating their neurodiverse journey. You'll find support, insights and real conversations with like-minded parents who truly understand. www.sendparenting.com
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  • The reality of a neurodivergent household with Greer Jones, Host of The Unfinished Podcast
    Two mothers, both podcast hosts, both raising neurodivergent children in the UK, come together for an honest conversation about the realities that many parents never see coming. Dr. Olivia Kessel (SEND Parenting Podcast) and Greer Jones (The Unfinished Idea) share their raw, unfiltered experiences navigating a system that often feels designed to exclude rather than support.From the moment Greer's son started school and was immediately restricted to two-hour days, to Olivia's shocking discovery of local authority deception through a subject access request during her daughter's EHCP process, these stories highlight the extraordinary lengths parents must go to secure appropriate education for their children. Both women speak candidly about the emotional toll – the isolation, the constant advocacy, and the financial strain that comes with fighting for services most families take for granted.But this conversation offers more than commiseration. Drawing from her medical background, Olivia explains how understanding neurodevelopmental differences transforms parenting approaches. Together, they share practical strategies that actually work: using sticky notes to externalize executive functioning, setting up visual timetables, and even programming Alexa to provide reminders that don't trigger the resistance that parental instructions might.Most powerfully, they discuss finding community amidst the struggle. "We are normal," Olivia emphasizes, noting that 20% of the world is neurodiverse. "Our differences are what make us special." They remind listeners that traditional parenting methods often fail neurodivergent children not because the children are broken, but because those methods weren't designed for their beautifully different brains.Whether you're raising a neurodivergent child or simply want to better understand and support the families around you, this episode offers valuable insights into turning challenges into opportunities for growth, connection, and yes – even joy. Ready to rewrite the parenting rulebook on terms that actually work for your family?www.sendparenting.com
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  • Caregivers self-care guide with Eleonora Magri, founder of Inclusi
    Dr. Olivia Kessel explores the essential yet often overlooked topic of caregiver self-care with behavior analyst Eleanor Magri, revealing how nurturing ourselves is not selfish but necessary for effectively supporting our neurodivergent children.• Neurodiversity family specialist Eleanor Magri introduces the concept of holistic support that includes caring for the caregiver• Parents often feel guilty prioritizing their needs, viewing self-care as selfish rather than necessary• Simple sensory self-care strategies like spending time in a darkened room or using calming sounds can regulate the nervous system• Building sustainable self-care habits by "stacking" them with existing routines (like adding a breathing exercise before brushing teeth)• A case study demonstrating how parental self-regulation led to improved communication and fewer crises with a neurodivergent adult daughter• The importance of creating awareness about burnout symptoms and recognizing when intervention is needed• Understanding that between two hard paths, consistent self-care offers better long-term outcomes• A free "Caregiver Balance Sheet" resource to help visualize time invested in children versus oneselfJoin our private SEND Parenting WhatsApp community for support, insights and connections with like-minded parents who truly understand. The link is available in the show notes.Click here for Free Caregiver Balance Sheetwww.inclusi.org/caregiverbalancesheetwww.sendparenting.com
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  • Navigating neurodiversity as a father with Ross Jones of Skoolio
    Ross Jones shares his profound journey of discovering his ADHD at age 36 and how this diagnosis transformed his understanding of himself, his relationships, and his approach to parenting his neurodivergent children.• Learning to recognize the difference between tasks you don't like versus tasks that are genuinely challenging for your neurodivergent brain• Navigating the complex emotions that come with receiving an adult ADHD diagnosis• Understanding how ADHD affects relationships and finding better ways to communicate needs• Creating systems to manage household conflicts around different needs for order and organization• Supporting neurodivergent children by validating their experiences while helping them develop self-compassion• How Ross's personal journey inspired him to create Schoolio, an AI-powered educational platform designed specifically for neurodivergent learners• Using technology to cultivate curiosity and eliminate judgment from the learning process• The importance of helping children recognize that challenges don't define their worth• Developing self-awareness as a parent to avoid triggering emotional dysregulation in your children• Finding your authentic self after years of masking and people-pleasingIf you're looking for a safe space to connect with other parents navigating their neurodiverse journey, our private WhatsApp community offers support, insights and real conversations with like-minded parents who truly understand. Join the conversation today. You can find the link in the show notes.The link to Skoolio.xyz -  the sign up for the beta test is right in the header of the site www.sendparenting.com
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About SEND Parenting Podcast

Welcome to the Send Parenting Podcast. I'm your neurodiverse host, Dr Olivia Kessel, and, more importantly, I am a mother to my wonderfully neurodivergent daughter, Alexandra, who really inspired this podcast. As a veteran in navigating the world of neurodiversity, I have uncovered a wealth of misinformation, alongside many answers and solutions that were never taught to me in medical school or in any of the parenting handbooks.Each week on this podcast, I will be bringing the experts to your ears to empower you on your parenting crusade. 
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