Episode 218 - Healing Isn’t When the Pain Stops, It’s When the Patterns Do
On this episode Brian Berneman explores the concept of healing beyond the cessation of pain or suffering, and discuss the role of pain in personal growth.Healing isn't just about eliminating pain; it's about shifting underlying emotional, behavioral, energetic, and ancestral patternsPain and suffering are messengers, signaling aspects of ourselves that need attention and transformationHealing is non-linear, often messy, and can initially intensify awareness of repressed feelings before leading to clarity and lightnessMultiple modalities (e.g., somatic work, mindfulness, energy healing) can be employed in the healing journey, tailored to individual needsRedefining Healing:Healing goes beyond symptom disappearancePain as a messenger, not an enemyHealing involves exploring multiple dimensions:Body: Somatic imprints, tension, nervous system regulationMind: Negative self-talk patterns, behavioral loopsEnergy: Blockages, fragmentation in subtle bodyApproaches to Healing:Family Constellation & Ancestral Healing: Identify and release inherited patternsSomatic practices: Rewire physical and emotional response cyclesMindfulness meditation: Increase present moment awareness, shift from reacting to respondingEnergy healing: Clear and realign energetic systemsBuddhist perspective: Acknowledging suffering as part of reality (samsara), while recognizing a path out of sufferingThe Non-Linear Nature of Healing:Can be messy, tender, and painfulMay involve grief, disorientation, or loss of identityInitial intensification of awareness and feelingsGradual shift towards feeling lighter, calmer, and more connectedTimeframe varies greatly: from days to yearsSelf-Reflection in Healing:Identify recurring patterns despite symptom reliefWillingness to let go of familiar patternsExplore various methodologies to find what works personallyIntegration and Presence:Bringing new habits and perspectives into daily lifeChoosing presence over patterns consistentlyViewing healing as returning to wholenessUnderstanding that pain may recur, but responses can changeSupport the showSupport the show_________Ready to embark on your journey to wellbeing and conscious living? ✨ Transform your life🟡 Experience transformative events💥 Explore holistic therapies for healing & mindful living🙋♀️ Book Brian as a speaker to inspire your audience🟠 Support your employees' physical & mental wellbeingConnect with Brian:Website | https://www.brianberneman.com/Instagram | @brianberneman LinkedIn | @brianbernemanFacebook | @brianberneman