Conversations With Wāhine

Every so often, you meet someone whose life story doesn't just make you pause—it demands that you look closer at the invisible structures of power, control, and resilience operating right in our backyard.
Lindy Jacombwas born into a world defined by strict boundaries. Growing up multi-generational in the Exclusive Brethren—now known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church—her childhood in Auckland was built around daily chapel services, a clear-cut sense of 'us versus the world', and an expectation of absolute compliance. But at age 19, she did something dangerous: she started reading the teachings of Jesus directly from a tattered Bible and asking questions of her leadership.
By age 20, the verdict was handed down. She was excommunicated and cast out. Overnight, she faced total familial shunning—losing her parents, siblings, friends, and the only reality she had ever known, left to survive in a 'worldly' society she had been taught to fear.
But she didn’t just survive; she rebuilt. Today, she is a Bachelor of Theology graduate, a former Baptist pastor, a co-host of the Cult Chat Podcast, and a leading speaker at New Zealand’s premier cult awareness conference, DECULT. As the founder of the Olive Leaf Network, she has dedicated her life to providing a lifeline, advocacy, and practical aid to those escaping high-control religious groups.
She is also organising this amazing event on 28 October:   WELLINGTON - Cult Awareness & Recovery Evening with Rachel Bernstein
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Harita chats to Petrina D'Rozario.
The power of cinema to connect distant corners of the world, break institutional barriers, and give a voice to diverse communities is magical. Petrina has spent her life at the intersection of international filmmaking, creative leadership, and cultural advocacy.

She started her journey in mass media and went on to champion massive systemic changes, serving as the Founder President of Women in Film & Television India to rewrite the script for female representation behind the scenes. As a powerhouse producer and executive, she managed regional slates as the COO for Priyanka Chopra Jonas’s Purple Pebble Pictures—earning three National Awards—and served as Acting CEO for Drishyam Films, overseeing the globally acclaimed Oscar entry Newton.

After relocating to Aotearoa, she stepped into vital local leadership as the Head of Screen CanterburyNZ. Now, she is bridging our two nations as the founder and Festival Director of The Indian Film Festival New Zealand, bringing its highly anticipated premier edition to our screens between 23-26 October.
You can buy tickets to TIFFNZ films screening over Labour weekend here:   TIFFNZ 2026 | The Indian Film Festival New Zealand
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Harita interviews Paloma Schneideman and Ani Palmer.
What does it mean to be a teenage girl who desperately wants to be seen as an adult, but deeply needs to be loved like a child?
In this episode, we chat to the visionary writer and director Paloma Schneideman and incredible breakout actor Ani Palmer, the brilliant duo behind the quiet film festival juggernaut, Big Girls Don't Cry.
Set against the backdrop of a sleepy, golden-sand New Zealand beach town during the sweltry summer of 2006, the film follows 14-year-old Sid (played with stunning, raw restraint by Ani in her onscreen debut). Desperate to escape childhood and reinvent herself, Sid finds herself caught in the intoxicating, messy orbit of wealthy out-of-town holidaymakers. It's a bittersweet, pre-smartphone slice of teendom complete with dial-up internet, dubstep, and MSN messaging facades.
But beneath the nostalgic 2000s soundtrack and summer haze lies something much deeper and unflinchingly honest. Paloma and Ani join us to unpack how the film bravely "rips open" the complicated realities of queer adolescence, female shame, and the blurred lines between consent and the desperate desire for validation.
In this episode, we dive into:
The Genesis of Sid: Paloma shares how her own youth in rural New Zealand inspired this deeply intimate character study.
From Non-Actor to Festival Star: Ani talks about stepping into her first-ever acting role and capturing the fragile bravado of being 14.
The "Seen vs. Desired" Trap: A raw conversation about the liminal space between girlhood and womanhood, and why looking back at teenage sexual awakening can feel both confronting and deeply cathartic.
Working with Executive Producer Jane Campion: How the legendary filmmaker supported the development of this powerful debut through her film program, A Wave in the Ocean.
Whether you lived through the 2006 MSN era or simply remember the terrifying thrill of trying to figure out who you are, this conversation is a beautiful, necessary gut-punch.
Big Girls Don't cry is screening in cinemas now!
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Harita interviews Tom Rutherford and Suze Redmayne.
When we talk about the future of New Zealand, it is easy to get caught up in the big, noisy headlines coming out of the Beehive. But if you want to understand where the country is actually heading, you have to look at the people pulling the levers behind the scenes—the electorate MPs balancing local, grassroots realities with the intense pressure of national policy.
Today, we are sitting down for a deep, long-form conversation with two of the National Party’s key voices from the class of 2023.
Suze Redmayne, the Member of Parliament for Rangitīkei. She’s a proud rural advocate, a co-founder of the award-winning Coastal Lamb brand, and the driving force behind proposed KiwiSaver amendments aimed at getting rural workers into their first homes.
Joining her is Tom Rutherford, the Member of Parliament for the Bay of Plenty and Chair of the Justice Select Committee. As one of the youngest MPs in the house, he’s spent his term managing heavily debated legislation, from controversial move-on orders to sweeping infrastructure projects in the provinces.
In this episode, we are skipping the standard seven-minute news soundbites. Instead, we are looking at the realities of the upcoming 2026 election cycle. We dive into what it really takes to balance primary production with climate targets, how the younger generation views law and order, and what happens when the isolation of regional life collides with the intense public scrutiny of Wellington.
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Sophie and Harita interview Kate McDonald.
If you’ve ever walked into a crowded room in Wellington and felt the electric, collective buzz of people talking about books, ideas, and storytelling, chances are today's guest helped build that room. Kate McDonald is the Co-Director of Verb Wellington, the creative force behind the beloved Verb Readers & Writers Festival and the iconic LitCrawl.
Kate’s journey is a masterclass in creative leadership. She started at Verb six years ago as a volunteer, working her way up through many roles in the organization. Combined with years of experience coordinating events at the legendary Unity Books Wellington, Kate has a rare, ground-level understanding of what makes a literary community truly thrive.
Today, she co-leads Verb alongside Gabrielle Vincent, championing inclusive spaces, amplifying marginalized voices, and reimagining how we gather to celebrate stories.
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