Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries

What a Changing Garden Teaches  - Finding What Belongs
Sometimes what we see as a problem is simply a message.
While visiting a longtime client in Sparta, New Jersey, Mary Stone reflects on shifting conditions in our landscapes—from struggling rhododendrons and declining pachysandra to the beauty and wisdom of moss. Along the way, she revisits an old dilemma—ants in a mossy patio—with a fresh perspective shaped by time, experience, and a growing appreciation for nature’s balance.
Link to the Companion Post:  What a Changing Garden Teaches
🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcasts: 
Podcast Episodes:
Ep 121 – Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies
Ep 249 – Living Mulch: Layering with Native Plants
Ep 173 – Oakleaf Hydrangea for All Seasons 
Ep  10 – Beauty in Dreariness, Furry Invaders 
Ep 250 -  Weeping Cherry Dilemmas: Trees Tell a Story
Blog Posts:
Ants Be Gone

Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies

Magnificent Moss

Native Rhododendrons
 
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 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
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A weeping cherry tree begins to “bleed,” revealing what lies beneath—from soil stress to planting missteps. Plus, seed-starting tips and a reflection on where we’re truly meant to grow. 
In this episode, I share what gummosis can tell us about tree health and planting practices, and why repeated plant failure in the same spot deserves a closer look. 
We also revisit how weeping cherry trees are grafted, what reversion means, and how to care for them thoughtfully.
Along the way, I share a few clever seed-planting techniques from listeners and a small correction from last week’s episode—because the garden is always teaching.
Link to the Companion Blog Post: When a Weeping Cherry “Bleeds”: What Lies Beneath

🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcasts: 
Ep 247 - Nothing Is Wasted: Leaf Mold, Mulch & Letting Go 
Ep 249 - Living Mulch: Layering with Native Plants 
Reverting Weeping Cherry - Blog Post 

How to make DIY Seed Tape

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More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone.com
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Replacing mulch with living layers that nourish soil, support wildlife, and gently teach us patience.
What if you could stop mulching—and let plants do the work instead?
In this episode, we explore “living mulch” with native groundcovers and layered plantings that support soil, wildlife, and a self-sustaining garden. Along the way: spring planting timing, a client story, and a gentle reminder—plants sleep, creep, then leap.
🌱 Related Episodes
If you’d like to dig a little deeper, these earlier episodes pair beautifully with today’s conversation:
·         Ep 247: Leaf Mold, Mulch, and the Lesson of Letting Go 
·         Ep 206: Soil Temperatures and Sowing Seeds 
·         Ep 121: Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies 
·         Ep 31: Comedy of Crickets, Mayapple of My Eye 
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I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at [email protected].   
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Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
 Mary Stone
Columnist & Garden Designer

More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
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After a harsh winter, Mary Stone reflects on healing in the garden and in life—sharing spring pruning tips, plant care insights, and a humorous tale of “hotdog flies”—all woven with a gentle reminder to slow down, notice beauty, and make room for joy.
Link to the Companion Post: Healing After Winter: In the Garden—and in Life
Links to related Podcasts and Posts: 
Ep. 92: The Secret Life of Pinecones
Ep 155. Spacing Plants and Splendid Smokebush
Blog Post: Rejuvenation Pruning & Smokebush
Blog post: Remedies for Boxwood Leaf Miner 
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More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone.com
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As spring unfolds, I find myself reflecting on what remains, what falls away, and what—over time—returns to nourish us again.
In this episode, I share a walk in the woods that took an unexpected turn, along with listeners’ questions about using leaves or wood chips in the garden. From there, we explore the benefits of leaf mold versus traditional mulch—how to make it, when to use it, and why it may be one of nature’s most generous gifts.
With Easter upon us—a season that holds endings and beginnings in the same breath—I also reflect on a personal decision about letting go, inspired by the image of a leaf carried by water.
In nature, nothing is wasted.
And perhaps… neither are the moments in our lives.
Link to the Companion Blog Post: Leaf Mold vs. Mulch & the Lesson of Letting Go 
🌱 In this episode:
• How deep to apply leaves in garden beds
• What leaf mold is and how to make it
• Leaf mold vs. wood mulch (including dyed mulch concerns)
• When fresh wood chips are appropriate
• The idea of “living mulch” in mature gardens
• Lawn tips to support pollinators
🌿 Garden of Life Reflection:
What falls away isn’t the end—
It’s part of what feeds what comes next.
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🔍 Keywords:
leaf mold, mulch, gardening tips, soil health, sustainable gardening, letting go, garden of life
🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcast:
No-Mow May helps Pollinators - Blog Post
Ep 103 - No Mow May & Marvelous Moss
Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear - Blog Post
Ep 246 - Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear
 

More about the Podcast and Column:

 Welcome to Garden Dilemmas, Delights, and Discoveries.

 It's not only about gardens; it's about nature's inspirations, about grasping the glories of the world around us, gathering what we learned from Mother Nature, and carrying these lessons into our garden of life. So, let's jump in, in the spirit of learning from each other. We have lots to talk about.

Thanks for tuning in, Mary Stone 
Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone.com
Direct Link to Podcast Page