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From Chronic Illness to Solo Mum: Nelly’s Long Road to Violet
⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of miscarriage, fertility challenges, and medical complications during pregnancy.

Season 5 continues with Nelly’s story — one of resilience, persistence, and navigating an incredibly complex path to motherhood.

Nelly didn’t grow up assuming she would have children. With a history of renal failure, transplants, and years of medical treatment, motherhood didn’t feel like a given.

But over time, that quiet desire became impossible to ignore.

In this episode, she shares:

Living with chronic illness and how that shaped her path to motherhood

The unexpected discovery of a rare genetic condition during fertility testing

A long IVF journey with multiple cycles, losses, and setbacks

The decision to move forward with an egg donor — and how a friend changed everything

Navigating complex medical care throughout pregnancy

A sudden and traumatic early birth at 30 weeks

Life in NICU and the emotional reality of becoming a mum in those circumstances

This episode is raw, honest, and deeply human.

Key Takeaways

The journey to motherhood can be far more complex than expected.

Advocating for yourself and asking questions can change everything.

Support networks can shape your entire experience.

There is no “perfect” path — only your path.

Even the hardest journeys can lead to something incredibly meaningful.

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Megan’s Solo Mum by Choice Journey: Taking It One Step at a Time
Season 5 continues with Megan’s story — and her journey to becoming a solo mum by choice.

In this episode, Megan shares how she approached this decision step by step instead of focusing on the end result, and how that made the process feel more manageable.

In this episode, she talks about:

Listening to other solo mums and how that helped her feel less alone

Taking the process step by step instead of focusing on the end result

Known donor conversations and why facilitated conversations are important

Adjusting her relationship with work after becoming a mum

Living with her mum and raising her son together

Trusting that you will figure out parenting as you go

This conversation is thoughtful, calm, and very reassuring for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the idea of making such a big decision.

If the idea of solo motherhood feels too big to think about all at once, this episode is a really comforting reminder that you don’t have to make every decision today — you can just take the next step.

Key Takeaways

Taking the process step by step can make big decisions feel more manageable.

Facilitated conversations can help when making known donor decisions.

Motherhood can change your relationship with work and priorities.

Support can come from family and different living arrangements.

You may not know what you’re doing at first, but you will figure it out.

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The best support you could ask for when TTC or pregnant as a solo mum-to-be
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Jane’s Solo Mum Journey: IVF, Identical Twins & A Pregnancy That Changed Everything
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of pregnancy complications, pregnancy loss, premature birth, and NICU. Please listen with care and skip this episode if now is not the right time for you.

Season 5 continues with Jane’s story — and this is a story that will stay with you.

Jane always knew she wanted to be a mum, but after years of dating and never finding the right partner, she made the decision at 35 to pursue solo motherhood. What followed was a long IVF journey, big financial decisions, and learning to back herself even when the path felt uncertain.

When Jane finally fell pregnant, she received a surprise she never expected — identical twins.

But her pregnancy quickly became high-risk, and what followed was a rollercoaster of fear, resilience, impossible decisions, and navigating motherhood before her babies had even arrived.

This episode is about:

IVF and the emotional toll of trying to conceive on your own

Making big life decisions without a partner

High-risk pregnancy and how quickly things can change

Grief, fear, resilience and becoming a mother in very unexpected circumstances

The reality of doing this without a partner — but not without support

This conversation is raw, honest, and incredibly powerful — and a reminder that solo motherhood doesn’t always look the way you think it will, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth it.

Key Takeaways

You don’t have to have everything figured out to start.

IVF is often much harder than people expect.

Support networks matter more than you think.

Solo motherhood requires courage — but also community.

Even when things don’t go to plan, you can still find your way.

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Hayley’s Solo Mum by Choice Journey: From “One Day” to Done
Season 5 continues with Hayley’s story — one that will resonate with so many women sitting in the “I know I want a baby… but when?” stage.

Hayley didn’t wake up one day suddenly certain. Instead, her journey was gradual. Thoughtful. Honest.

In this episode, she shares:

When she realised motherhood wasn’t something she wanted to gamble on

The internal shift from “maybe later” to “now”

Navigating the donor process

The emotional reality of doing this without a partner

What surprised her most about stepping into solo motherhood

This conversation isn’t dramatic. It’s grounded. Calm. Clear.

And that’s exactly what makes it powerful.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between waiting and moving forward, this episode will feel like someone gently holding up a mirror.

Key Takeaways

Clarity often builds quietly, not explosively.

Waiting can feel safe — until it starts costing you time.

Donor selection is emotional, not just practical.

You don’t have to feel 100% fearless to move forward.

Choosing solo motherhood isn’t about rejecting partnership — it’s about prioritising what matters most.

City Fertility Offer
I couldn't continue to make this podcast without the help of our fabulous sponsor, City Fertility. If you're looking into fertility treatment on your own, make sure you take advantage of the exclusive 20% discount for No Need for Prince Charming listeners. Learn more here.

The best support you could ask for when TTC or pregnant as a solo mum-to-be
Trying to conceive or pregnant and want your village? The Bump Membership is your private WhatsApp community + fortnightly Zoom Connection Calls with solo mums-to-be across Australia & New Zealand. Join the Bump here.

Solo Motherhood at 29, IVF in the USA & Raising a Donor-Conceived Child
Rhiannon didn’t spend years planning to become a solo mum. In fact, for most of her twenties she wasn’t even sure she wanted children at all.

Then one night she had a vivid dream about a baby girl named Beatrix — and the feeling never left. At 29, she decided to pursue motherhood on her own terms, travelling to the United States for IVF and gender selection. She became pregnant on her first embryo transfer and later welcomed her daughter Bunny during the COVID lockdowns.

In this episode, Rhiannon shares the surprising twists of her journey — from choosing treatment overseas, to navigating pregnancy during a global pandemic, to connecting with donor siblings across the world. She also reflects on the unexpected personal growth that came with becoming a parent, including receiving a later-in-life diagnosis of ADHD and autism.

Rhiannon’s story is funny, honest, and refreshingly real. It’s a reminder that motherhood doesn’t always arrive through the path we imagined — but sometimes the unexpected road leads exactly where we were meant to go.

Key Takeaways

A moment of clarity — how a dream about a baby girl led Rhiannon to pursue solo motherhood at 29.

IVF overseas and gender selection — why she chose to travel to the United States for treatment.

Pregnancy during COVID — the unexpected calm of experiencing pregnancy and newborn life during lockdown.

Donor sibling connections — how meeting families who used the same donor created a global extended family.

Parenting and self-discovery — how raising Bunny led to a late ADHD and autism diagnosis and a deeper understanding of herself.

City Fertility Offer
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