The Birth Chapter

Vaginal exams are commonly used but they don’t always give the full picture.
In this short educational episode, we chat through:
• what a VE can (and can’t) tell you
• when they might be helpful
• why they can impact the flow of labour
• your right to informed consent and refusal

Birth isn’t a number, it's a process and this episode is your permission slip to question it, understand it, and choose what feels right for your birth.

Today we're chatting to @chelseaelliss about her second birth to Lola. Chelsea shares her journey through hyperemesis and gestational diabetes again, navigating pregnancy with resilience, and ultimately choosing her dream of a home birth even when it went against hospital advice.
With a fast, intense active labour and a deeply positive postpartum experience, this conversation is honest, empowering, and such a beautiful reminder of trusting your instincts. We hope you love it as much as we did.

We are finally back for another episode after a long break! Happy 2026 to all our listeners.
We sat down and chatted to Lucie who went through the journey of being a surrogate for the past few years. She answers all the questions you are probably wondering too and shares her heartwarming story of helping to create a family after completing her own.

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✨ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of birth trauma. Please listen with care. ✨
In this week’s episode of The Birth Chapter, we sit down with Carla — a birth trauma support practitioner and former midwife. Together we open up a really important and sometimes uncomfortable)conversation around what birth trauma can look like, why it happens, and the ripple effects it can have on women and whānau and your entry to parenthood.
Carla shares her unique perspective as someone who walks alongside parents in the aftermath of difficult birth experiences and supports women to go on to have redeeming births. We talk about the misunderstandings around birth trauma, the emotional and physical layers, and most importantly, the pathways to healing and reclaiming your story.
If you’re pregnant with your first baby, this is such a valuable listen. Not to scare you, but to gently empower you with knowledge and insight, so you can enter birth feeling more prepared, supported, and aware of how to advocate for yourself.

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Let's talk about sex, baby! This week we’re joined again by women’s health physio Grace Coombs for a chat that’s as informative as it is hilarious. We’re talking all things postpartum sex — from pain and discomfot to pelvic floor and all things hormones. Nothing is off limits, and yes, there are plenty of laughs. Whether you’re nervous, curious, or just need to know you’re not the only one, this episode is a must-listen.