The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome

• #641: "I’ll Be Happy When…" (But Why Am I Still Not Happy?)

  We all do it: I’ll be happy when I lose the weight. When I hit six figures. When I find the right person. When I get that promotion. But then, the moment arrives… and happiness still feels out of reach. Why? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re unpacking the hidden confidence-killer of conditional happiness and how to break free from the “next-goal” trap.   You’ll learn the surprising reason why success doesn’t always equal joy, a simple daily shift that rewires your brain for lasting happiness, and how to stop feeling guilty for wanting more. Plus, we’ll talk about the “must be nice” mindset and how you can step into abundance—right where you are. If you’ve ever felt like happiness is just one more achievement away, this episode will change everything.   What You’ll Learn in Today’s Episode: ✅ Why achieving more won’t automatically make you happier ✅ How the “next goal” mindset is actually stealing your confidence ✅ A simple 3-minute daily shift to start feeling fulfilled now ✅ The secret to breaking free from the “must be nice” comparison trap   Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/641 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]  www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked 🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE  www.trishblackwell.com/nq 🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!  www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox  💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method ✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"  for just $17 at  https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/ 🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate     ✅ STAY CONNECTED. 👉‌Website:  https://www.trishblackwell.com/ 👉Instagram:  http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌  👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching     ⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️ 🔺TOP LEVEL (Ultimate Breakthrough Thought) ✨ I don’t have to wait for happiness—I create it now.   🔹MIDDLE LEVEL (Empowering Core Beliefs) My joy is not dependent on achievements. Confidence comes from presence, not pressure. Success without inner peace is not success at all. I allow myself to want more without guilt. I already have everything I need to feel fulfilled today.   🔻BOTTOM LEVEL (Daily Affirmations & Mindset Shifts) I am enough right now, as I am. I choose gratitude over dissatisfaction. I celebrate progress, not just results. Happiness is in the present, not the next milestone. I define success on my own terms.

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• #640: The Nobody Cares Theory

  Ever feel like people are constantly watching, judging, or keeping score of everything you do? Spoiler alert: they’re not. The truth is, nobody is thinking about you as much as you think they are—and when you fully embrace this, you’ll unlock a whole new level of confidence and freedom. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re diving deep into The Nobody Cares Theory—a game-changing mindset shift that will help you stop overthinking, take action without fear, and finally start showing up as your most confident self.   What You’ll Learn in Today’s Episode: ✅ The real reason people aren’t thinking about you as much as you believe ✅ How to stop overanalyzing and start taking bold action ✅ Daily confidence exercises to break free from self-doubt ✅ Power phrases to remind yourself that you’re free to be YOU ✅ Why shifting this one belief will change the way you live, work, and show up in the world   Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/640   📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]  www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked 🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE  www.trishblackwell.com/nq 🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!  www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox  💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method ✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com 🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"  for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle 🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate   ✅ STAY CONNECTED. 👉‌Website:  https://www.trishblackwell.com/ 👉Instagram:  http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌  👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching     ⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️ People are too busy to judge me. I refuse to overthink my own life. They’ll forget—I might as well go for it. I act boldly because nobody cares. Fear of judgment won’t run my life.

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• #639: How to Live a Big Life, Not a Busy Life

  Are you filling your days or truly fulfilling your life? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between living bigand just staying busy. You’ll learn how to break free from the hustle mindset, prioritize what actually matters, and create a life that feels expansive, not exhausting. If you’re ready to step into more purpose, joy, and intentionality, this episode is for you! If you’ve ever felt stuck in the hustle, like you’re doing a lot but not really living, you’re not alone. Somewhere along the way, we’ve been conditioned to believe that being busy is the same as being successful. That the more we do, the more valuable we are. But what if that’s a lie? What if busyness is actually the biggest distraction from living the life you’re meant for? So if you’re tired of feeling overwhelmed, if you’re ready to stop filling your days and start actually fulfilling your purpose, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it. In this episode, we’ll talk about:   ✔ Why so many people get stuck in the trap of always being on the go ✔ The key shifts that will help you live more intentionally ✔ How to redefine success so that your life feels expansive, not exhausting.   You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration. You don’t have to let disappointment define you. You have more power than you think—and today, I’m going to show you how to take it back.   Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/639   📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]  www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked 🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE  www.trishblackwell.com/nq 🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!  www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox  💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method ✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com 🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"  for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle 🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate   ✅ STAY CONNECTED. 👉‌Website:  https://www.trishblackwell.com/ 👉Instagram:  http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌  👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching     ⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️ I define success on my own terms.  I make space for what truly matters. I choose a BIG life, not just a full calendar.

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• #638: When Life Feels Unfair

  Have you ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, Why does everything seem so easy for them while I’m over here struggling?   Maybe you’ve been working hard for a promotion, only to watch someone less experienced get it. Maybe you’ve dreamed of having a family, but infertility has left you heartbroken. Maybe you grew up in a family that never really saw you, never really supported you, and now you’re left wondering how much further ahead you’d be if you had a different start in life.   Life isn’t always fair. And if you’ve ever felt like you got the short end of the stick, this episode is for you.   In this episode, we’ll talk about:   ✔ How to stop comparing your struggles to someone else’s success ✔ The mindset shift that will help you let go of resentment ✔ Practical ways to move forward when life feels like it’s working against you   You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration. You don’t have to let disappointment define you. You have more power than you think—and today, I’m going to show you how to take it back.   Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/638   📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]  www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked 🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE  www.trishblackwell.com/nq 🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!  www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox  💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method ✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com 🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"  for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle 🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate   ✅ STAY CONNECTED. 👉‌Website:  https://www.trishblackwell.com/ 👉Instagram:  http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌  👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching     ⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️ I don't need things to be fair; I accept the unpredictability of life. I know that God is good and He has a plan for me. I can't wait to see how this is all going to work out for my good.  I believe.

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• #637: The Power of Failure

  What if failure isn’t something to fear but a stepping stone to your greatest success? In this episode, we’re redefining failure and exploring how setbacks can become your most powerful tool for growth. You’ll hear inspiring stories of world-class achievers—like Michael Jordan, J.K. Rowling, and Walt Disney—who turned failure into fuel for success.   We’ll break down why we fear failure, how to reframe it as a learning experience, and practical steps to embrace it in your own life. If you’ve ever felt like failure means you’re not good enough, this episode will shift your mindset and show you why failing is actually a sign that you’re on the right path.   Get the transcript and full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/636   📌 ANXIETY NEUTRALIZATION TECHNIQUE: www.trishblackwell.com/anxiety 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK [THE NEW COURSE!]  www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring 🤑 THE FULLY BOOKED LIFE COACH METHOD, 75% Off! Limited Time! www.trishblackwell.com/fullybooked 🧠 THE NARRATIVE INTELLIGENCE BUNDLE  www.trishblackwell.com/nq 🔥COMPARISON DETOX, Newly released!!! On sale now!  www.trishblackwell.com/comparisondetox  💊DETOX YOUR SELF-DOUBT, Curently 98% Off, just $27 www.trishblackwell.com/selfdoubtdetox 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method ✅‌ ACCELERATE YOUR CONFIDENCE, RISK-FREE: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com 🆓 FREE TRAINING: "HOW TO FEEL GOOD ENOUGH" Grab instant, free access at www.trishblackwell.com/goodenough ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"  for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/journalmasterybundle 🎉 7-DAY SELF-TALK / SELF -VALIDATION CHALLENGE, for just $7 at www.trishblackwell.com/validate   ✅ STAY CONNECTED. 👉‌Website:  https://www.trishblackwell.com/ 👉Instagram:  http://instagram.com/trish_blackwell‌  👉Facebook: www.facebook.com/TrishBlackwellCoaching     ⚡️POWER PHRASE PYRAMID⚡️ Failing is proof I'm daring to grow. Success is built on the foundation of failure. I like failure - it moves me forward to success.

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