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Unlock the secrets of elite performance and sustainable well-being in this deep dive with Jess Spendlove, a renowned high-performance coach with a remarkable background in sports nutrition, elite sport, and military consulting. Jess reveals how top athletes and leaders optimise energy without sacrificing their health, sharing proven frameworks you can implement today. If you're driven, ambitious, and tired of the endless hustle, this episode is your blueprint for thriving at work and in life.
Most people underestimate the power of simple, rhythmic daily habits that harmonize your body’s natural cycles — and ignoring them sabotages your energy, focus, and sleep. Jess breaks down her "five rhythms": what to eat, how to move, manage stress, sleep, and connect authentically — and how aligning these with your circadian clock can elevate your performance effortlessly. You’ll discover why even peak performers—those training every day for Olympic gold or special ops—start with foundational daily rituals, not complex routines. Her insights show that high achievement doesn’t require extremes; what it demands is consistency, purpose, and smart recovery.
Key Takeaways
Key mental models for sustainable performance: the five rhythms—nutrition, movement, stress management, sleep, and connection to purpose and values.
Practical nutrition strategies, including meal timing, the importance of consistent habits, and the myth of a one-size-fits-all diet.
The significance of breakfast and meal rhythm in glucose control, focus, and energy levels.
Recommended supplements for optimal health and performance, including fish oil, creatine, magnesium, and cycling protocols.
How elite performers prioritise recovery through intentional, stimulant-free time, and the difference between recovery and relaxation.
The importance of social connection and aligning daily actions with core values for longevity and happiness.

Time Stamps
02:30 - Jess’ journey from elite swimmer to sports nutritionist
11:13 - Insights into elite athlete routines and dedication
12:20 - The five rhythms for sustainable high performance
15:08 - Practical nutrition habits and meal timing strategies
17:23 - The impact of breakfast on glucose and energy
26:40 - Supplements for cognitive and physical health
30:32 - The role of intentional recovery and rest
36:52 - Building connection, purpose, and aligning values
40:33 - Exercise routines for long-term health and strength

Resources
Jess’ Book: For The Long Run
Website: https://jessicaspendlove.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicaspendlove/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JessicaSpendlove


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Most of us are living on autopilot, distracted by social media, superficial pursuits, and fleeting pleasures, all while our true purpose and core values remain buried beneath the noise. What if uncovering your deepest values could be the key to transforming your life, boosting your energy, and aligning your daily actions with your authentic self? In this week's episode I chat with Dr. John Demartini, a human behavior expert and author who has dedicated decades to decoding what truly drives us.
Discover how your unique hierarchy of values shapes your perception, decisions, and destiny — and learn the practical, science-backed process to clarify what's most important to you. From understanding the influence of space and time on your priorities to identifying the subtle cues in your environment that reveal your true motivations, Dr. Demartini reveals a powerful framework to reclaim your purpose.
Key Takeaways
Values are your neural blueprint for purpose and behavior - The hierarchy of your values filter’s perception, decision-making, and action, shaping your life's trajectory. When values shift or are unclear, your biology and psychology signal imbalance through stress or illness.
External distractions hijack attention when internal priorities are unclear - Social media, entertainment, and consumer habits intensify when your subconscious values unacknowledged and unmet. These external stimuli serve as subliminal cues for what your mind craves but isn’t consciously aligned with.
Living outside your highest values triggers biological and psychological stress responses - When actions deviate from core values, the amygdala perceives threat, activating stress mechanisms that impair mitochondrial energy and foster disease. Authenticity and purpose act as biological stabilisers.
The process of discovering and living your highest values creates exponential growth in vitality and longevity - Living with purpose not only guides behavior but rewires neural pathways, extending telomeres, expanding consciousness, and lengthening lifespan.
The key to sustainable fulfillment is mastery over passions and external influences - The Greeks viewed passions derived from suffering as distractions. Modern distractions amplify this, pulling people into impulsive behaviours that block higher purpose.

Time Stamps
05:24 Why values shape behavior and destiny
08:44 Finding your own values vs. inherited “shoulds”
11:43 The first value determinant: what fills your space
17:11 Social media, attention, and intentional living
23:08 The second determinant: how you spend your time
28:40 The values determination process
30:24 Energy as a signal of what matters most
32:04 Money, organisation, and priorities
36:30 Values, meaning, stress, and relationships
40:32 Why living by someone else’s values doesn’t last
43:25 Seven questions for aligning life with your values
47:05 Discipline, delegation, and self-actualisation
50:23 Purpose versus modern distractions
52:09 Stress, eating, and immediate gratification
55:59 Stress as perception
58:22 Moving from passion to mission
59:38 Final takeaway: live by your highest priorities

Resources
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drjohndemartini
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjohndemartini/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DrDemartini
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjohndemartini/
Website: www.drdemartini.com

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