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Lito Villanueva went from a junior Air Force cyber specialist to a military contractor in Afghanistan, a special operations communications expert, and eventually a volunteer supporting teams near the front lines of the war in Ukraine.

In this episode, of Urban Valor, Lito shares the uncensored story of leaving the U.S. Air Force after two years, landing a $164,500 Afghanistan contractor job at 21, surviving daily mortar attacks at FOB Shank—better known as “Rocket City”—and entering the hidden world of special operations, C4ISR, military communications, drones, intelligence, surveillance, and kinetic strike operations.

He also opens up about the psychological cost of war, witnessing lethal operations, returning home disconnected from civilian life, battling depression, and finding a new sense of purpose through veteran suicide prevention and humanitarian work.

Years later, after Russia invaded Ukraine, Lito entered the country alone with humanitarian aid and eventually joined a team that needed his expertise in tactical communications, blue-force tracking, intelligence organization, and battlefield command-and-control systems.

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CHAPTERS
00:00 The Reality of War Behind the Curtain
01:22 Meet Lito Villanueva
02:05 Growing Up in a Filipino Navy Family
09:33 Why Lito Joined the Air Force
15:52 Why Basic Training Felt Easy
22:50 His First Air Force Assignment
25:30 The Leader He Refused to Follow
30:34 Leave the Air Force or Stay?
32:23 Life After the Military
34:34 Finding an Afghanistan Contractor Job
36:57 A $164,500 Job Offer at 21
42:28 Realizing He Was Going to a War Zone
01:07:56 Why He Returned to Afghanistan
01:09:46 Assigned to “Rocket City”
01:17:15 The Network Problem That Changed Everything
01:23:28 How He Entered Special Operations
01:29:02 Behind the Curtain of U.S. Military Power
01:44:59 The Conversation That Helped Him Heal
01:45:30 Building Battle Buddy for Veterans
01:50:42 Russia Invades Ukraine
01:52:51 Crossing Into Ukraine Alone
01:56:55 His First Mission to Kharkiv
01:58:39 Delivering Aid Near the Front Line
02:02:33 Joining a Ukrainian Support Team
02:08:54 Inside the Kharkiv Counteroffensive

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DISCLAIMER: The views and experiences shared in this interview are those of the individual and are recounted from personal memory.

Before Dustin Chappel ever stepped onto the battlefield, he had already spent his childhood fighting to survive.

Separated from his mother at just two years old, Dustin endured years of abuse, instability, homelessness, and constant moves before eventually dropping out of school and earning his GED. After witnessing the attacks of September 11th, he felt called to serve and joined the U.S. Army as a 12B Combat Engineer.

During two deployments to Iraq, Dustin conducted route-clearance missions, hunted insurgents, executed raids alongside infantry units, and survived some of the most dangerous streets in Baghdad. He describes a deployment where every patrol felt like "Russian roulette," facing complex ambushes, sniper fire, RPGs, and one of the most disturbing traps of the entire war... a body rigged to explode.

But this story doesn't end on the battlefield. Dustin opens up about the sniper round that was meant for him, dragging his wounded squad leader out of the line of fire, and the long road home — his fight with PTSD, checking himself into treatment, rebuilding his life, and the work he does today mentoring fellow veterans.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 The Baghdad alleyway ambush (cold open)
1:15 Meet Dustin Chappel — Staff Sergeant, US Army
1:30 A chaotic childhood: Alabama, California & family separation
4:47 Reunited with his mother, sent to Texas
9:24 Dropping out, Job Corps & earning his GED
11:28 Joining the National Guard
16:50 Why he enlisted: where he was on 9/11
18:42 First tour, Iraq 2003 — weapons caches & munitions
21:12 The gate lesson from the future Sergeant Major of the Army
23:33 Second tour 2006: "Russian roulette every single day"
26:11 The brutal IED training range in Kuwait
28:45 The combat plane dive into Baghdad
30:40 16 days in — the shot that was meant for him
32:30 Complex ambush & the M203 through the window
36:03 The alleyway rescue — shells down his squad leader's back
41:04 Sergeant Clary gets shot
44:53 Picking up bodies & the body-borne IED
47:42 The promotion board — making Staff Sergeant
51:16 The pillowcase hostage rescue
54:56 The taxi driver shot in the head
58:27 The 7-foot plywood rifle punishment
1:02:47 His brother in Iraq — the Apache pilot
1:05:58 Coming home & the hardest transition
1:06:46 College, and the flag speech that changed everything
1:09:36 Recognizing the PTSD symptoms
1:12:49 Checking himself into treatment
1:15:57 Meeting his wife & starting to heal
1:18:32 Helping veterans today at Grand Canyon University
1:20:18 Becoming a grandfather & his message to live for today
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Army Veteran Manny Pasillas Lucio shares the combat story that changed his life forever.

Born in Mexico and raised in California, Manny grew up navigating family tension, poverty, and the streets of Compton before deciding to join the Army after 9/11. After basic training at Fort Benning, he was sent to Fort Lewis, Washington, where he became part of a Stryker infantry unit and later joined a scout sniper platoon.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Manny opens up about his deployment to Iraq, including missions in Mosul, Baghdad, Taji, and Baqubah. He describes small team missions, hunting high-value targets, taking fire, encountering IEDs, working alongside other units, and the daily fear that came with operating outside the wire.

Manny also shares the devastating moment his Stryker was hit by an IED while returning to base. He woke up choking on smoke, heard screams around him, and later discovered his teammate Billy Ferris didn't survive the blast. That moment stayed with him long after Iraq.

After coming home, Manny struggled with PTSD, anger, depression, suicidal thoughts, family separation, and the painful reality of trying to become a father while still carrying the war inside him. He talks about pulling a gun on his mother after being startled awake, snapping at family members, feeling lost after the military, and eventually using education, therapy, fatherhood, and veteran advocacy to rebuild his life.

Chapters
00:00 Waking Up After the IED Blast
01:25 Manny’s Childhood in Mexico
02:48 Coming to the United States
03:49 Growing Up in Compton
08:08 Learning Independence as a Kid
10:05 Wanting to Become a Soldier
10:50 How 9/11 Changed Everything
11:37 Trying to Join the Military
14:04 Watching the Iraq Invasion Begin
15:31 Leaving for Basic Training
16:23 Arriving at Fort Benning
18:44 Building Confidence in Basic Training
22:11 Getting Sent to a Stryker Unit
23:24 Joining 5-20 Infantry
26:23 Becoming an RTO
27:57 Learning From Hard NCOs
32:19 Being Offered West Point
32:58 Moving to Scout Sniper Platoon
36:24 Deploying to Iraq
37:22 Landing in Kuwait
38:39 Arriving in Mosul
40:17 Small Kill Team Missions
41:11 First IED Strike in Iraq
41:51 Hunting a High-Value Target
43:30 Walking Outside the Wire
44:51 Capturing the Target
46:25 Moving From Mosul to Baghdad
47:11 Searching for a Downed Pilot
47:52 Taking Another IED Hit
49:26 Billy Borrows Manny’s Blanket
51:09 Spotting an IED on the Road
53:28 The Stryker Gets Hit
54:16 Escaping the Crushed Vehicle
56:08 Searching for Billy
57:30 Evacuating the Wounded
58:47 Sergeant Pucket’s Words After the Blast
59:18 Returning to Base in Shock
1:01:15 The Loss of Billy Ferris
1:05:04 Billy’s Memorial
1:06:14 Back to Combat Operations
1:07:04 Working With CIA and Special Forces
1:08:29 Testifying in the Green Zone
1:11:05 Inside Saddam’s Palace
1:12:00 Arriving in Baqubah
1:13:19 Taking Fire From All Sides
1:14:47 Clearing the City
1:15:13 The Scariest Missions of His Life
1:17:20 Finding Iraqi Police With Mortars
1:19:14 Ambush and Firefight
1:20:38 Becoming Numb to Loss
1:22:10 Fighting Al Qaeda in Baqubah
1:23:34 Coming Home From Iraq
1:25:22 Almost Going to Ranger Battalion
1:26:02 Leaving the Army
1:27:10 PTSD Hits at Home
1:28:26 Snapping Around Family
1:30:07 His Family Didn’t Know What Was Happening
1:34:12 Struggling in the Reserves
1:36:19 Drinking, Trouble, and Feeling Invincible
1:37:29 A Bad Experience at the VA
1:40:42 His Daughter Saved His Life
1:42:49 Using the GI Bill
1:43:14 Studying Psychology to Understand PTSD
1:44:53 “I Am Not My Mistakes”
1:45:39 Breaking Cultural Cycles
1:46:35 Becoming a Better Father
1:47:20 Helping Veterans Today
1:49:10 Reconnecting With Family
1:51:20 Why Manny Puts Himself First Now
1:52:02 Talking Honestly With His Daughter
1:53:24 Advocating for Veterans and Families
1:54:34 Manny’s Message to Struggling Veterans

Marine Corps veteran Alex D’Hue served from 2002 to 2008 and was assigned to Third ANGLICO, where he worked in small fire control teams providing air support while attached to other units. In this episode of Urban Valor, Alex shares the story of his difficult childhood, growing up between America and Belgium, surviving an abusive household, and eventually joining the Marine Corps after 9/11.

Alex opens up to Urban Valor about the chaos of Marine Corps boot camp, the moments that nearly broke him, and how getting assigned to Third ANGLICO changed the direction of his military career. He later deployed to Iraq, where his team supported missions outside the wire, worked alongside Iraqi forces and U.S. units, and experienced the reality of combat in a way he never forgot.

One of the most intense moments of Alex’s deployment happened during a mission when his best friend Jackson took a sniper round to the helmet. Alex describes hearing “sniper fire,” seeing Jackson on the ground, dragging him back under cover, checking for blood, and realizing the helmet had stopped the round from going through. He also reflects on how the team’s movement afterward may have saved his own life.

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Chapters: 
00:00 Marine sees his best friend hit by sniper fire
01:13 Alex D’Hue’s Marine Corps background
01:32 Growing up in a broken home
04:58 Being sent to Belgium as a child
06:09 His grandfather’s World War II legacy
08:42 Child services visits the home
11:18 Growing up American in Belgium
13:37 Losing his grandmother to cancer
17:17 Returning to America at 13
19:41 His father’s murder trial
25:38 Reuniting with family in California
27:29 Abuse inside the household
30:16 Running away from home
31:07 Getting in trouble before joining the Marines
31:27 How 9/11 pushed him toward service
34:52 Arriving at Marine Corps boot camp
36:19 Chaos inside boot camp
38:42 Getting targeted by drill instructors
43:16 The brass casing incident
45:11 Fights and hazing in boot camp
49:08 The drill instructor who crossed the line
50:21 Joining Third ANGLICO
51:22 What ANGLICO Marines actually do
52:43 Getting NJP’d before his combat unit
59:02 Arriving at a combat unit
1:00:26 How ANGLICO deployments worked
1:09:35 Deploying to Iraq
1:10:22 First moments at Camp Ramadi
1:11:19 Working with Iraqi forces
1:15:10 The mission that turned deadly
1:15:58 “Sniper fire”
1:16:20 Jackson goes down
1:16:40 Dragging his best friend to cover
1:17:16 Checking the helmet and head wound
1:18:09 How the helmet saved Jackson
1:18:53 Trying to locate the sniper
1:20:21 Running in the sniper’s line of fire
1:23:27 Why Alex wanted Jackson medevaced
1:23:58 The zigzag that may have saved his life
1:24:57 Nearly falling while crossing open ground
1:26:10 What war does to brotherhood
1:27:24 Almost fighting an Army leader over a helmet strap
1:30:00 Reflections on deployment and Marine Corps culture

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Former Marine Force Recon veteran Kirk Spradely, call sign “Tadpole,” shares his powerful life story...from surviving a brutal childhood and orphanage violence, to becoming a Marine Force Recon operator, working for Blackwater in Iraq, serving in OGA special programs, flying Blackhawk and Apache helicopters, and later supporting the Kurdish military.

In this episode of Urban Valor, Kirk opens up about the day his teammate Tommy Jenner was killed by an enemy sniper in Ramadi. Kirk says the sniper was likely Juba, one of the most feared enemy snipers in Iraq. He describes watching Tommy fall beside him, hearing his teammate yell “sniper, get down,” and realizing a follow-up round had just cracked over his head.

Kirk also talks about Marine Force Recon training, combat diving, counter-narcotics operations, Blackwater convoy work, OGA special programs, the moment he met a Taliban-contracted assassin, flying medevac missions for wounded troops, and attempting to help build a Kurdish Air Force before the referendum fallout. 

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