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Why Are We Like This?

Why Are We Like This: A Queer Media Analysis Podcast
Why Are We Like This?
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  • Why Are We Like This?

    Heated Rivalry: 1.03 Hunter

    19/2/2026 | 2h 43 mins.
    Hi!
    I am back with Adam and Andi (Triple A status this time) to take a trip to the Big Apple and have some very gross looking smoothies! What a gem this episode is. We get to add Maria and Elena to the Girls Protecting the Gays Committee. We get a nice break from the horrible communication we have seen previously, as these two are just open and honest from jump. Also, shout out to Kip's dad for being the actual best ever?
    This is the longest episode WAWLT has ever put out so, buckle up!
    *Oh! And I apologize for the screaming cat in the background... My pets apparently have a lot to say about Heated Rivalry and are desperate to be involved in these recordings.
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    A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much!
    Amalie  
    Sascha
    Meghan
    Laura
  • Why Are We Like This?

    Heated Rivalry: 1.02 Olympians

    05/2/2026 | 2h 16 mins.
    I am back with a brand new set of cohosts!! This episode I have Jeremy, Susan, and Aliza joining me to dive into flirty text montages, a sex scene far too tender to be casual, the emotional terror that is the Sochi Olympics, panic attacks in award show bathrooms, and crying in Vegas... again.
    So sorry for my elderly dog barking like mad from around minute 13 to around minute 40. You can only hear it when I talk and I tried to cut as much out as I could. He is seventeen and usually my partner is home to sit with him while I record but unfortunately for the first hour of this recording that was not an option.

    Here is the link to Ilya's perspective on Vegas from Rachel's website that is heavily referenced in the episode.

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    A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much!
    Amalie  
    Sarah
    Sascha
    Meghan
    Laura
  • Why Are We Like This?

    Heated Rivalry: 1.01 Rookies

    22/1/2026 | 1h 44 mins.
    Oh, hello there.
    Welcome to our Heated Rivalry Discussions! This episode I have Ian Carlos Crawford and Chelsea King visiting Canada with me to meet our soulmate, head to the draft, form a rivalry, and then (naturally) start fucking.
    [[Update: My tv is very old and I watched this episode on a friend's very nice new tv and was like omg, that is for sure NOT suite that Hayden is wearing. There's like a patterned stitch across the back that is not visible on my terrible tv. But it is still a nice outfit!]]

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    If you are enjoying the pod, please consider rating and reviewing on your preferred platform! We would greatly appreciate it!

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    A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much!
    Amalie  
    Sarah
    Sascha
    Meghan
    Laura
    Lacie
  • Why Are We Like This?

    0.22: A Discussion on Mental Health in Heartstopper

    13/1/2026 | 1h 31 mins.
    Hi!
    I am back with a new friend, Gloria, to chat about the Mental Health representation we get in the show and how important it is. CW: This means we are going to be touching on a lot of tough topics that could be triggering.
    I don't know what I was knocking around so much during this recording but I am sorry for the bumps and thumps!
    If you or someone you know is struggling, here are some resources that might help:
    National Crisis line for US- 988
    LGBTQIA National Hotline-888-843-4564
    Translifeline- 877-565-8860.
    Translifeline warm lines and hotlines
    Blackline- 1-800-604-5841
    UK listeners can call 111 and choose the mental health option.
    UK listeners can call 116 123 to talk to Samaritans, or email: [email protected] for a reply within 24 hours
    UK listeners can text "SHOUT" to 85258 to contact the Shout Crisis Text Line, or text "YM" if you're under 19. If you're under 19, you can also call 0800 1111 to talk to Childline. The number will not appear on your phone bill.
    NHS
    NHS again
    HRC
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    Join our Patreon for early access to episodes + more bonus content: tinyurl.com/WhyAreWePatreon
    If you are enjoying the pod, please consider rating and reviewing on your preferred platform! We would greatly appreciate it!

    Follow us online:
    Insta: tinyurl.com/WhyareweInsta
    Discord: discord.gg/xg5dpEyfgX
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    A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much!
    Amalie  
    Sarah
    Sascha
    Meghan
    Laura
    Lacie
  • Why Are We Like This?

    0.21: Chapter Four (Part Two)

    29/11/2025 | 1h 13 mins.
    Hi!
    Here’s a really old recording I did with Alyssa continuing the comics! It was SO LOVELY to hear her voice again on the pod.🥹 (Note: this was recorded so long ago that we use the wrong pronouns for Darcy. They hadn’t canonically changed their pronouns yet. I am sorry about that!!)
    There’s a lot of background noise in this one and I am sorry for that, as well. It was clearly summer. There’s mowers going and kids yelling. And Alyssa moved near a fire station so we struggled with that too. BUT I hope you enjoy heading to Paris with the squad, watching the teachers flirt, learning Nick can speak French, and of course- Hickeys! Also, unfortunately we start to dig into Charlie’s struggles and start to discuss his disordered eating. So, it gets a bit heavy for a minute.

    Join our Patreon for early access to episodes + more bonus content: tinyurl.com/WhyAreWePatreon
    If you are enjoying the pod, please consider rating and reviewing on your preferred platform! We would greatly appreciate it!

    Follow us online:
    Insta: tinyurl.com/WhyareweInsta
    Discord: discord.gg/xg5dpEyfgX
    Follow Ash: tinyurl.com/Ashonline

    A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much!
    Josh H.  
    Amalie  
    Maja
    Cassie
    Jessey
    Sascha
    Sarah
    Laura
    Lacie

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An in depth queer media analysis podcast. Join us on our mission of finding out why we are like this by dissecting our favorite queer television shows scene by scene in extreme detail.
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