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- It’s time for a gem from the archives, settle in for another Background Check! On this week’s Intimacy Coordinator, Joel Kim Booster talked to one of our all-stars, the hilarious Zach Noe Towers, so we’re throwing back to his appearance last year, when he told Joel and fellow guests Mano Agapion and Oscar Montoya about the time he attempted a threesome with the textbook threesome couple (the hottest man you have ever seen in your life, and his troll doll boyfriend). Enjoy this rollercoaster of a clip, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Zach, Brendan Scannell, and Dr Evan Goldstein!
Zach Noe Towers: @zachnoetowers on Insta, Good Morning Sodomites podcast
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09/11/2026 | 53 mins.This week Joel Kim Booster brings in a real specialist, as anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein (Bespoke Surgical, Butt Seriously) joins Zach Noe Towers (Twink Death, Good Sod) and Brendan Scannell (Bonding, The Abyss) for a full hour on bottoming. Zach tells the story of getting examined by a handsome older doctor and his even hotter doctor in training, and Dr. Goldstein breaks down the three types of bottoms and what’s actually true about fiber supplements, what’s in your lube, and safe douching. Then the panel gets into butt plugs versus anal dilators, Botox in the booty, why a direct hit on the prostate can make you feel like you have to pee, and what straight couples should know before pegging.
Send in your own listener questions by emailing us at intimacycoordinatorpod@gmail.com or leave us a voicemail at (213) 379-9851.
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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)
Dr. Evan Goldstein: @drevangoldstein · Bespoke Surgical · Future Method · Author of Butt Seriously
Zach Noe Towers: @zachnoetowers · Twink Death (YouTube) · Good Sod Podcast
Brendan Scannell: @bscan · The Abyss · TikTok
Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.
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Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.- This week gets spirited as Joel Kim Booster is joined by Adam Conover (Adam Ruins Everything, Big Divorce Energy), Dewayne Perkins, (The Studio, The Blackening) and relationship coach and author, Allison Raskin (Compulsively Yours, I Do (I Think)). They confess all the ways they’ve been nightmares to date—from Allison staking out a guy's apartment behind a frat house, to Joel blaming every unanswered text on a man's "text rhythm”—before getting into a lively debate on whether or not you should date with a goal in mind, and the morality of ghosting. Plus, a listener asks whether testing her new boyfriend counts as due diligence or sabotage.
Send in your own listener questions by emailing us at intimacycoordinatorpod@gmail.com or leave us a voicemail at (213) 379-9851.
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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)
Adam Conover: @adamconover · Big Divorce Energy Special (YouTube) · On Tour · Factually! Podcast
Allison Raskin: @allisonraskin · Author of Compulsively Yours · Starter Marriage Podcast · Emotional Support Lady Substack
Dewayne Perkins: @dewayneperkins · I Swear We're Friends (YouTube) · How Being Black and Gay Made Me Better Than You (NY Comedy Festival November, 9) · Hector on The Upshaws (Netflix)
Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.
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Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. - It’s time to dip back into the archives for another Background Check! Skyler Higley was on Intimacy Coordinator this week, so we’re throwing back to the classic Bad Date story he told Joel and fellow guests Punkie Johnson and Josh Gondelman. Skyler finds himself in expert mode, but he’s more quickly than Higley. Enjoy this tale of Mormons, cigarettes, and Target parking lots, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Skyler, Asif Ali, and Femi Abe!
Skyler Higley: @skylerhigley, Help Me Be Black Podcast
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Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. - Joel Kim Booster's first all-straight panel–Asif Ali (Deli Boys, WandaVision), Skyler Higley (The Onion, After Midnight) and Fumi Abe (The Tonight Show, The Late Show)–finally get to ask the potentially career-ending questions that keep them up at night. From why gay men are so mean and what happens when the bottom finishes first, to the male loneliness crisis, the upsides of toxic masculinity, and why Spider-Man makes a better role model than Batman.
Send in your own listener questions by emailing us at intimacycoordinatorpod@gmail.com or leave us a voicemail at (213) 379-9851.
Subscribe to SmartLess Media on YouTube for full episodes, and follow @intimacycoordinatorshow on Instagram and TikTok for clips.
Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)
Asif Ali: @alicomedy · Deli Boys (Hulu)
Skyler Higley: @skylerhigley · Help Me Be Black Podcast
Fumi Abe: @thefumiabe · Tour Dates
Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.
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About Intimacy Coordinator
Joel Kim Booster is your personal intimacy coordinator in his new series celebrating dating, love, sex, marriage, and especially messy situationships. On each episode of Intimacy Coordinator, Joel makes it comfortable for his panel of guests to share the messy, surprising stories, experiences and advice that come when people try to connect. From the euphoric highs to the cringeworthy lows, Joel wants to hear about the whole spectrum of experiences with love— from the people that put butterflies in your stomach to the moments that send blood to your privates. No matter what you can bet it will be intimate.
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