Being Human with Steve Cuss

In this episode of "Being Human with Steve Cuss," Steve and author and spiritual guide Andrew Arndt explore fallout from prominent Christian leaders' public confessions of wrongdoing. They explore the spiritual and psychological dynamics that lead to such failures, including the dangers of living a double life, the creation of a false self, and the importance of empathy and repentance. Andrew shares insights from his new book A Strange and Gracious Light: How the Story of Jesus Changes the Way We See Everything and reflects on personal growth, leadership, and the healing power of unconditional love within the church community. Steve and Andrew emphasize honesty, vulnerability, and the ongoing journey toward wholeness.

Biblical Passages


I Corinthians 13 (ESV)


Luke 5:31 (ESV)

Episode Resources:


Andrew Arndt’s A Strange and Gracious Light: How the Story of Jesus Changes the Way We See Everything


Fyodor Dostoevsky’s The Brothers Karamazov


Frederick Buechner’s Telling the Truth: The Gospel as Tragedy, Comedy, and Fairy Tale


C.S. Lewis's The Abolition of Man


Rich Mullins on Salvation and "God in His Mercy" (video)


Henri Nouwen's In the Name of Jesus

More From Andrew Arndt:


Andrew Arndt’s Streams in the Wasteland: Finding Spiritual Renewal with the Desert Fathers and Mothers


Andrew Arndt’s All Flame: Entering into the Life of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit

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In this episode of "Being Human with Steve Cuss," Steve talks with Zach Windahl, author of The Bible Simplified. They discuss making the Bible more approachable, overcoming common misconceptions, and the emotional challenges of engaging with scripture. Zach shares his journey of faith and unique Bible reading practices. Steve and Zach offer practical encouragement for anyone feeling intimidated by Bible reading, highlighting the importance of authenticity, patience, and fresh approaches to scripture. Zach’s passion for simplifying complex topics and empowering readers shines throughout the episode.

Episode Resources:


Zach Windahl’s The Bible Simplified: Learn the Story, Live the Story


Zach Windahl’s The Bible, Simplified Study Guide plus Streaming Video


Zach Windahl’s Bible reading plan


Zach Windahl’s 21 day Bible reading plan

Pareto Principle Explained: How the 80/20 Rule Changes Everything


Nathan Finochio’s website


J.R. Briggs’ at Missio Alliance


Infographic: How long does each Book of the Bible tale to read?

More From Zach Windahl:


Zach Windahl’s website


How to Study the Bible (and Actually Enjoy It)


Zach Windahl’s The Bible Study: A One-Year Study of the Entire Bible and How It Relates to You

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In this episode of Being Human, host Steve Cuss and guest Clarissa Moll explore how different communication and listening styles shape our relationships. They discuss the impact of mental and emotional load, the importance of listening to learn rather than to fix or defend, and offer practical strategies for fostering empathy and connection. Steve shares personal experiences about self-awareness and emotional honesty, especially as a pastor, while both emphasize the transformative power of compassionate listening for individuals, families, and faith communities. 

Biblical Passages


James 1:19-20 (ESV)


Psalm 139 (ESV)

Episode Resources:


Past Episode: Steve Cuss & Clarissa Moll: How Your Communication Style Fuels Reactivity—and How to Change It

More From Clarissa Moll:


Clarissa Moll’s The Bulletin podcast


Explore Clarissa Moll’s website


Read Clarissa Moll’s substack

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In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, Steve and Lisa explore how communication styles—rigid vs. fluid, internal vs. external processing, and rapid vs. deliberative thinking—shape relationships, well-being, and spiritual growth. They share personal experiences, unpack how trauma and certainty can impact faith, and revisit recent conversations with Cheryl McKissick (a fifth-generation Black business leader) on family legacy and authenticity in predominantly white spaces; Adam Young on self-awareness, empathy, and spiritual disciplines for healthier connection with others and God; and Clarissa Moll (The Bulletin) in a thoughtful back-and-forth.

Biblical Passages


Psalm 139 (ESV)

Episode Resources:


Learn more about the McKissack firm


Check out Cheryl Mc Kissack Daniel’s website


Cheryl McKissack Daniel’s The Black Family Who Built America: The McKissacks, Two Centuries of Daring Pioneers


Adam Young’s Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything


Adam Young’s website


Adam Young’s The Places We Find Ourselves podcast

More From Clarissa Moll:


Clarissa Moll’s The Bulletin podcast


Explore Clarissa Moll’s website


Read Clarissa Moll’s substack

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In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, Steve interviews Cheryl McKissack Daniel, a trailblazing African American architect and business leader. Cheryl shares her family’s remarkable 230-year legacy, beginning with her enslaved ancestor Moses McKissick. She discusses the challenges of leading a multi-generational Black-owned business, the importance of resilience, succession planning, and corporate culture, and her experiences navigating race and gender in the industry. 

Episode Resources:


Cheryl McKissack Daniel’s The Black Family Who Built America: The McKissacks, Two Centuries of Daring Pioneers

More From Cheryl McKissack Daniel:


Learn more about the McKissack firm


Check out Cheryl Mc Kissack Daniel’s website

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