Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Body Language, Anxious Dogs, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
We ask our dogs to trust our decisions all the time.
Come with me.
Leave that.
Don’t go over there.
Walk past this dog.
Stay here.
I’ve got it.
But have you ever stopped to ask:
Why should they?
Not because we’re the human. Not because we own them. And not simply because we’re holding the leash.
In this episode, we’re talking about Leadership, the final piece of my Foundation of Relationship.
And not leadership as dominance, control, or “because I said so.”
Leadership as something built through a history of experiences that gives your dog a reason to believe your decisions are worth following.
We’ll talk about:
🐾 Why you don’t get to simply declare yourself your dog’s leader
🐾 How dogs build trust through their everyday experiences with us
🐾 Why healthy relationships include both agreement AND disagreement
🐾 How saying yes to your dog can give more meaning to your no
🐾 What “he who moves whose feet” can teach us about influence and awareness
🐾 The importance of pausing before automatically responding to your dog
🐾 Why leadership is about controlling yourself and influencing your dog, not controlling your dog
🐾 Why getting a decision wrong doesn’t mean you’ve failed your dog
🐾 How Leadership, Relevance, and Fulfillment work together to build a stronger relationship
Because leadership isn’t:
“My dog has to follow me.”
It’s becoming:
Someone worth following.
So instead of asking:
“How do I get my dog to follow me?”
Maybe the better question is:
“Who do I need to become so that following me makes sense?”
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox
RESOURCES
🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!
https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🐾 Take the Quiz!
https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
🐾 Read the Blog!
https://beyondobedience.ca/blog
CONNECT WITH ME!
Contact → info@beyondobedience.ca
Podcast → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast
Connect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
Resources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Merch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store
🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣
Step 1: Join the free Living Beyond Obedience community and connect with other dog owners who are learning to lead through trust, relevance, and understanding.
Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog's unique personality shapes the way they learn, communicate, and respond to leadership.
👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Step 3: Ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start understanding what your dog actually needs from you? Join the Fearless Framework.
👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
We spend a LOT of time trying to get our dogs to pay attention to us.
Look at me.
Come with me.
Leave that.
Let’s go.
But how much attention are we paying to them?
In this episode, we’re talking about Relevance, one of the three pieces of my Foundation of Relationship, and what it actually means to become relevant to your dog.
Because relevance isn’t simply about getting your dog’s attention.
It’s about whether you matter to your dog’s experience of the world.
And maybe if we want our dogs to care about what matters to us, we need to start by genuinely caring about some of the things that matter to them.
We’ll talk about:
🐾 What it actually means to become relevant to your dog
🐾 Why attention and relevance aren’t necessarily the same thing
🐾 Why understanding your dog starts with seeing the world from their point of view
🐾 What a walk in the woods taught me about entering a dog’s world
🐾 Why the “same walk” may be completely different to your dog every single day
🐾 How slowing down and getting curious can change the way you experience walks together
🐾 Why relevance isn’t about becoming more exciting than the environment
🐾 How shared experiences can help build connection, trust, and a stronger relationship with your dog
Because relationship can’t always be:
“Come into my world.”
Sometimes we need to say:
“Show me yours.”
The next time your dog becomes fascinated by something, and it’s safe to do so, stop for a second.
Look.
Get curious.
What are they experiencing that you’re missing?
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox
RESOURCES
🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!
https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🐾 Take the Quiz!
https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
🐾 Read the Blog!
https://beyondobedience.ca/blog
CONNECT WITH ME!
Contact → info@beyondobedience.ca
Podcast → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast
Connect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
Resources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Merch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store
🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣
Step 1: Join the free Living Beyond Obedience community and connect with other dog owners who are learning to lead through trust, relevance, and understanding.
Step 2: Why is my dog acting like this? Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog's unique personality shapes the way they learn, communicate, and respond to leadership.
👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Step 3: Ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start understanding what your dog actually needs from you? Join the Fearless Framework.
👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

Does your dog need more enrichment?
More mental stimulation? More exercise? More games? More training?
If you've ever worried that you're not doing enough to meet your dog's needs, this episode is for you.
Somewhere along the way, I think we've started confusing enrichment with fulfillment. And they're not necessarily the same thing.
We've been told our dogs need puzzle toys, scent games, training games, lick mats, snuffle mats and endless mental stimulation. But those are simply tools we've created to give dogs opportunities to engage in behaviours that may matter to them.
So instead of asking:
"What else should I be doing for my dog?"
Maybe we need to ask:
"What actually fulfills the dog standing in front of me?"
In this episode, we're talking about what fulfillment really means and why meeting your dog's needs may be much simpler than we've made it.
We'll talk about:
🐾 The difference between enrichment and fulfillment
🐾 Why keeping your dog busy doesn't necessarily mean they're fulfilled
🐾 How dog enrichment became another giant list of things we're supposed to do
🐾 Why breed and natural behaviour can give us clues about what our dogs actually need
🐾 Why nature may provide more mental stimulation than any puzzle toy ever could
🐾 How to notice what your dog already finds meaningful
🐾 Why fulfillment doesn't mean making your entire life about your dog
🐾 How to become part of the things your dog naturally loves to do
Because fulfillment isn't about how much you do.
It's about understanding the dog in front of you.
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox

RESOURCES
🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!
https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🐾 Take the Quiz!
https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
🐾 Read the Blog!
https://beyondobedience.ca/blog
CONNECT WITH ME!
Contact → info@beyondobedience.ca
Podcast → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast
Connect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
Resources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Merch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store

🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣
Step 1: Join the free Living Beyond Obedience community and connect with other dog owners who are learning to lead through trust, relevance, and understanding.
Step 2: Why is my dog behaving that way?? Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog's unique personality shapes the way they learn, communicate, and respond to leadership.
👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Step 3: Ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start understanding what your dog actually needs from you? Join the Fearless Framework.
👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
What if some of the behaviour that's driving you crazy isn't just about your dog?
What if your dog is actually reflecting something back to you?
Maybe they're suddenly more reactive.
Maybe they're barking more.
Maybe they can't seem to settle.
Maybe something that was getting better suddenly feels worse again.
And you're looking at your dog thinking...
What is going on with you?!
But what if there's another question worth asking?
What's going on with ME?
Our dogs don't live in a vacuum. They live in relationship with us, and they're incredibly sensitive to the changes happening in the humans around them.
They don't need to understand WHY you're stressed, frustrated, overwhelmed, angry, or going through a difficult time.
They simply know something has changed.
And sometimes their behaviour reflects that change right back to us.
In this episode, we're talking about what happens when your dog's behaviour becomes a mirror and why looking at the whole picture can completely change the way you understand what's happening.
We'll talk about:
🐾 Why your dog's behaviour isn't always just about your dog
🐾 How dogs detect changes happening in the humans around them
🐾 What I mean when I say dogs can "smell our thoughts"
🐾 How incongruence in us can create uncertainty for our dogs
🐾 The feedback loop that can develop between a struggling dog and a frustrated human
🐾 A pattern I've seen repeatedly over the years while working with dogs and their people
🐾 Why this conversation is NOT about blaming yourself for your dog's behaviour
🐾 Why being emotionally stable doesn't mean never having emotions
🐾 Three questions to ask when your dog's behaviour suddenly changes
Because being part of the picture doesn't make you the problem.
It means you have influence.
And sometimes we're waiting for our dog to change so WE can feel better...
while our dog may be waiting for something to change in US so they can feel better.
So before you immediately ask:
"How do I stop this behaviour?"
Get curious.
What's happening with my dog?
What's happening with me?
What's happening between us?
No judgment.
No blame.
Just...
How interesting.
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox

RESOURCES
🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!
https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🐾 Take the Quiz!
https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
🐾 Read the Blog!
https://beyondobedience.ca/blog
CONNECT WITH ME!
Contact → info@beyondobedience.ca
Podcast → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast
Connect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
Resources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Merch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store

🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣
Step 1: Join the free Living Beyond Obedience community and connect with other dog owners who are learning to lead through trust, relevance, and understanding.
Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog's unique personality shapes the way they learn, communicate, and respond to leadership.
👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Step 3: Ready to understand what's happening underneath your dog's behaviour and become the partner they can actually trust? Join The Fearless Framework at the beta price of $297 before beta pricing ends August 18th.
👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Have you ever found yourself wondering...
Am I doing this wrong?
Should I let my dog approach?
Should I create more space?
Should I say something?
Should I let them figure it out?
Did I wait too long?
Am I making this worse?
And before you know it, you're having an entire committee meeting inside your head while your dog is standing there waiting for you to make a decision.
If that sounds familiar, you're not alone.
The dog training world is FULL of advice about what you should—and absolutely should NOT—do with your dog.
Do this.
Never do that.
Give them more choice.
Give them more structure.
Use this tool.
Never use that tool.
And somewhere in all that noise, we've become so afraid of getting it wrong that we've stopped paying attention to the most important source of information we have:
The dog standing right in front of us.
In this episode, we're talking about analysis paralysis, second-guessing yourself, and what good leadership actually looks like when you genuinely don't know what to do.
We'll talk about:
🐾 Why so much dog training advice can leave you afraid of making the "wrong" decision
🐾 How trying to follow all the rules can stop you from actually listening to your dog
🐾 Why good leadership doesn't require you to have all the answers
🐾 The power of saying, "I don't know YET"
🐾 My simple Notice → Decide → Observe → Adjust process
🐾 How "How Interesting!" can help you stop judging yourself when something doesn't work
🐾 Why getting it wrong sometimes is actually part of figuring out what your dog needs
🐾 The difference between knowing what to do and trusting yourself to figure out what to do next
Because confidence isn't:
"I always know what to do."
It's:
"I trust myself to figure out what to do next."
Your dog doesn't need you to be perfect.
They need you to pay attention, make a decision, notice what happens, and be willing to change course when something isn't working.
So the next time you catch yourself thinking...
"I don't know what I'm supposed to do!"
Try asking yourself:
"What do I know right now?"
Start there.
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox

RESOURCES
🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!
https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🐾 Take the Quiz!
https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
🐾 Read the Blog!
https://beyondobedience.ca/blog
CONNECT WITH ME!
Contact → info@beyondobedience.ca
Podcast → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast
Connect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
Resources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Merch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store
🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣
Step 1: Join the free Living Beyond Obedience community and connect with other dog owners who are learning to lead through trust, relevance, and understanding.
Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog's unique personality shapes the way they learn, communicate, and respond to leadership.
👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
Step 3: Ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start understanding what your dog actually needs from you? Join The Fearless Framework at the beta price of $297 before beta pricing ends August 18th.
👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com