Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

In the special segment “Stump the Moms,” Laura and Shanna quiz each other about old-school pregnancy tests, the shocking resale value of kids' toys, the cost of giving birth in the 1950s and more! Also, Laura reports on the sweet relief of her kids returning to school after winter break and her 4-year-old getting his first eye exam, and Shanna talks about the surprising result of sending her kids to a week-long "field trip" camp. Finally, they wrap up with their weekly BFPs and BFNs, including a toy that will excite your kids for bath time and a sweet local event that will inspire you to check the activity calendar at your local library. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 4.5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:
Returning to school after a long winter break
What to do with your kids during an extended winter break
How long, busy days outside of the house affect your child's mood and regulation
How much did it cost to have a baby in the 1950s
Why are some LEGO sets so expensive?
What was the first pregnancy test like?
What kids' toy was originally created for adults?
How many LEGO bricks are there in the world?
A fun bath toy for kids that Laura loves
A fun, local, free activity that Shanna took her kids to

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:
"It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas" by Bing Crosby
InfantSEE - Infant eye exam program
Steve & Kate's Camp
Glendale Central Library
SkyZone Trampoline Park
"How Much Does It Cost to Have a Baby Now?"
Ole Kirk's LEGO House
LEGO Unicef Van
Star Wars Death Star LEGO set
The Rabbit Test
"10 Wacky Facts About Play-Doh That Will Amaze You"
Bath Bomb Potion Kit
BARK Reading Dogs

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In the special segment “What I Googled This Week,” Shanna and Laura reveal the funny and embarrassing things they've asked the internet recently, including a ridiculously juvenile question about astronomy and an out-of-the-ordinary query about a popular theme park. Also, Shanna checks in about a major life transition happening during a chaotic holiday week, and Laura talks about the big surprise she planned for Auggie's 7th birthday. Finally, they wrap up with their weekly BFPs and BFNs, including an outing that made the kids feel like they’d entered a magical new world and a holiday family tradition. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 4.5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:
Experiencing a big work/life change while still in full holiday-parent mode
Struggling to get your kids to take medicine
Auggie's 7th birthday
Pulling off a big surprise for your kid
Tips for going to Disneyland in the rain
What's the right way to pronounce “Uranus”
Do kids these days go to bookstores?
Taking your family to a fun holiday light show

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:
Disneyland California resident ticket deal
“We Don’t Wear Ears” (Disney tips Instagram account)
Waterproof stroller cover
Insoles for rain boots
MEL Magazine article about Uranus
The Open Book bookstore
The Last Bookstore
Descanso Gardens Enchanted Lights

Past BFP episodes referenced in this episode:
Ep. 364 (Where Shanna teaches Cece how to swallow pills)
Ep. 257 (Where Shanna struggles to get Cece to take medication)

Connect with Us
Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast
Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.
Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com
Email us: [email protected]

If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In the special segment "Gripe Water," Shanna and Laura share the hilariously petty parenting problems that have been bothering them lately, diving into the topics of stroller envy and screen time. Also, Laura reports on the people, gifts and baked goods that made her Christmas special, and Shanna talks about managing a hectic, cooped-up holiday week with a sick kid. Finally, they wrap up with their weekly BFPs and BFNs, including a fun family outing and an indoor activity that unexpectedly became a big hit. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4.5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:
A low-key, rainy Christmas week and what it’s like hosting visiting family (and dogs)
Parenting your sick child during the holidays
Stroller envy: missing the days when you had a mobile cart for all your kid gear
Managing kids’ video game obsession, meltdowns, and tough transitions

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:
Harry Potter Lego sets
Five Nights at Freddy's kids costume
Captain America kids costume
Air drum sticks
America's Test Kitchen gingerbread cookies
Pottery wheel for kids
School kit from Lakeshore Learning
Nex Playground
Chemex carafe
Cuisanart water kettle
Hulken bag
Pickwick Ice Center
Ransom Notes game

Connect with Us
Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast
Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.
Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com
Email us: [email protected]

If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In the special segment "Never Have I Ever: Parenting Edition," Laura and Shanna reveal the unexpected things they've never done before having kids, including a desperate attempt to complete a puzzle in inclement weather and a disturbing doctor's appointment that ended in tears. Also, Shanna talks about her attempts to have a low-key Christmas, and Laura reports on her family's festive week of ice dancing and dreidel spinning. Finally, they share their BFPs or BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4.5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:
Last-minute holiday decorating and keeping expectations low
A kid getting sick right before Christmas and deciding when to go to urgent care
Taking your kids to festive holiday events
Celebrating Hanukkah with friends
When you realize you are doing something wacky and unreasonable as a parent
Tough doctor visits with kids
Navigating fear, consent and advocating for your child in a medical setting
How kids misunderstand medical “threats” and why wording matters
A funny public moment involving a kids’ character and an unexpected song choice
Volunteering at your kid's school and reading a funny picture book to your kid's class
A parenting win: getting your kid re-engaged in an extracurricular activity

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:
Disney on Ice
How to Play Dreidel
Kanoodle - Brain Teaser Puzzle
Museum of Illusions
Blippi
"Fat Bottomed Girls" by Queen
"The Book That Almost Rhymed" by Omar Abed

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:
Ep. 379 - (Shanna talks about going to the Museum of Illusions)
Ep. 358 - (Laura talks about Auggie quitting parkour and starting jiu-jitsu)

Connect with Us
Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast
Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.
Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com
Email us: [email protected]

If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In the special segment "Dear Past Me," Shanna and Laura give their former selves parenting advice based on what they know now, including wisdom about sentimental baby items and encouragement to advocate for yourself in the early days of new motherhood. Also, Laura manages to get her reluctant kids to go on an urban adventure, and Shanna celebrates her daughter's 7th birthday and travels to Phoenix with her family for a celebration-of-life event. Finally, they share their BFPs or BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 9.5 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6.5 years old and 4.5 years old.

Topics discussed in this episode:
Finding outdoor adventures close to home for your family
The difficulty of transitions with kids
Attending a memorial/celebration of life and what it’s like to do meaningful rituals with kids
Reflections on early parenting choices and what we wish we could tell our younger selves
Why keeping up with milestone keepsakes for all your kids is important
Navigating career and creativity opportunities as a new mom
Anti-mom bias at work and within creative spaces, and why advocating for yourself matters
Kids exploring the performing arts and the joy of seeing them come alive creatively
Finding helpful online communities and learning new routines that are rewarding

Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode:
Flint Peak Trail
"Big Fish" movie
The Baby-Sitter's Club #33: "Claudia and the Great Search"
"Flashback" (Shanna's short film)
Shanna's Website
Fine Hair Subreddit
Pomeranian Subreddit

Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:
Ep. 283 - (Laura discusses Auggie's reluctance to participate in his school's theater production)
Ep. 285 - (Laura reports on Auggie's refusal to participate in the theater production on the day of the show)
Ep. 374 - (Laura talks about her boys getting excited about their hiking "costumes" in Portland)
Ep. 376 - (Shanna talks about her stepdad's passing)

Connect with Us
Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast
Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.
Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com
Email us: [email protected]

If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!

Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.