Brief Talk Podcast by Underwear News Briefs

pan dolce 

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim sits down with Jesse Pellegrin, the founder of Pan Dulce Papis, a new swimwear brand designed specifically for thicker, beefier guys who want more than the same old boring black swim briefs.

The idea for the brand started at a gay pool party in Las Vegas, where Jesse noticed a familiar pattern: muscular guys had access to all the fun, colorful swimwear, while thicker men were often left with limited and uninspiring options. That moment sparked the idea to create something different — swimwear that celebrates bigger bodies with bold designs, culture, and personality.  

Drawing inspiration from his Mexican heritage, Jesse created designs influenced by pan dulce (Mexican sweet bread), playful imagery, and vibrant colors that bring culture and humor into swimwear. The result is a brand that blends confidence, authenticity, and representation for guys who rarely see themselves reflected in swimwear marketing.

Jesse also shares the behind-the-scenes realities of launching a brand solo — from designing patterns and ordering prototypes to building the website and even stepping in as the model when the original shoot fell through.

What started as a fun idea has become a growing brand with new designs already on the way, including a limited Pride edition swim brief inspired by colorful Santa Monica sunsets.

Most importantly, Jesse wants his brand to help people feel comfortable in their bodies and confident wearing swim briefs — whether at a pool party, the beach, or anywhere else.

As Tim says in the episode: thick boys look amazing in Speedos — and it’s time the industry caught up.

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In This Episode

• How a Vegas pool party sparked the idea for Pan Dulce Papis

• Why thicker guys are often overlooked in swimwear design

• Bringing Mexican culture into swimwear design

• The meaning behind the brand name

• Designing swimwear that is fun but still approachable

• The challenges of launching a brand solo

• Modeling your own product when the model cancels

• Why authenticity matters more than retouching photos

• Creating confidence for bigger guys wearing swim briefs

• Sneak peek at upcoming Pride swimwear designs

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Key Takeaways

Representation matters

Thicker men deserve swimwear that is fun, colorful, and designed with their bodies in mind.

Culture can inspire design

Pan Dulce Papis incorporates Mexican cultural elements into swimwear in a playful and meaningful way.

Confidence grows through experience

Trying something outside your comfort zone — like wearing a swim brief — can completely change how you feel about your body.

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Where to Find Pan Dulce Papis

Instagram

@pan.dulce.papis

Follow the brand to see new designs, upcoming drops, and the limited Pride collection.

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Final Thoughts

Pan Dulce Papis is more than just another swimwear brand. It’s about confidence, representation, and celebrating bodies that the industry often ignores.

If you’re a thicker guy who has ever thought you couldn’t pull off a swim brief — this brand might just change your mind.

And as Tim says:

You can never have too many swimsuits.

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Support UNB

If you enjoy the Brief Talk Podcast and everything we do at Underwear News Briefs, please consider supporting us on Patreon.

Your support helps cover:

• Podcast hosting

• Equipment upgrades

• Website costs

• Production tools

• Growing the UNB community

You can join as a free member or support the show monthly.

Join here:

https://www.patreon.com/unbblog

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Episode Title:

Neurospicy Minds: ADHD, Autism, and Finding Confidence in What You Love

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Show Notes

This week on the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim is joined once again by Andrew—along with his wife—for a conversation that goes deeper than our usual underwear talk. But trust us… it still comes back to underwear.

In this episode, the discussion explores mental health, neurodivergence, and self-understanding—including ADHD, autism spectrum traits, dyslexia, and how these experiences shape the way we interact with the world.

Andrew shares his journey of discovering he had ADHD inattentive type, the struggles he faced growing up in school, and how learning more about neurodivergence later in life opened the door to deeper conversations about identity, relationships, and personal interests. The conversation eventually led to a surprising realization that he may also fall somewhere on the autism spectrum—something that helped explain patterns in communication, emotional connection, and even his passion for underwear.  

Tim also opens up about his own experiences with dyslexia, ADHD traits, hyperfocus, and the process of finally seeking a diagnosis as an adult. The conversation touches on the frustrations many neurodivergent people face when trying to find testing, support, and understanding later in life.  

Along the way, the discussion dives into:

ADHD inattentive vs. hyperactive types

Executive function struggles and how they affect daily life

The challenges of adult diagnosis

Autism spectrum traits and relationships

“Special interests” and how they shape passions

Why underwear can be more than just clothing

Masculinity, identity, and wearing what makes you feel confident

The overlap between ADHD, autism, and OCD traits

Giving yourself grace for how your brain works

One of the most powerful takeaways from this episode is the idea that there’s nothing wrong with liking what you like. Whether it’s underwear, sports, art, or something else entirely—our interests are part of who we are.

As Andrew puts it, understanding how your brain works can give you the tools to live with more confidence, self-acceptance, and clarity.  

If you’ve ever wondered why your brain works the way it does—or why you’re drawn to certain passions—this episode may resonate with you more than you expect.

And yes… we still talk underwear.

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In This Episode

Andrew’s journey discovering ADHD inattentive type

Why inattentive ADHD often goes unnoticed in school

The difference between ADHD and autism spectrum traits

How neurodivergence impacts relationships

The idea of “special interests” and passion

Tim’s experience pursuing dyslexia and ADHD testing as an adult

Why hyperfocus can be both a superpower and a challenge

Masculinity and wearing what makes you feel confident

The overlap between ADHD, autism, and OCD traits

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Follow Andrew

You can find Andrew online at:

Underwear Review 1

Twitter

Instagram

BlueSky

Reddit

YouTube

Search: UnderwearReview1

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Support UNB

If you enjoy the Brief Talk Podcast and everything we do at Underwear News Briefs, please consider supporting us.

Your support helps cover:

Podcast hosting

Equipment upgrades

Website costs

Production tools

Growing the UNB community

You can join as a free member or support the show monthly.

Join here:

https://www.patreon.com/unbblog

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Support UNB Elsewhere

You can also support UNB through:

Support Page

https://www.underwearnewsbriefs.com/about/support-unb/

UNB Store

https://www.unbstore.com

Amazon Wishlist

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/KCJXCDDPU0LI?ref_=wl_share

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Affiliate Links

Support the podcast while shopping your favorite brands:

Amoresy

https://amoresy.com/UNBTIM

BodyAware

https://bodyaware.com?bg_ref=7FgHF6QR1x

Xdress

https://xdress.com?bg_ref=cG6ohBdgUO

Real Men Apparel

https://www.rmac.store/TIM77812

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Follow UNB

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Website

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If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend, leave a review, and keep the conversation going.

Because sometimes the best conversations start with underwear… and end with understanding yourself a little better.

In this special Editor’s Note episode, UNB Tim opens up about what’s been happening behind the scenes with the podcast, the blog, and life in general. From a major website hosting disaster to balancing two jobs, school, and mental health, this episode is a candid and honest look at the challenges of running an independent podcast and community.

Tim talks about why some episodes have been delayed, what’s coming next for the podcast, and how listeners can help support the show moving forward.

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Topics Covered

Website Hosting Disaster

Tim shares the story of trying to move the UNB site to a new hosting provider — and how things went very wrong.

• Attempted migration to a new hosting service

• Account login issues caused by “Sign in with Apple” hiding the email

• Paying for a professional migration service

• Website suddenly going down with a 403 error

• Logging into the server to discover all site files missing

• Hours spent troubleshooting and dealing with support

• Ultimately restoring the site from a backup

Lesson learned: Always have backups of your website.  

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Why Podcast Episodes Have Been Delayed

Tim explains why the usual podcast schedule has been disrupted.

Current responsibilities include:

• Working two jobs

• Attending school

• Studying for cybersecurity midterms

• Managing the blog and podcast

• Handling technical issues

Because of this, episodes may not always come out on the usual schedule.

However:

• Recorded episodes will still be released

• The podcast is not going anywhere

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Mental Health & Burnout

The hosting issue was the moment that pushed everything over the edge after months of stress.

Tim discusses:

• Financial pressure

• Exhaustion from balancing work, school, and content creation

• Feeling overwhelmed and burned out

He also talks about beginning the process of getting official testing for learning differences, including:

• ADHD

• Dyslexia

• Dysgraphia

Growing up, Tim often felt something was different about how he processed information but struggled to get help. Now he’s finally taking steps to better understand how his brain works and develop better coping strategies.  

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Studying With Dyslexia & Acronyms

Tim shares one of the biggest challenges in his cybersecurity program: acronyms.

Cybersecurity fields are filled with acronyms, which can be especially difficult for people with dyslexia.

To help study and understand the material, Tim often:

• Uses tools like ChatGPT to break down concepts

• Studies late at night after work

• Builds structured notes and binders to keep things organized

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The Cost of Running the Podcast

Running the podcast costs about $175 per month, including:

• Podcast hosting

• Riverside recording software

• Canva

• Audio processing tools

• Other production services

Currently:

• Patreon brings in about $130 per month

• That leaves roughly $40 short each month

The goal is to grow Patreon support so the podcast can continue and expand.

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Patreon Updates

Patreon will now include a free membership tier that acts as a newsletter.

Plans include:

• Weekly or bi-weekly updates

• Podcast announcements

• Behind-the-scenes content

• Community updates

Support tiers help cover podcast costs and allow Tim to invest more into improving the show.

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Merch Ideas Wanted

Tim is also exploring new merch options and wants listener feedback.

Current merch includes:

• Podcast logo shirts

• Coffee mugs

• Mousepads

• Hats (including the popular Thong Slut hats)

Possible future ideas include:

• Minimal logo merch

• Bold statement pieces

• New hats

• Community-driven designs

Listeners are encouraged to share ideas.

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Upcoming Content

Several things are coming soon:

• Bikini Club – a fun new concept launching on the blog

• A State of the Industry podcast

• Results from the last two reader surveys

• A completely redesigned community-focused reader survey

Future surveys will focus more on:

• Podcast listeners

• Community engagement

• Connecting directly with readers and listeners

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Community Focus

One of Tim’s main goals this year is to connect more directly with listeners.

Ideas include:

• Voice calls with listeners

• Direct conversations with the community

• Listener-driven content

• Expanding the UNB community

If you listen regularly but haven’t connected before — reach out.

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A Message to Listeners

Despite everything going on, Tim emphasizes how much he loves doing the podcast and connecting with the community.

“It brings me so much pleasure doing the podcast and talking to so many people.”  

He also reminds listeners:

• You are not alone in what you love

• There are many others in the community

• Be yourself and enjoy the things that make you happy

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Support UNB

If you enjoy the podcast and want to support it:

Patreon (Free or Paid Membership):

https://www.patreon.com/unbblog

You can also support by:

• Buying merch

• Sharing the podcast

• Leaving reviews

• Reaching out and joining the community

The Thong Show: Couple Edition

On this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, I’m joined by returning guest Stevie (UndiesCub) and his partner Fred for a fun, candid conversation about relationships, underwear confidence, and of course… thongs.

If you’ve followed Stevie over the years, you already know he’s one of the biggest advocates for confidence, body positivity, and living your best thong life. Now Fred has joined the journey, and the two of them are embracing underwear freedom together.

We talk about everything from rediscovering thongs as a couple, traveling to Puerto Vallarta for Beef Dip, underwear shopping adventures, and how the right pair of underwear can completely change how you feel.

This episode is part relationship conversation, part underwear talk, and a lot of laughs along the way.

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What We Talk About

Rediscovering Thongs

Fred shares how he used to wear thongs years ago but stopped because previous partners weren’t into them. After trying some of Stevie’s pairs again, he realized something:

“I looked in the mirror and thought… that’s sexy. I like the way my butt looks.”

And just like that, the thong revival began.

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How Stevie & Fred Met

The two met during Bear Week in Provincetown, where Stevie was confidently rocking a thong swimsuit at the Boatslip pool.

Fred had already noticed him earlier walking down Commercial Street and thought:

“He’s hot… I want to talk to him.”

A pool conversation later—and the rest is history.

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Puerto Vallarta & Beef Dip

The couple recently returned from Beef Dip in Puerto Vallarta, which has become a thong-friendly destination for a lot of guys.

Stevie talked about how years ago he was often one of the only guys wearing a thong at events like this.

Now?

It’s almost half the crowd.

Confidence spreads.

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Shopping for Underwear Together

One of the fun parts of the episode is hearing about their underwear shopping trips, including shopping in Mexico City where Fred tried on several new pairs.

He discovered new favorites including Breedwell mesh thongs, which he says feel like wearing nothing at all.

Stevie also admits he enjoys shopping for his partner:

“I feel like I’m playing with my Ken doll over here.”

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Confidence & Wearing What You Love

One of the biggest themes of the episode is something I always talk about on the podcast:

Wear what makes you feel sexy.

Fred talks about how Stevie helped him feel more comfortable wearing thongs in public at beaches and pool parties.

Because confidence is the real secret.

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Follow Stevie & Fred

Stevie

Twitter/X: @UndiesCub

Fred

Twitter/X: @LucifurBlueEyes

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Support UNB

If you enjoy the Brief Talk Podcast and everything we do at Underwear News Briefs, please consider supporting us on Patreon.

Your support helps cover:

• Podcast hosting

• Equipment upgrades

• Website costs

• Production tools

• Growing the UNB community

You can join as a free member or support the show monthly.

Join here:

https://www.patreon.com/unbblog

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Here are other ways you can support UNB and the podcast:

For ongoing support join our Patreon

www.patreon.com/unbblog

You can now join for free.

For one-time support visit our support page

https://www.underwearnewsbriefs.com/about/support-unb/

You can donate by Ko-fi or PayPal

Or buy from the UNB Store

www.unbstore.com

Gift us something from our wish list

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UNB Affiliate Links

Support UNB by shopping with our affiliate partners:

Buy Amoresy

https://amoresy.com/UNBTIM

Buy BodyAware

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Buy Real Men Apparel

https://www.rmac.store/TIM77812

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Follow UNB

Website

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UNB Store

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Twitter/X

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If you enjoyed this episode:

• Share it with a friend

• Post it on social media

• Tag us and let us know what you think

And remember…

Wear what makes you feel confident.

Wear what makes you feel sexy.

And most importantly… have fun with it.

Until next time…

Body Positivity, Speedos & Content Creation with Zac Goes Places

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim sits down with Zac (Zac Goes Places) — a travel-loving content creator based in Orlando who mixes body positivity, swimwear confidence, and a little thirst-trap fun into his social media presence.  

What started as a personal journey toward confidence turned into a powerful message that every body deserves to feel good in what they wear — including Speedos.

Zac shares how he went from never posting a shirtless photo to becoming a content creator encouraging others to embrace their bodies and take risks in life.

This conversation covers everything from Andrew Christian being a gateway brand, to the realities of content creation, social media algorithms, and body image in the gay community.

And yes… there are plenty of Speedo stories.

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In This Episode

Zac’s Background

• Orlando-based content creator focused on travel, LGBTQ life, and social media content

• Shares adventures around Florida, theme parks, cruise ships, and nightlife

• Mixes travel content with underwear and swimwear confidence

The First Pair of “Gay Underwear”

Zac talks about discovering Andrew Christian underwear as a closeted teen and how the brand served as a gateway into the world of sexy underwear for many gay men.

Because let’s be honest…

A lot of us had that moment discovering underwear that made us feel confident.

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The Reality of Content Creation

Zac breaks down what many people don’t see:

• Editing photos and videos

• Constant posting to feed the algorithm

• Managing multiple social platforms

• The time and financial investment behind content

Content creation may look simple, but there’s a lot of work behind every post.

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From Self-Doubt to Body Positivity

One of the most powerful parts of the episode is Zac’s body positivity journey.

After quitting a toxic corporate job and hitting a personal low point, Zac decided to take control of his health and confidence.

He set a goal to lose weight and eventually wear a Speedo publicly — something he had never done before.

When he finally posted his first Speedo photo online, the response was overwhelming.

Thousands of views and messages from people saying:

“You inspired me to post my Speedo photo too.”

That moment helped Zac realize something powerful:

Every body is a Speedo body.

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Swim Briefs & Confidence

Zac and Tim talk about:

• The comfort of swim briefs

• Wearing Speedos beyond the pool

• Finding brands that balance comfort and style

• Why more men should try them

Because once you find the right pair…

You may never go back.

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Living Life Without Waiting

One of the biggest takeaways from this episode:

Stop waiting.

Whether it’s wearing Speedos, traveling, creating content, or chasing your goals — life is too short to hold yourself back.

As Zac says:

“We only get one life. If it’s not hurting anyone, just do it.”

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Follow Zac

You can find Zac across social media at:

@ZacGoesPlaces

Instagram

Twitter / X

BlueSky

Patreon

Snapchat

JustForFans

All of Zac’s links can be found through his social media bio.

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Final Thoughts

This episode is a reminder that confidence isn’t about hitting some imaginary “perfect body.”

It’s about owning who you are right now.

Whether you’re rocking boxers, briefs, thongs, or Speedos…

Wear what makes you feel good.

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Support UNB

If you enjoy the podcast, please support the platforms that make it possible.

Follow UNB

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https://reddit.com/r/unbstoreandblog

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Visit the UNB Store

Shop great brands and support the podcast:

https://unbstore.com

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https://www.bodyaware.com

Candyman

https://www.unbstore.com

Xtremen

https://www.unbstore.com

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Listen to More Brief Talk Podcast

You can find the Brief Talk Podcast on:

• Apple Podcasts

• Spotify

• Amazon Music

• YouTube

• and everywhere you listen to podcasts

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If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend and leave a review.

And remember:

Confidence looks good on everyone.