Creating a Family: Talk about Adoption, Foster & Kinship Care

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How can you build safety skills for foster teens without becoming so protective that they feel you don’t trust them? Older youth who have experienced neglect, unsafe adults, exploitation, family disruption, or other trauma may need extra help learning to recognize risk and make safe choices as they gain independence. 
In this Weekend Wisdom episode, we share practical ways to build relational safety, practice decision-making before a crisis, set clear expectations without making them feel controlling, talk about friendships, dating, peer pressure, and online safety, and surround teens with trusted adults they can turn to for help. The goal isn’t to prevent every mistake—it’s to help young people recognize risk, think through their choices, recover when things go wrong, and know they always have a safe place to land.
Resources:
Strengthening the Connection with Your Tweens & Teens
Navigating the Internet with Adopted or Foster Tweens and Teens
Advice for Foster & Kinship Parents from Former Foster Youth
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What can research on adult adoptees teach us about adoption across the lifespan? In this episode, adoption researcher and adult adoptee Dr. JaeRan Kim joins us to explore what adoptees’ experiences can teach families and professionals long after placement and finalization. We discuss adoption disruption and displacement from the adoptee perspective, the importance of relational and cultural permanency, how becoming a parent can reshape an adoptee’s understanding of their own adoption and loss, and what researchers are learning about adoptees who choose to adopt themselves. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Kim challenges us to listen closely to adult adoptee voices and consider how adoption, identity, race, family relationships, and support needs continue to evolve across a lifetime.
Resources:
Intercountry adoptees with adoption disruption and displacement histories – Adoptee perspectives
Korean adoptees as parents
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How can parents teach kids to use AI responsibly when their children may already know more about tools like ChatGPT than they do? In this Weekend Wisdom episode, digital safety expert Chris McKenna of Protect Young Eyes explains why knowing how to operate AI is not the same as understanding how it works. He shares practical ways parents can build AI literacy and digital discernment, protect children’s privacy, set age-appropriate boundaries, and help kids question the information and advice AI provides. We also discuss why parents do not need to embrace every new technology simply because their children may use it someday—and why younger children especially need supervision and strong guardrails when using artificial intelligence.
How to turn off ChatGPT using personal data to train future models:
Click your name/profile in the bottom left hand corner of your ChatGPT Account.
Click "Settings".
In the left side menu, click "Data Controls." You can search for it if-needed.
Find "Improve the model for everyone" and toggle it off.
Resources:
5 Habits of the Tech Ready Family
Protect Young Eyes - devices
Managing Technology & Screens
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What do a CASA and GAL in foster care actually do, and how can one consistent advocate make a difference in a child’s life? 
In this episode, we talk with Melissa Luddington of Illinois CASA and Michael Custos, a former foster youth whose CASA volunteer ultimately became his legal guardian. Together, they explain how Court Appointed Special Advocates and Guardians ad Litem represent children’s best interests, build trusting relationships, bring a child’s needs and wishes into the courtroom, and work alongside caregivers and professionals. Michael also shares how one volunteer’s persistence, advocacy, and willingness to keep showing up changed the course of his childhood. We also discuss what it takes to become a CASA volunteer and why consistency may be one of the most powerful things an advocate can offer.
Resources:
Her Name Was Kelly 
CASA Illinois
National CASA/GAL
The Power of One to Impact the Lives of Kids
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How can families navigate open adoption from foster care while maintaining the safety and boundaries their child needs? 
In this Weekend Wisdom episode, we answer a listener’s question about staying connected with birth parents after adopting a young child from foster care. We discuss how openness can help children maintain connections to their history, identity, culture, and important relationships while recognizing the circumstances that led to foster care and termination of parental rights. We also explore how to set clear and respectful boundaries, choose the right level of contact, respond to a child’s changing needs as they grow, and create an openness plan that is flexible, sustainable, and centered on the child.
Resources:
Is Older Child Adoption the Right Path for Your Family?
Birth Parent Experiences in Adoption
Open Adoption
When Birth Parents Struggle with Addiction, Mental Health, or Intellectual Disabilities
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Please leave us a rating or review.  This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.

Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:
Weekly podcasts
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Resource pages on all aspects of family building