QUESTION EVERYTHING

What if the real reason you avoid getting savvy with money isn’t math? Vivian Tu, former Wall Street trader turned founder of “Your Rich BFF,” is back, and this time she’s asking us to rethink everything we think we know about money, including the complicated emotions that come with it. From paying an $8,000 lease break in her twenties to becoming the breadwinner in her marriage, Vivian opens up to Danielle about the evolution from being “smart” with money to being wise. But this isn’t just a finance conversation. It’s about shame. It’s about immigrant parents and sacrifice. It’s about dating red flags, prenups, consumerism, and the quiet fear so many women carry that they’re “bad with money.” Plus, the one investing mistake too many of us are making without even realizing it. In this episode of Question Everything, you’ll learn:
The personal changes (freezing embryos, retiring her parents, starting a trust) that led her to write her new book Well Endowed
The difference between being smart with money and being wise with money
The lie that most women are being told about their money habits
How to have hard conversations about money, from the first date to long-term partnership
Why you should never get married without a prenup (don’t worry, even if you did, it’s not too late!)
Why credit card debt is one of the most problematic types of debt and how to tackle it with a plan
Why you can’t rely on willpower to be financially successful
A statistic that shocks Vivian: 50% of couples don’t talk about money until they are already engaged
The common mistake that some people are making with their retirement savings that will cost you in the long run
Why Vivian calls consumerism a “trap” and urges us to “deinfluence” our lives
How to curb lifestyle inflation with three simple questions
A simple hack to save money on online purchases
The moving lessons Vivian learned from her immigrant parents’ sacrifices, and how she’s using that knowledge to build generational wealth
Why putting your credit score on your dating profile is suddenly a flex
Vivan’s suggestions for how to have meaningful money conversations on the first date (without seeming obvious)
How to reframe the big financial decisions of your twenties and thirties, and beyond
Follow Vivian on TikTok @yourrichbff
Make sure to check out Vivian’s book Well Endowed
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Is self-help actually helpful? In this episode of Question Everything, Danielle speaks with Gretchen Rubin, #1 bestselling author and co-host of the Since You Asked podcast. Danielle and Gretchen unpack some big questions when it comes to the rampant self-improvement era we’re living in now. Questions like: Can people ever really change? How do you make better decisions when every option comes with regret? In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why getting enough sleep is the most underrated habit for happiness and productivity
How your chronotype can impact your daily energy, mood, and life
Why reunions and old friendships are a key to connecting with others, but also another version of ourselves
Why self-help is not a one-size-fits-all approach to life
The science behind how digital vs. IRL friendships impact the quality of our life
What psychology tells us about how behaviors ultimately dictate the quality of our lives
How to make tough life decisions without chasing “perfect” choices
Practical strategies for reframing setbacks and career transitions
Follow Gretchen on Instagram @gretchenrubin
Check out Gretchen’s podcasts, Happier with Gretchen Rubin and Since You Asked with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin
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What does it mean to practice love when fear is loud and life feels out of control? In this special Valentine’s Day episode of Question Everything, we’re talking about love (just not in the way you might expect). Danielle sits down with bestselling author and spiritual teacher Marianne Williamson for a conversation about miracles, fear, forgiveness, and what it really means to return to love in our everyday life. Marianne’s 1992 book A Return to Love, famously championed by Oprah Winfrey, has changed the way millions of people think about relationships, spirituality, and personal growth. In this episode, Marianne explains how the idea of “miracles” is far more practical than mystical, and why our shared purpose is more simple than any of us could have ever imagined. Together, Danielle and Marianne explore how to take ownership of your inner world even when the outer world feels out of control.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to choose love over fear in difficult moments
Finding clarity and peace during uncertain times
Simple daily habits that help you reconnect with love
How to lift your vibrational energy, even when the world feels overwhelming and scary
The difference between understanding spiritual ideas and putting them into practice in our everyday life
The difference between manifestation and magic
How to live with more intention and less fear
Understanding the root cause of feeling stuck
Why personal growth begins with changing how you see yourself and your place in the world
How to make a big spiritual shift that will have an impact on your life

Follow Marianne Williamson on Instagram @mariannewilliamson

Check out Marianne’s book A Return to Love

Book Recommendation: Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke
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What is etiquette in the modern age? In this episode of Question Everything, Danielle speaks with with two modern etiquette authorities: Elaine Swann, the expert the New York Times calls “The Emily Post of the Digital Age,” and Sarah Jane Ho, Netflix host and host of the Mind Your Manners podcast, as well as an Eastern wellness expert. Together, they unpack how we have lost decorum, what’s actually going on with our social skills, and why “just be yourself” might be the worst advice we’ve ever normalized. From dating, weddings, and group chats to social media, power, and belonging, this conversation is a sharp, funny, and deeply human look at how to move through the world with more confidence, clarity, and grace. In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why etiquette isn’t dead—but why it feels more confusing than ever
Have we lost decorum?! And why?
Why “just be yourself” became bad advice in a socially complex world
Solution to our social skills feel rusty after the pandemic and life online
How social media and digital life changed the rules of behavior
The hidden rules of modern dating
What’s actually considered rude now
The wedding etiquette arms race and what couples really owe their guests
Who pays the biggest social price for bad manners (and why)
The difference between being polite and being a pushover
How to set boundaries, tell the truth, and still be gracious
The small habits that make people feel respected, comfortable, and at ease
Book Links (via Bookshop.org — always support independent bookstores):
Mind Your Manners by Sara Jane Ho
Elaine Swann’s Book of Modern Etiquette by Elaine Swann

Follow the Guests:
Sara Jane Ho — Instagram, TikTok
Elaine Swann — Instagram, TikTok

Learn More:
Elaine Swann’s Etiquette School: The Swann School of Protocol
Sara Jane Ho’s Personal Care Brand: Antevorta

Book Recommendations
Book recommendation from Sara Jane Ho: Manifest Now By IDIL Ahmed
Book recommendation from Elaine Swann: Safe People by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
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Jeannie Mai, host, style icon, mother, and one of the most recognizable voices in daytime television, opens up about her early Bay Area life that shaped her long before the spotlight. From leaving home at 14 and surviving sexual abuse, to learning how to reinvent, and soften without losing her edge, Jeannie reflects on the cost of becoming who the world sees + the courage it took to become who she actually is. Now in a new chapter she calls 'becoming', Jeannie talks honestly about divorce from her former husband Jeezy, motherhood, co-parenting, faith, healing, and what it really means to rise from the ashes. In this episode, Jeannie shares:
What she learned from navigating instability at a young age, and how it influenced her approach to love and healing
The community of women that rallied around her during her toughest moment.
How survival skills can quietly become limitations in adulthood
The difference between intensity vs. intimacy (and how chaos can masquerade as love)
How to recognize when you’re performing love instead of living it
Why being single can be “the most prized piece of land you’ll ever inherit”
Why divorce feels like “experiencing death alive”
Why the end of love often marks the beginning of real self-work
What “doing the work” actually looks like after divorce
Why healing requires time alone, but not isolation
The role of movement, strength, and progress in healing
Why not taking things personally is an emotional superpower
Jeannie opens up about the labels people love to slap on women (“divorced,” “single,” “46,” “mom”) + why they’ll never tell the full story
Why children don’t exist to heal us, but often reflect us
The tearful moment her daughter mirrored back words Jeannie had only ever prayed silently
How she loves to show up + surprise her friends
How to redefine healthy love without closing yourself off
How faith evolves when you stop asking and start listening
Follow Jeannie on Instagram @thejeanniemai and on her YouTube.
Book recommendation: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
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