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25 Days of Christmas - Your Child Got a Phone, Now What?
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Your child has been begging you for a phone (or video game, social media, tablet, etc). You have held out for a long time but this Christmas, you decided to wrap that phone and place it under the tree. What can you expect after the gift is given? What kind of guidelines can you present with the phone? How can you set up your child for success and not failure? On today's 25 Days of Christmas episode, Arlene shares:
2:00 What was the lamest Christmas present you ever got?
5:30 Pre-order Arlene’s new book Making Marriage Easier
5:00 The gift (phone, iPad, etc) has been given, now what?
8:20 You are not manipulated into giving a gift, it’s voluntary
9:40 What if my child made a Powerpoint presentation begging me?
11:05 Ground rules for the phone
13:30 You need systems, not just good intentions
15:00 Protect Young Eyes, monitoring and more, DNS, Clean Browsing
18:00 Warning signs that your child is not ready for that phone or game
20:45 What if you need to take the gift away from your child?
24:50 What can I do right now to help my child have a better relationship with technology? How did we get here?
Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast and author of books like Screen Kids (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman) and Calm, Cool, and Connected: 5 Digital Habits for a More Balanced Life. Arlene and her husband James have raised three kids in Southern California who went through high school without smartphones, social media, or video games (and actually enjoyed it).
Pre-order Arlene's new book, Making Marriage Easier: How to Love (and Like) Your Spouse for Life https://makingmarriageeasier.com/
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Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
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25 Days of Christmas - Kathi Lipp - Easy Peasy Meal Prep
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As we count down the 25 Days of Christmas, your family could probably use some help in the kitchen! Kathi Lipp has a new cookbook Sabbath Soup with plenty of tips to make meal time easier. Plus you'll be invited to consider the important rhythm of Sabbath rest. Learn how to make the most of meals together with family and friends this Christmas season to enjoy more emotional connection and less fuss and stress. On today's episode, we're talking about:
2:50 Help! I don’t know how to cook!
4:40 Do this and take the stress out of mealtime
8:30 Some tips and tricks for how to save money on groceries
13:30 How to honor the Sabbath as a mom
21:23 Magic meals???
25:38 Tips for picky eaters
29:00 I need to declutter - but where do I start?
Kathi Lipp is a Publishers Weekly bestseller of 20 books including the Accidental Homesteader, Clutter Free, and the Husband Project. Her new book is Sabbath Soup: Weekly Menus and Rhythms to make space for a day of rest.
Learn more about Kathi Lipp and her cookbook, Sabbath Soup https://sabbathsoup.com/
Get Arlene's free 25 Days of Christmas - your family guide which includes 10 devotions, 10 fun and easy activities, and 5 ways to serve. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! [email protected]
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
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25 Days of Christmas - Asheritah Ciuciu - Delighting in Jesus
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You're supposed to feel joyful during the holiday season. But if you're honest, you're feeling more tired and overwhelmed. We're counting down the 25 Days of Christmas. How can you delight in Jesus once again at Christmastime and throughout the year? Asheritah Ciuciu will show us how to approach this season with faith, wonder, and worship. Her new book is Delighting in Jesus - Rhythms to restore joy when you feel broken, bored, or burned out. Today we'll talk about:
2:35 Where did all of my joy go?
12:32 How do we delight in Jesus
17:07 Is there a difference between joy and happiness?
19:53 Should we chase happiness?
25:50 How to get your joy back
Asheritah Ciuciu is an author, speaker, and founder of One Thing Alone Ministries. She is a wife and mama of three. Her books include Unwrapping the Names of Jesus for Kids, Bible & Breakfast, and Full: Food, Jesus, and the Battle for Satisfaction.
Learn more about Asheritah and her new book Delighting in Jesus. https://onethingalone.myshopify.com/products/signed-copy-of-delighting-in-jesus
Discover your devotional personality type https://onethingalone.com/
Get Arlene's free 25 Days of Christmas - your family guide which includes 10 devotions, 10 fun and easy activities, and 5 ways to serve. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! [email protected]
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
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25 Days of Christmas - Bob Goff - Catching Whimsy
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Could you use more bubbles and fun this holiday season and less stress? The one and only Bob Goff shares how we can live daily with joy and expectation from his new book, Catching Whimsy. We are kicking off the 25 Days of Christmas with a fun and meaningful conversation about whimsy, remembering the good, baseball caps, fresh starts and much more. On today's episode, we'll talk about:
2:26 What do you mean by whimsy?
3:30 Your first car was...
6:50 How to get on the same page with your spouse
11:14 What is the role of remembering in our lives?
18:52 Wait, you cut a hole in your left pocket because...
20:17 How to start fresh
27:22 Helping our children through the “spot” moments of life
Bob Goff is the New York Times bestselling author of Love Does and Everybody Always. He’s appeared on Good Morning America, NPR, the Dave Ramsey show, Forbes and Relevant. He is the host of the Dream Big podcast and loves balloons, cake pops, and helping people pursue their big dreams.
Learn more about Bob Goff and his new book Catching Whimsy here: https://www.bobgoff.com/
Get Arlene's free 25 Days of Christmas - your family guide which includes 10 devotions, 10 fun and easy activities, and 5 ways to serve. https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe
Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Please email Arlene your questions and the topics you want covered on the show! [email protected]
Save the date: Arlene's next Parents Rising Conference in San Diego, September 6, 2025
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Jonny Ardavanis - What the Bible Says about Worry
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Are your kids going to be all right? Is your job secure? Will your marriage get better? We live in an age marked by worry and anxiety for adults and kids. Many who wrestle with anxiety know the Bible calls them to trust God, but how does that actually work? Pastor and author Jonny Ardavanis invites us to open God's Word for answers. In this conversation about his new book, Consider the Lilies, you'll learn:
3:30 I had a front row seat to teen anxiety as a camp director
5:25 If you’re a parent, this is what you need to know
7:00 Even if your child doesn’t suffer from anxiety, he or she lives in a performance stressful culture
8:30 How can we protect the minds of our kids?
10:45 One of the main schemes of Satan is to make sin look normal and righteousness seem strange
15:00 Every worry is an invitation to get closer to God
17:10 What’s the difference between a good godly concern and an ungodly worry?
20:00 We were told our daughter had a syndrome with strokes and seizures
24:00 When your kids have sports injuries
27:55 God allows you to go through trials because…
Jonny Ardavanis is the pastor of Stonebridge Bible Church in Franklin, TN. He’s the founder and president of Dial In Ministries serving the next generation. He has served as camp director at Hume Lake Christian Camps and as a dean at The Master’s College. He and his wife have two young daughters. Today, we're talking about his new book, Consider the Lilies: Finding Perfect Peace in the Character of God.
Learn more about Dial In Ministries https://dialinministries.org/
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About The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane
Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here.
This show is for women and men who want a happier home life. Arlene will help you bridge the gap between your ideal family and the real thing. You don’t have to come from a happy home to create one. Your host Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books including 31 Days to a Happy Husband and Parents Rising. She and her husband James have been married more than 21 years and have three children. Inside this podcast, you’ll meet some of the kindest and smartest experts when it comes to marriage and parenting. Get ready for fun and practical conversations that will change your thinking, give you hope, and spark positive change.