The Man Warrior King Podcast - Confident Christian Men and Passionate Marriages

Sexless marriage advice for men often tells Christian husbands to lower their expectations, accept fading attraction, and become content with companionship. But what if those assumptions are not biblical—and are helping keep your marriage passionless?
In this episode, Matt Hallock exposes three sexless marriage lies many Christian men were taught in church:
- Attraction inevitably fades as a marriage gets older.
- Sex matters to men, while wives mostly provide it as a duty.
- God cares more about building your character through deprivation than restoring passion, desire, and delight in your marriage.
We examine Proverbs 5, 1 Corinthians 7, Song of Solomon, and Psalm 20 to recover a biblical vision of marriage marked by mutual desire, enduring delight, sexual generosity, and hope. If you feel more like your wife's roommate than her lover—and you have started wondering whether living without being wanted is simply part of being a godly husband—this episode is for you.
🔥 FREE TRAINING — ‘Frustrated to Desired’
The masterclass helping Christian husbands reignite attraction & connection:
https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about
📘 DNA of a Man (Book):
https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2026
📝 DNA of a Man Tactical Guide (Workbook):
https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4
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Chapters
0:00 When You Stop Feeling Wanted
2:57 Why Christian Marriages Lose Passion
6:50 Lie 1: Attraction Always Fades
8:47 Proverbs 5 on Lifelong Desire
12:19 Lie 2: Sex Is Only for Men
14:04 The Damage Done by Duty Sex
15:27 1 Corinthians 7: Desire Goes Both Ways
17:06 But My Wife Doesn't Want Sex
20:07 Lie 3: God Prefers Your Suffering
21:48 God's Goal for Your Marriage
23:19 Reject the Lies and Believe God
24:45 Resources to Rebuild Desire

If your marriage feels more like routine than passion—if your wife feels distant, desire has disappeared, and you’ve quietly decided this may be as good as it gets—this episode confronts the belief keeping you stuck.
Settling for a cold, disconnected, or sexless marriage is not humility. Calling defeat “God’s will” does not make it faith.
Because once you stop believing your marriage can change, even the right actions begin operating on top of discouragement, resentment, and resignation.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why “this is just how she is” and “this is just how I am” are faulty theology disguised as acceptance
• How settling for a passionless marriage means agreeing with hell’s ceiling for your life
• What my wife and I had to confront when our marriage reached rock bottom
• Why Peter’s transformation proves your current limitations do not determine your future
• The three kingdom keys Peter demonstrated when he stepped out of the boat
• Why breakthrough requires your belief, participation, and alignment with God
• How to keep moving forward when you stumble, sink, or fail to do it perfectly

Around ten years ago, my health, finances, living situation, and marriage all collapsed at once.

My wife wondered whether she would ever genuinely like me again. I wondered whether she would ever want me, pursue me, or deeply desire me again.

At the time, I couldn’t see the marriage we have now. I also couldn’t imagine that the man who needed a cane—and kept a bucket beside his bed because walking to the bathroom was too difficult—would one day build a 110-foot fence in the Tennessee summer.

I didn’t know what was still possible for my body.

And you do not yet know what is possible for your marriage.

Stop turning your present circumstances into a prophecy. Stop unpacking your tent in the wilderness. Stop calling your ceiling God’s will.

More is possible.
🔥 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”

Discover the biblical shifts that help Christian husbands reignite attraction, rebuild connection, and become the man their wife can trust and desire:
https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about
📘 RESOURCES

DNA of a Man — Book:
https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025
DNA of a Man Tactical Guide — Workbook:
https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4

⚔️ COACHING

Apply for The Masculine Husband 1:1 or group coaching with Matt:
https://manwarriorking.com/masculine-husband
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CHAPTERS
00:00 The Marriage Ceiling You’ve Accepted
02:34 Our Marriage at Rock Bottom
04:33 The Breakthroughs That Changed Us
08:12 Why Settling Is Agreement With Hell
11:34 More Is Possible Than You Can See
16:34 What Peter’s Life Proves About Your Future
21:46 DNA of a Man
24:03 What God Has Prepared Is Beyond Your Imagination
29:06 The Coaching Invitation
31:00 Three Keys From Peter Walking on Water
31:38 Key 1 — Say Yes to the Real God
33:08 Key 2 — Reawaken Your Fire for More
34:07 Key 3 — Leave the Pack Behind
37:07 Grace When You Don’t Do It Perfectly
37:32 Resources and Next Steps

When it feels like God has left you behind, rock bottom can convince you that sickness, defeat, and disappointment must be His plan. In this episode, Matt shares the season when his health, marriage, finances, and faith collapsed at the same time—and the biblical shift that helped him fight again.
You'll learn:
- Why “God is controlling everything” can keep Christian men passive
- How to test inherited beliefs against Scripture
- Why God’s promises require your agreement and action
- Three keys to rebuilding faith when your circumstances still look defeated
- How Matt moved from bedridden despair to praying boldly for others
🔥 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”
The masterclass helping Christian husbands reignite attraction and connection:
https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about

📘 The DNA of a Man (Book):
https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2026/

📝 The DNA of a Man Tactical Guide (Workbook):
https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4

⚔️ The Masculine Husband 1:1 and Group Coaching (apply for a call with Matt):
https://manwarriorking.com/masculine-husband

👑 Follow Matt Hallock and Man Warrior King to end powerless Christianity and build attraction that lasts:
https://www.youtube.com/@manwarriorking

Chapters
00:00 When It Feels Like God Left You Behind
04:22 Rock Bottom in Health, Marriage, and Faith
10:45 What Scripture Says About Sickness and Healing
17:10 Key 1: Question What You’ve Been Taught
17:18 Key 2: Think and Speak God’s Promises
23:36 Key 3: Stop Calling Defeat God’s Plan
24:56 Book and Free Marriage Training
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The church built you to fail. Green Beret Henry Hastings explains exactly how. Henry Hastings spent 14 years as a Green Beret. He has been in ministry for 30 years. And he has a word for Christian men who are tired of trying harder and getting nowhere: the system was never built to help you win.
In this episode:
Why declaring "I'm just a sinner saved by grace" is coming into agreement with a lie, and what happens when you break it
What Romans 6 and Colossians 2 actually say about your sin nature (it was circumcised, not just covered)
How Galatians 5:16 in the Greek contains the strongest grammatical negation possible — walking by the Spirit is not advice, it is a promise
How Henry's identity work connects directly to fighting human trafficking, caring for rescued children in the Philippines, and what it means to be a modern-day mighty man of God
Henry is the founder of Shoot Move Communicate (SMC), a brotherhood and discipleship movement built around the spirit of David's mighty men. He and his wife recently launched Justice Rains (justicerains.org), their anti-trafficking ministry. His book Unredacted (his journey from cessationism to Spirit-filled ministry, including a documented healing from a brain tumor) releases in approximately 60 days.
This one will rattle some cages. Let it.
To connect with Henry:
Join up with the Shoot Move Communicate Tribe and Events: https://smctribe.com
Follow along with the new Anti-Trafficking mission that Henry is building, Justice Reigns: https://justicereigns.org
Connect with Henry and his wife Amanda's ministry:  https://henryandamanda.com
For more from Matt and Man Warrior King...
🔥 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”
The masterclass helping Christian husbands reignite attraction & connection:
https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about
📘 DNA of a Man (Book):
https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025
📝 DNA of a Man Tactical Guide (Workbook):
https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4
⚔️ 1:1 Coaching – Free Discovery Call:
https://tidycal.com/manwarriorking/free-rebuild-coaching-call

👑 Follow Matt Hallock and Man Warrior King to end powerless Christianity and build attraction that lasts: https://www.youtube.com/@manwarriorking

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Henry Hastings and His Journey
08:22 From Military to Ministry: A Transformative Path
15:15 Encountering God: The Spiritual Awakening
20:59 The Struggle with Identity and Sin
27:16 Understanding Forgiveness and Repentance
33:04 The Power of Identity in Christ
39:16 Breaking Free from the Cycle of Sin
43:24 The Impact of Theology on Identity
49:53 Deprogramming Lies and Embracing Truth
55:52 The Power of the Holy Spirit in Modern Life
01:03:15 Emotional Vulnerability and Masculinity
01:19:09 Confronting the Reality of Human Trafficking
01:22:05 The Impact of Poverty on Human Trafficking
01:25:39 Cultural Perspectives on Exploitation
01:29:18 Divine Guidance and Career Transitions
01:32:08 The Call to Action Against Trafficking
01:35:01 Spiritual Warfare in Human Trafficking
01:41:37 Engaging the Community in Anti-Trafficking Efforts
01:48:15 Upcoming Initiatives and Resources

Christian husbands have been told the answer is simple: serve your wife more, sacrifice more, try harder, be more loving. But what if that advice is missing the foundation? What if the problem isn’t the act of serving… but the place you’re serving from?
In this video, I’m breaking down the difference between serving from strength and serving from insecurity, why over-serving can actually kill attraction, and the 3 pillars a husband needs if he wants to love his wife like Jesus actually did.
🔥 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”
The masterclass helping Christian husbands reignite attraction & connection:
https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about
📘 DNA of a Man (Book):
https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025
📝 DNA of a Man Tactical Guide (Workbook):
https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4
⚔️ 1:1 Coaching – Free Discovery Call:
https://tidycal.com/manwarriorking/free-rebuild-coaching-call

👑 Follow Matt Hallock and Man Warrior King to end powerless Christianity and build attraction that lasts: https://www.youtube.com/@manwarriorking
Chapters
00:00 The Foundation of Serving in Marriage
03:03 The Servanthood Trap
12:09 Understanding Identity and Authority
19:52 The Importance of Knowing Your Worth
29:40 Three Pillars for Stronger Marriages