The Man Warrior King Podcast

• Ep. 103 - The "Nice Guy Lie" that the Church Never Told You About

  If you’ve ever been told to “serve her more… sacrifice harder… be the good Christian man” — and yet your wife somehow got colder, less responsive, and less attracted — this episode is going to feel like a divine ambush.Because the truth is brutal:Most Christian husbands are following a model of masculinity God never designed for them. A model that strips you of desire, identity, and confidence… and turns you into a hovering, panting puppy dog instead of a grounded, fire-filled man of the Kingdom.Today I’m exposing the Nice Guy Lie — the hidden teaching in church culture that unintentionally kills masculine polarity. We’re talking resurrecting your God-given desire, reclaiming your worth, breaking free from people-pleasing, and stepping into the strength that awakens your wife’s attraction again.This episode is not soft. It’s not “churchy.”It’s battle-tested truth from the trenches of my own marriage.You don’t have to keep living small. You were made for fire, for desire, for authority — and your marriage is begging for that version of you to show up.🔥 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”The masterclass helping Christian husbands reignite attraction & connection:https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about📘 DNA of a Man (Book):https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025📝 DNA of a Man Tactical Guide (Workbook):https://a.co/d/6YrL6V4⚔️ 1:1 Coaching – Free Discovery Call:https://tidycal.com/manwarriorking/free-rebuild-coaching-callCHAPTERS:00:00 The Nice Guy Lie: A Christian Perspective05:30 The Impact of Sacrifice on Relationships10:31 Resurrecting Your Desires15:02 Navigating Relationships with Confidence20:09 Resources for Transformation

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• Ep. 102 - How to Pray with Authority So You Actually Get ANSWERS

  If the atmosphere in your home feels heavy, cold, disconnected, or spiritually attacked — today’s teaching is your turning point.Most Christian husbands were taught to pray as beggars, not sons. To hope instead of command. To plead instead of decree. To wait on God’s will instead of standing in the authority Jesus already handed them.But Jesus didn’t tell you to beg the mountain.He told you to speak to it.In this episode, I walk you step-by-step through breakthrough praying — the kind that actually moves in the real world. The kind that pushes back darkness, restores connection, ignites atmosphere, and awakens the king inside you. This is the shift from victim-prayer to kingdom-prayer.When you start praying with authority… your wife feels it. Your home feels it. You feel it.And if you’re ready to go deeper than prayer — into becoming a man your wife is drawn to again — the free training below is where we start.👉 FREE TRAINING — “Frustrated to Desired”Learn the 5 keys that transform a frustrated Christian husband into a confident, desired, masculine leader.Includes the free workbook.https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about👉 Get “The DNA of a Man” + Tactical GuideThe book men say “re-wires them from the inside out.”https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025

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• Ep. 101 - How a Man Can ACTUALLY Change without Just White-Knuckling It

  If you’ve tried to “work on yourself” as a husband, to transform from weak to confident, and it still hasn’t stuck… and your wife still doesn't desire you...this one’s for you.You build new habits for a week or two, white-knuckle your way through being “more patient,” “more spiritual,” “more romantic”… and then your wife’s look tells you the truth: nothing really changed. The shame hits. You try harder. It fails again.That cycle is PAINFUL— and it is not how the Kingdom works.In this episode I’m unpacking why self-improvement keeps Christian men stuck and how the Holy Spirit actually transforms you from the inside out — from “weak, ashamed, spinning your wheels” into a man who walks in quiet confidence, masculine presence, and supernatural power. Not a man obsessed with avoiding sin… a Word-made man who embodies the promises of God.In this episode we cover:Why the version of faith you inherited feels disappointing and powerlessThe brutal problem with “Christian change methods” (just pray, read, avoid sin…)The difference between behavior modification and identity overhaulHow shame slowly poisons your transformation attemptsWhat it means to become a “word made man” instead of a rule-keeperHow the Holy Spirit convicts you into hope, not condemnationThe simple Kingdom way to renew your mind and tap real dynamite powerHow this inner transformation turns you into a confident, attractive husband📚 Grab my book The DNA of a Man + Tactical GuideIf you’re ready to go deep on identity, confidence, and mission as a man, grab my book “The DNA of a Man” and the brand-new Tactical Guide workbook.👉 Get the book:https://go.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025👉 Get the DNA Tactical Guide:https://a.co/d/2OO8pHg🎁 Free Training – Frustrated to DesiredWant the 5 Kingdom keys to becoming an attractive, masculine Christian husband… not the “happy wife, happy life,” nice-guy version?👉 Watch the free training: “Frustrated to Desired”https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/aboutThis is the best place to start if your marriage feels cold, distant, or passionless.💼 1:1 Coaching with Matt (High-Commitment)If you’re ready to move fast — identity, confidence, communication, attraction, even hearing God and seeing miracles in your everyday life:👉 Apply for a free call with me:https://tidycal.com/manwarriorking/free-rebuild-coaching-callThis is only for men who are ready and able to make a significant investment. If that’s not you yet, focus on the book, the tactical guide, and the free training above.

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• Ep. 100 - Adam, the Example of the Hovering Puppy Dog Husband

  Too many Christian husbands have been discipled into hovering puppy dogs instead of dangerous, mission-driven men of God. We’ve been told “love your wife, be nice, serve more, be patient”… but nobody showed us EXACTLY how Adam lost his wife’s respect or how Song of Solomon shows a wife who can’t keep her hands off her man.In this episode, we go deep into Genesis 2–3 and Song of Solomon to expose how Adam laid down his mission, orbitted his wife like a desperate puppy, and opened the door to the serpent. Then we contrast that with a king on mission whose bride says, “Draw me after you—let us run.” If you’ve felt like a different man at work than you are at home… if your wife feels cold, critical, or distant… this is going to punch you in the chest in the best way.We’ll talk about how to stop obsessively hovering around your wife, reclaim your God-given mission, rebuild her respect, and invite her back into your chambers as a confident, grounded, masculine husband. Not by getting louder or harsher—but by becoming a man who is validated by God, rooted in identity, and willing to set boundaries and lead.🔥 If you’re done being the hovering puppy dog husband and you want help becoming the man your wife is actually wired to desire…– Grab my book “The DNA of a Man” and its Tactical Guide     --DNA: https://a.co/d/1hMbidV     --DNA Tactical Guide: https://a.co/d/imX1ftD– Watch the free training on how to stop being a Hovering Puppy Dog Husband below:     --Free training: https://www.skool.com/man-warrior-king-4628/about– And if your marriage is really on the ropes, apply to work with me so we can go after this together.    -- https://tidycal.com/manwarriorking/free-rebuild-coaching-callYou don’t have to stay stuck in a cold, resentful, sexless marriage. Heaven calls you more than a conqueror. Start acting like it.Chapters00:00 The Foundation of Marital Bliss05:17 Identifying the Hovering Puppy Dog Husband17:57 Restoring Respect and Attraction25:19 Taking Action for a Thriving Marriage

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• Ep. 99 - Stop Waiting on God--Your Marriage Needs You to Move

  In this episode of the Man Warrior King podcast, host Matt Hallock explores how the desire to please God can accidentally lead to passivity in marriage. He emphasizes the importance of taking action and partnering with God rather than constantly waiting FOR God. Through biblical examples, particularly the story of Jonathan, Matt encourages men to take initiative in their marriages and lives. He also discusses practical steps for change and highlights resources available for men seeking transformation.TakeawaysYour desire to please God can lead to inaction.Passivity in marriage can lead to deterioration.Women are attracted to men who take action.God desires partnership with us in our actions.Moses was rebuked for inaction; God wants us to move forward.Jonathan took initiative without direct revelation from God.Taking action can initiate God's miraculous work.You have a green light to act until told otherwise.Transformation can feel effortless with the right mindset.Resources like the Masculine Husband program can facilitate change.Pick up your copy of The DNA of a Man here: https://thrive.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025Join The Masculine Husband 3-month Marriage Intensive here: https://thrive.manwarriorking.com/masculinehusbandSubscribe to Matt and Man Warrior King on Youtube here: https://www.youtube.com/@manwarriorking/Chapters00:00 The Desire to Please God: A Double-Edged Sword07:25 Partnership with God: Action vs. Inaction12:56 Taking Initiative: The Story of Jonathan18:50 Practical Steps for Marital Improvement25:07 Transformative Change: The Masculine Husband Program27:27 Outro exported.mp3

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