
Episode 362: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 4 of 4) ā Self-Regulation and Integrity in the Moment of Choice (Rebroadcast)
22/12/2025 | 14 mins.
Self-differentiation is acting in accordance with your goals and values, especially in anxious moments. This episode shows you how, as well as what to do when you donāt.Show Notes:Anxious Church, Anxious People: How to Lead Change in an Age of AnxietyĀ If You Met My Family, Youād Understand: A Family Systems PrimerBecome a Patron for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weeklyĀ ā Two for Tuesdayā Ā email newsletter.

Episode 361: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 3 of 4) ā The Problem with Seriousness and Reactivity (Rebroadcast)
15/12/2025 | 17 mins.
The emotional intensity that comes from being super-serious can turn a challenge into a problem. Likewise, when we react automatically to the anxiety of others, it can make a bad situation worse. This episode digs into why this is the case and what you can do about it.Show Notes:Anxious Church, Anxious People: How to Lead Change in an Age of AnxietyĀ If You Met My Family, Youād Understand: A Family Systems PrimerTriggers: Creating Behavior That LastsāBecoming the Person You Want to BeĀ by Marshall GoldsmithBecome a Patron for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weeklyĀ ā Two for Tuesdayā Ā email newsletter.

Episode 360: Leadership through Self-Differentiation - Part 2 of 4 ā Emotional Process, Sabotage, Pain & Responsibility (Rebroadcast)
08/12/2025 | 17 mins.
Recognizing emotional process will not only help you avoid getting stuck, it will enable you to persist through the inevitable sabotage that comes when you are leading change.Show Notes:Anxious Church, Anxious People: How to Lead Change in an Age of AnxietyĀ If You Met My Family, Youād Understand: A Family Systems PrimerBecome a Patron for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weeklyĀ ā Two for Tuesdayā Ā email newsletter.

Episode 359: Leadership through Self-Differentiation - Part 1 of 4 - Triangles (Rebroadcast)
01/12/2025 | 16 mins.
The key to effective leadership is the ability to remain a non-anxious presence. Understanding triangles, as well as how to manage them, makes this easier.Show Notes:Anxious Church, Anxious People: How to Lead Change in an Age of AnxietyĀ If You Met My Family, Youād Understand: A Family Systems PrimerBecome a Patron for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weeklyĀ ā Two for Tuesdayā Ā email newsletter.

Episode 358: 7 Ways Leaders Get Stuck and What to Do about It - Part 2 of 2
24/11/2025 | 13 mins.
Understanding what Executive Coach Muriel M. Wilkins calls "Blockers" can help you get unstuck in your family, congregation and organization. This episode covers the final four and how to unblock them.Show Notes:ā The Hidden Beliefs That Hold Leaders Backā by Muriel M. Wilkinsā Become a Patronā for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weeklyĀ ā ā Two for Tuesdayā ā Ā email newsletter.



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