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• Ep 22. When Your Business is an “ADHD Pipe Dream”

  You’ve got a big idea. A new venture. Maybe even a full-on dream. And suddenly your brain is like: “Cool cool cool… but what if this is just another pipe dream?”In this episode, I’m walking you through one of our recent ADHD Untamed coaching calls—where a member’s booming woodworking business sparked a spiral of self-doubt, urgency, and pressure to prove this was finally “the one.”We dive into what happens when your dream feels too big, how ADHD brains are wired for both inspiration and burnout, and why chasing your goals from a place of pressure sets you up to spin out.You'll learn how to shift out of perfectionism, stop trying to prove you're "not flaky," and start building with trust, not panic. Plus, I’ll walk you through a guided visualization to reconnect with your why—without the burnout.If you've ever walked away from something and wondered, “Did I just fail again?”—this one's for you.⏳ In this episode:1:38 – Why your dream feels “too big” (and why that’s an ADHD thing) 3:31 – The difference between pressure and urgency 6:03 – What happens when you tie your worth to performance 9:24 – Why the “perfect system” might be a trauma response 10:51 – The self-sabotage of solving problems before they happen 11:43 – A spiritual lens on patterns like burnout, chaos, overwhelm 12:39 – The shift from proving to trusting yourself 14:30 – Journal prompts to explore your deeper “why” 17:22 – A guided Untamed Alignment to move from pressure to trust 21:39 – Final reflections and how to respond to your inner critic💥 Ready to stop proving and start trusting?Join ADHD Untamed, the coaching experience designed to help you radically accept your ADHD, stop self-abandoning, and build a life that works with your brain.✨ Weekly live coaching with Ana ✨ The Untamed Freedom Formula ✨ Guided visualizations, meditations, and mindset tools ✨ A supportive, wildly relatable community👉🏽 Join now at anaurban.com/adhd-untamed

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• Ep 21. How to Actually Remember Important Things with ADHD

  🧠 How to Actually Remember Things with ADHDWhy do you remember your third-grade crush’s birthday but forget why you walked into a room five seconds ago?Let’s talk ADHD and memory — and why the advice you’ve been given isn’t working because it skips over the one thing that matters most: your relationship to your brain.📥 Grab the free visual download that goes with this episode:This PDF breaks down the Untamed Freedom Formula for ADHD memory — so you can start supporting your brain instead of shaming it.→ Grab it hereIn this episode, I’ll walk you through what memory actually is (spoiler: it’s not one thing), how ADHD affects it, and why none of your sticky notes or reminder apps will work if you’re still judging yourself every time you forget something.This one’s practical and emotional — because remembering things is never just about remembering things.🔍 In this episode, you’ll learn:Why most ADHD memory hacks fall flat (4:06)The difference between long-term, short-term, and working memory (6:01)Why working memory is the executive function that messes with your entire day (6:46)How forgetting isn’t just a brain glitch — it’s tied to trauma, shame, and internalized judgment (11:04)A breakdown of the Untamed Freedom Formula and how each phase helps you reclaim your memory (12:49)Real-life examples from coaching clients, including how memory spirals can affect connection and self-worth (18:11)ADHD-friendly memory tools that actually work — when used with compassion (24:57)Why “visual cues,” batch routines, and even rosemary can help… but only if you stop trying to fix yourself first (26:48)The surprising science of mental rehearsal and how to prime your brain for success like an Olympian (27:46)Why coaching is less about learning — and more about remembering who you are (34:29)🌱 Ready to stop spiraling and start supporting your brain?Join ADHD Untamed — the only program that blends science, spirituality, and real-talk strategy to help you:✨ Radically accept your ADHD (no shame, no masks)✨ Build custom systems that actually work for your brain✨ Regulate your emotions + rewire your beliefs✨ Get weekly coaching, somatic tools, a private podcast + more→ Join now at anaurban.com/adhd-untamed🎧 If this episode hit home, don’t keep it to yourself — text it to the friend who always forgets their keys, leave a review, and subscribe for more wildly different takes on ADHD.

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• Ep 20. Real Safety vs. Fake Safety (And Why You Never Feel Calm for Long)

  What if the real reason you’re spiraling isn’t the task, the deadline, or the flop—but your nervous system?In this episode, I’m joined by my husband Ryan for a candid convo about fake safety vs. real safety, what it means to feel grounded in your body when everything feels like it’s falling apart, and why regulating your nervous system before taking action changes everything.We dive into performance pressure at work, ADHD spirals, and why many of us only feel safe after the thing is solved—aka conditional safety. I also walk you through how the Untamed Freedom Formula helps you build real, unconditional safety inside your body using the four phases: Relearn, Reflect, Release, and Respond.You’ll hear how Ryan applied parts work (hello, inner watchdog 🐶), real-life examples from his high-stress corporate job, and why crying, swaying, or humming might be the real productivity hacks no one’s talking about.If you’ve ever felt like you were spiraling over something that “shouldn’t be a big deal,” this episode is a must-listen.🔍 In this episode, you’ll learn:What fake safety looks like (and how we mistake it for regulation) (1:55)How tying your worth to performance starts way before adulthood (9:13)The concept of “the inner watchdog” and why talking to your parts works (4:11)What parts work actually is and how ADHD Untamed teaches it in practice (5:44)Ryan’s experience navigating performance pressure as a corporate recruiter (7:36)How real safety can’t be found in external wins (like a filled role or a viral post) (11:15)Why nervous system regulation isn’t about logic (it’s about embodiment) (14:56)The four phases of the Untamed Freedom Formula and how to apply them (15:45)The analogy of “the overflowing cup” and what to do when you’re about to snap (23:01)Tools that actually help: humming, rocking, compassion, curiosity, and guided audios (18:31)🌱 Ready to go deeper?Enrollment for ADHD Untamed is OPEN!This is the only program that blends science, spirituality, and real talk to help you radically accept your ADHD, stop self-abandoning, and start building a life that works for your brain.✨ Get instant access to the Untamed Freedom Formula✨ Weekly live coaching calls with Ana✨ Somatic tools, guided meditations, and more✨ Private community + podcast for on-the-go supportJoin now: https://www.anaurban.com/adhd-untamed🎧 Listen + SubscribeIf this episode resonated, share it with a friend, leave a review, or tag me on Instagram @ana.urban.coach and tell me your biggest takeaway!🎙️ The Wildly Different Podcast is here to remind you that you're not broken. You’re just wildly different. And that’s the magic.

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• Ep 19. The Real Problem Isn’t ADHD. It’s Self-Abandonment

  What if everything you’ve been told about ADHD is wrong?What if your brain isn’t broken—but simply wired for a different kind of brilliance?In this episode, we’re throwing out the outdated, shame-filled narratives around ADHD and replacing them with something revolutionary: wholeness.In this episode, I’m walking you through the Untamed Freedom Formula, a four-phase process designed to help you stop fighting yourself and start embracing how your mind actually works. We’ll talk about curiosity, acceptance, self-compassion, and willingness—and how these four simple shifts can change everything, from your productivity to your relationships to your self-worth.If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much” or “not enough” at the same time, this episode is for you.In this episode, you’ll learn about:Shame spiral, system hopping, and self-abandonment are the bigger issues. (1:00)Analogy: Painting over a water stain instead of fixing the leak → Treating symptoms instead of root causes. (2:30)Many are working hard yet feel like they’re failing. (4:00)The real issue: Fighting "invisible math" with shame as a compass. (5:45)Developed after being diagnosed with ADHD at 19. (7:00)Phase 1: Relearn (10:00)Phase 2: Reflect (12:30)Phase 3: Release (15:30)Phase 4: Respond (17:30)ADHD isn’t a secret but a part of a person’s system. You don't need to tell others about ADHD for them to understand or tiptoe around you. (19:00)Ontology refers to understanding the true nature of something. In this case, it’s about exploring ADHD's real nature instead of trying to "fix" it. (20:00)The traditional view of ADHD as a disorder of executive function is flawed. (22:00)ADHD is a form of neurodivergence, not a failure to fit into societal expectations. (24:00)The “theology” of executive function promotes obedience and productivity, which might not work for ADHD brains. (25:15)The internalized belief that ADHD individuals are lazy or undisciplined stems from societal pressure to conform to a rigid, linear, and productive mold. (26:00)Enrollment for ADHD Untamed is now open! This transformative program is designed to help you embrace your ADHD with confidence, harness your strengths, and create a life that works for you. I’m offering expert guidance, practical tools, and a supportive community to help you gain clarity, self-acceptance, and strategies to thrive. Don’t miss this opportunity to break free from overwhelm and step into your full potential. Sign up now to start your journey! https://www.anaurban.com/adhd-untamed

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• Ep 18. Who Do You Need to BE to HAVE What You Want

  You know that feeling—the one where you’re standing on the edge of something big, something that could change everything, but instead of jumping, you hesitate? Your mind races with all the ‘what ifs’—What if I fail? What if I’m not ready? What if this isn’t the right path?We’ve all been there. Stuck between the life we know and the one we want. The truth is, the leap is never easy, but it’s always worth it. And that’s exactly what we’re diving into in this episode.Today, we’re getting real about the messy, unpredictable, and sometimes uncomfortable journey of stepping into the unknown. We’re talking about fear, resistance, and that inner voice that tries to keep us playing small. But more importantly, we’re exploring what happens when you push past the doubt and take action anyway.In this episode, you’ll learn about:What first sparked my interest in this field. (7:42)The early influences and mentors who helped shape my journey. (10:10)How I overcame the doubts and obstacles I faced. (11:14)The toughest hurdles I have faced—both personal and professional. (14:30)The most valuable lesson I’ve learned. (18:24)The turning point that changed everything for me. (22:10)How resilience, adaptability, and creativity helped me move forward in the face of adversity. (25:19)My advice for anyone looking to follow a similar path and the key habits that led to this success. (30:55)How you can apply these lessons to your own life and take action today. (34:01)Enrollment for ADHD Untamed is now open! This transformative program is designed to help you embrace your ADHD with confidence, harness your strengths, and create a life that works for you. I’m offering expert guidance, practical tools, and a supportive community, to help you gain clarity, self-acceptance, and strategies to thrive. Don’t miss this opportunity to break free from overwhelm and step into your full potential. Sign up now to start your journey! https://www.anaurban.com/adhd-untamed

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