Basketball Coach Unplugged (A Basketball Coaching Podcast)

https://teachhoops.com/ — Coach Collins' coaching resource site, 14 day free trial (also said as "teachgroups.com" and "t-tubes.com" in the transcript, both transcription errors for TeachHoops)

https://coachingyouthhoops.com/ — practice plans and season planning, the one stop shop pitched in the sponsor reads

https://heysammi.com/ — text based team communication app, spelled out on air as H E Y S A M M I (Sammi with an i)



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Title: What Does It Really Take to Be a Coaching Family?

Subtitle: Coach Collins sits down with his wife for an honest conversation about the season behind the season

Show Notes

Every coach has a support system at home that never gets a microphone. This episode changes that. Coach Collins is joined by his wife for a candid conversation about what the coaching life actually looks like from the other side of the gym, the parts nobody puts on a highlight reel.

What we cover:

The honest version of a season

What November through March really feels like at home. The missed dinners, the late bus rides, the games watched from the stands with a kid on your lap.

Handling the losses together

What it is like to live with someone after a tough loss, and what actually helps. Spoiler, it is usually not basketball talk.

The stuff parents and fans say

How a coaching spouse hears the criticism differently, and how you protect your family from the noise without hiding from the community.

Kids in the gym

Raising children inside a program. The upside of a childhood spent around a team, and the tradeoffs that come with it.

Setting boundaries that stick

The rules that keep a coaching marriage healthy. When the phone goes down, when film stops, and what one protected day a week can do for a household.

The offseason problem

Everybody thinks coaches get a break. Camps, open gyms, recruiting, and clinics say otherwise. How to actually take time off and mean it.

What she wishes coaches knew

Straight talk for every coach listening about what your family needs from you that you may be missing.

Why it is worth it

The relationships, the kids who come back years later, the shared purpose. The reasons a coaching family keeps signing up for another year.

Coach takeaway: Your program will replace you eventually. Your family will not. Coach hard, but go home on time more often than you think you can.

More coaching resources, practice plans, and the Coaching Community at https://teachhoops.com/

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Title: What Does It Really Take to Be a Coaching Family?

Subtitle: Coach Collins sits down with his wife for an honest conversation about the season behind the season

Show Notes

Every coach has a support system at home that never gets a microphone. This episode changes that. Coach Collins is joined by his wife for a candid conversation about what the coaching life actually looks like from the other side of the gym, the parts nobody puts on a highlight reel.

What we cover:

The honest version of a season

What November through March really feels like at home. The missed dinners, the late bus rides, the games watched from the stands with a kid on your lap.

Handling the losses together

What it is like to live with someone after a tough loss, and what actually helps. Spoiler, it is usually not basketball talk.

The stuff parents and fans say

How a coaching spouse hears the criticism differently, and how you protect your family from the noise without hiding from the community.

Kids in the gym

Raising children inside a program. The upside of a childhood spent around a team, and the tradeoffs that come with it.

Setting boundaries that stick

The rules that keep a coaching marriage healthy. When the phone goes down, when film stops, and what one protected day a week can do for a household.

The offseason problem

Everybody thinks coaches get a break. Camps, open gyms, recruiting, and clinics say otherwise. How to actually take time off and mean it.

What she wishes coaches knew

Straight talk for every coach listening about what your family needs from you that you may be missing.

Why it is worth it

The relationships, the kids who come back years later, the shared purpose. The reasons a coaching family keeps signing up for another year.

Coach takeaway: Your program will replace you eventually. Your family will not. Coach hard, but go home on time more often than you think you can.

More coaching resources, practice plans, and the Coaching Community at https://teachhoops.com/

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https://teachhoops.com/ — Coach Collins' coaching resource site, 14 day free trial (also said as "teachgroups.com" and "t-tubes.com" in the transcript, both transcription errors for TeachHoops)

https://coachingyouthhoops.com/ — practice plans and season planning, the one stop shop pitched in the sponsor reads

https://heysammi.com/ — text based team communication app, spelled out on air as H E Y S A M M I (Sammi with an i)

Coach Collins and Coach Steve tackle one of the most common questions in youth basketball: how do you get kids to stop jacking up bad shots without killing their confidence? The answer is a three word framework you can run live in practice, no film room required.

Coach Steve shares the exact language he uses with his teams, why he asks "why" instead of correcting, and how a shot that is terrible for one player can be the right shot for another. Coach Collins connects it back to what he does at the varsity level in film sessions, and explains why immediate feedback in a scrimmage may actually beat watching it on tape two days later.

The episode opens with a candid conversation about retirement, giving the next coach space, and the hardest part of walking away from a program you built.

The good shot, great shot, no shot framework and how to define each one for your age group

Why efficient scoring belongs in your program pillars, and what it actually looks like in practice

How to teach range so players honestly know their own shooting distance

The whistle and question method: pause the scrimmage, ask what kind of shot that was, then ask why

Why you should not answer for the player, and what happens when they answer for themselves

How shot selection standards should differ by player without singling anyone out

Handling the parent problem, when mom and dad are yelling "shoot it" right after you said do not

The retirement conversation: why the best thing a retiring coach can do is stay out of the gym

00:00 Welcome and a word about TeachHoops.com, the 7 and 14 first season, and finding mentors that changed everything

01:02 Retirement talk, no more tests to grade, and the practice plans Coach Collins will miss

01:35 The retired coach who now shows up to critique his son's practices, and why space matters

02:24 "I will help you, but you have to ask." Setting the boundary with a former assistant

02:48 Why walking back into the gym is complicated when the kids were on your team

03:15 Sponsors: CoachingYouthHoops.com for practice plans and season planning, and HeySammi.com for cutting administrative work

04:53 Today's topic arrives from the Facebook group: teaching shot selection at the youth level

05:00 The real problem, kids get asked how many points they scored, never how many stops they made

05:38 Quick break, TeachHoops.com and the 14 day free trial

05:59 Coach Steve defines a great shot: on balance, no hand in your face, inside your range

06:45 How do players learn their own range? They know more than you think

07:28 The live teaching method, blow the whistle, name the shot, then ask why

07:56 The unexpected result: players start passing to the teammate who has the great shot

08:00 Great shot, good shot, no shot examples for third through fifth grade

08:29 Coach Collins on film sessions at the high school level versus live correction at the youth level

09:23 Why immediate feedback is the advantage of teaching this in the moment

09:47 "You told me not to shoot a three, but Steve just shot one." Handling that conversation

10:28 Differentiating standards without calling players out: this is where you are right now, and it is okay

10:54 Coach Steve's closing advice: define it, keep it quick, and know the individual

11:26 The player who can slice between two defenders versus the one who cannot, same drive, different verdict

11:41 Closing thoughts and where to go next

"The best thing a coach can do when they retire is give the other coach space."

"I do not say that is right or wrong. I just say, okay, why?"

"What I have seen over the course of this season is they are passing the ball now to someone who has a great shot."

"It is not calling them out. It is just, this is where you are right now. It is okay."

Shot selection is not a rule, it is a conversation you repeat until it becomes instinct. Keep the vocabulary to three words so a nine year old can hold it in their head during live play. Blow the whistle, ask what that was, ask why, then move on. Do not lecture. And accept that the definition of a great shot is different for every kid on your roster, which is the whole point.

TeachHoops.com for coaches who want to get better, 14 day free trial

CoachingYouthHoops.com, practice plans and season planning for youth coaches

HeySammi.com, text based team communication that syncs your family's sports apps into one place, spelled H E Y S A M M I

The TeachHoops Facebook group, where this week's question came from

If this episode helped, please subscribe, leave a five star review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with a coach who needs it. Then head over to TeachHoops.com and start your 14 day free trial.

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Second week of December, a kid knocks on the office door, sits down, and says he thought he was going to start. Most of us have lived that exact moment. And the hard truth is he usually has every reason to believe it, because nobody ever sat him down and told him anything else.

This episode takes the role conversation and runs it through a modern lens. Simplicity wins. If your role talk needs a whiteboard and eleven minutes, the kid is not listening, he is waiting to find out if he is starting. One sentence. What is your job on this team?

Coach Collins breaks down why silence functions as a promise, why every player writes himself a bigger role than the one you had in mind, and why defining a kid by a position number is coaching from thirty years ago. The job is not what he is. The job is what he decides when the ball moves.

What we cover:

Silence as a promise, and how a quiet October turns into a hurt player in December

Simplicity wins: saying the role in one sentence, in his language

The canyon between calling somebody your eighth man and telling him he takes their best scorer for six minutes

Defining roles by decisions instead of positions, so a player knows what to do the moment the ball moves

Why minutes are the reward and the decision is the actual job

Scaffolding the role so a sophomore gets the version he can hold right now, mastering one decision before you add the next

Telling him exactly what earns more, with measurable standards instead of empty advice like work harder

Why your best player gets the vaguest coaching in the gym, and why he needs a defined job too

Reinforcing it every two weeks in thirty second hallway check ins, because roles drift when kids get hot, get hurt, or start hearing it from the bleachers

The surprise: the kids you are most scared to talk to are almost always the most relieved to hear it

Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is what actually breaks trust

Your challenge: before your first practice, write one sentence for every player describing his job. If you cannot write it, you do not know it. And if you do not know it, there is no chance he does.

Practice plans, preseason meeting structures, role sheets, and the full library are at https://teachhoops.com/

Recorded at the Fifth Quarter Studios in Madison, Wisconsin.
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