Beautiful Inside by Beauticate

This week, I’m joined by Dr Sarah Jane - Holistic chiropractor & Counsellor, founder of Spinal Energetics, and one of the most fascinating voices I’ve encountered at the intersection of science, somatics and the unseen.
What struck me most about Sarah isn’t just the work she does - it’s the life she’s lived to arrive there.
From a traumatic car accident and chronic pain… to an abusive relationship that left her body holding what her mind couldn’t process, to years of fibromyalgia, miscarriages, and navigating her mother’s sudden brain injury - her story is layered, complex, and deeply human.
And it’s this lived experience that led her to a radical realisation:that healing isn’t just cognitive - it’s physical, emotional, and deeply embodied.
In this conversation, we explore what happens when the body “keeps score”, why talk therapy alone isn’t always enough, and how creating safety in the nervous system can begin to shift even the deepest patterns.
Sarah opens up about the concept of bracing - the unconscious tension so many of us carry - and why the goal isn’t to eliminate it, but to retrain it. As she beautifully explains, healing isn’t about never feeling pain again, it’s about changing your relationship to it.
We also talk about grief that has no clear ending - miscarriages, identity loss, and what she calls “ambiguous grief” - and why our culture still struggles to hold space for it.
Her book "Your Spine Holds the Answer" launches in July. A guide to holistic healing, the emotional roots of pain, and Spinal Energetics
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why your body can hold onto trauma long after your mind has processed it– The difference between understanding healing and actually embodying it– How “bracing” shows up in everyday life (and how to soften it)– Why emotional pain often lingers longer than physical pain– The rituals and practices that helped Sarah rebuild herself, piece by piece
This is a conversation about resilience — but not the glossy kind.The real kind. The quiet kind. The kind that asks you to sit with yourself, and slowly, gently, come home.

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00:00 Intro
00:47 Meet Dr Sarah Jane & the philosophy behind Spinal Energetics
03:20 How the body stores emotional trauma
08:09 The car accident that changed everything
10:19 Abuse, emotional pain & psychogenic seizures
15:03 Why talk therapy wasn’t enough
18:57 The body keeps score: releasing trauma somatically
21:05 Childhood abandonment & meeting her father for the first time
24:16 EMDR, psychotherapy & healing modalities
26:11 Why healing doesn’t mean never feeling pain again
27:50 Bracing, hyper vigilance & nervous system safety
30:50 Miscarriage, fertility grief & surrogacy
33:28 Her mother’s sudden brain illness & caregiving
36:17 Living with ambiguous grief & loss
40:11 Meditation, yoga & Vipassana
42:14 Ancient healing wisdom & Buddhism
46:32 Ritual, grief & what modern culture is missing
48:13 Trauma, purpose & post-traumatic growth
51:05 Healing work in India & helping children through trauma
53:23 From chiropractic to creating Spinal Energetics

This week, I’m joined by Alexa Roetger, better known to many as Nurse Lex — founder of Aestheticá Byron Bay, registered nurse, skin expert, and one of those rare women whose work is deeply grounded in both science and soul. Publicly, she’s built a respected Byron Bay clinic known for its holistic, less-is-more approach to skin. Privately, her story is one of resilience, reinvention, grief, motherhood, and learning to trust her own philosophy in an industry obsessed with trends. (Aestheticá, Byron Bay)
In this conversation, Lex shares how she went from working in high-pressure clinical nursing to creating a business that helps women feel more at home in themselves — not more “perfect”, just more aligned. We talk about the emotional side of aesthetics, the moment your reflection no longer feels like you, and why so many women aren’t really chasing youth at all, but recognition.
We also go deeper into the realities of building a business while becoming a mother, the quiet power of word of mouth, and the grief that can reshape how you see women’s health, hormones, ageing and care. It’s a conversation about skin, yes — but also identity, intuition, and what it means to support women honestly.
In this episode, we explore:
Lex’s path from nursing into aesthetic medicine
The surprise motherhood story that unfolded while she was building her clinic
Why she believes skin health should come before trends
Her thoughts on barrier repair, regenerative treatments and respecting the skin
The emotional impact of perimenopause, menopause and not recognising yourself in the mirror
Why the best practitioners aren’t always the loudest online
What it takes to grow a trusted business through integrity and reputation
You’ll come away with a deeper understanding of skin, but also a deeper compassion for yourself — especially if you’ve ever felt like your outer self stopped matching the person you know you still are inside.
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Susan Yara, beauty pioneer, entrepreneur and wellness advocate, joins me for a deeply honest conversation about reinvention, resilience and what it really means to be beautiful inside.

In this episode of Beautiful Inside by Beauticate, we go beyond the highlight reel. Susan shares her journey from feeling like an outsider as a child to building trust with millions of women, navigating public scrutiny and ultimately selling her brand.

We talk about the psychological toll of online backlash, the quiet discipline of setting boundaries, and the moment she realised wellness wasn’t optional, it was essential.

This conversation explores self-care in the digital age, the pressure of perfection and why a trusted inner circle is one of the most powerful forms of protection. Susan also opens up about motherhood, identity and the six rituals she returns to when she needs to feel grounded, clear and herself again.

It’s a thoughtful, deeply human conversation about resilience, self-trust and choosing depth over noise.

In this episode, we cover:

• How Susan Yara reinvented herself and rebuilt trust
• Why resilience matters more than perfection
• The hidden cost of online criticism and how to set boundaries
• Her approach to wellness, self-care and hormonal health
• The six rituals that keep her feeling strong, calm and connected

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This week on Beautiful Inside, I’m joined by Dr Shefali Tsabary — clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and the voice behind the Conscious Parenting movement. But what makes her story matter isn’t just her expertise. It’s the way she names the patterns so many of us are living inside: perfectionism dressed up as “good parenting”, approval-seeking disguised as “being a nice person”, and the silent burnout of holding everything together.
This episode is brought to you by ⁠Pulsetto⁠, a wearable vagus nerve stimulation device designed to support calm, stress relief and better sleep through short app-guided sessions. For more information, and to receive 15% off, use the code https://pulsetto.tech/.
In this conversation, you’ll feel both seen and steadied. Dr Shefali doesn’t offer fluffy fixes — she offers a mirror. One that helps you understand why you react the way you do, how to repair without drowning in shame, and what it actually looks like to come home to yourself in midlife.
We talk about the emotional moments that make parenting (and womanhood) so charged: the outbursts that leave you rattled, the guilt that follows, and the fear that you’re “doing damage”. Dr Shefali shares a powerful reframe — that parenting isn’t a performance to perfect, but a relationship to grow through — and the relief in that lands in your body.
We also go deep on something many families are navigating daily: screens and tech dependence. Dr Shefali is clear-eyed about how dopamine, swiping, and constant stimulation are shaping our children (and us), and what it takes to set boundaries that don’t come from control, but from protection and leadership.
And then, the conversation widens beautifully. Dr Shefali opens up about her own reinvention — leaving India at 21, building a life in the US, and later shedding the identity of the “good wife” and the woman who performs stability. It’s raw, brave, and deeply liberating, especially for anyone standing at the edge of a life shift and wondering who they’ll be without the roles.
How to pause, reflect, and repair after you lose your temper — without spiralling into self-hatred

Why shame keeps women stuck, and how to start loosening its grip

The difference between life-enhancing boundaries and ego-enhancing boundaries (and why that matters at home)

What screen addiction is really doing to attention, connection, and family dynamics

The real root of burnout for so many women: the hunger for approval, validation, and praise

Dr Shefali’s beauty and wellness rituals — not as “self-improvement”, but as self-connection

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This week, I’m joined by Trinny Woodall — founder and CEO of Trinny London. She's a media personality, and one of the most refreshingly honest voices in beauty and business. But what makes Trinny so compelling isn’t just what she’s built. It’s how she’s rebuilt herself, again and again.
From addiction and grief to solo motherhood, leadership, reinvention and the ongoing work of backing herself, her story is one of depth, resilience and hard-won self-awareness. In this episode, we talk about what it really takes to keep showing up when life has humbled you, stretched you or broken your heart a little.
Trinny shares why she hates the phrase imposter syndrome, how she’s learned to walk into rooms she once felt unqualified for, and why women need to stop shrinking themselves in spaces that were never designed for them.
We also talk about female friendship, social media, people-pleasing, leadership, and the subtle but powerful choice we all have to either lift each other up or get caught in drama. It’s a conversation about emotional maturity, courage, and learning how to be fully yourself in public and in private.
Along the way, Trinny shares some of the rituals and practices that keep her feeling strong and steady — from meditation and weight training to SPF, ice facials and the small disciplines that help her return to herself.
In this episode, we explore:
• Why community can be a lifeline when you’re struggling
• The mindset shift that matters more than confidence
• What addiction, grief and hardship can teach us about resilience
• How to lead without losing your humanity
• Beauty and wellness rituals that genuinely support wellbeing
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This episode is brought to you by Pulsetto, a wearable vagus nerve stimulation device designed to support calm, stress relief and better sleep through short app-guided sessions. For more information, and to receive 15% off, use the code https://pulsetto.tech/.