Female by Design

Our calendars are full, demands are never-ending, and overwhelm is knocking with every new notification.
In this final part of the "Unlocking the Female Heart, Mind, and Body" series, Francie leans into the impact of our busy lives on our bodies. This episode unpacks how the nervous system—designed by God—is central to our ability to feel safe, be present, and receive pleasure. It's not just about emotions or mindset. It's about how your body was wired by God to experience intimacy, connection, and peace.
When safety is absent, disconnection becomes the norm. But there is another way: a way of awareness, rest, and gentle re-inhabiting of the good body God gave you.
"You were never meant to be disembodied. God gave you a body to dwell in—where His Spirit meets you, where connection becomes possible." – Francie Winslow
In This Episode:
How chronic stress, performance culture, and disconnection impact female sexuality

What your nervous system is doing all day long—and why it matters for intimacy

Why safety is foundational for feminine arousal, connection, and presence

How to notice what your body is saying (and how to respond with care)

The invitation to trade numbness and overthinking for embodiment and pleasure

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The Circle is a place to keep growing in freedom, understanding, and embodied joy. The Circle is Francie's group mentorship community where women gather monthly for live teaching, honest conversation, and support as they learn God's good design for intimacy, desire, and pleasure… not as performance, but as part of faithful discipleship. Inside the Circle you'll find safe connection with other women, access to Francie through discussion and messaging, and a gentle space to rethink what you've been taught about sex, your body, and your feminine design.
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Overwhelm. Pressure. Tension in your body and to-do lists in your head. Not the recipe for receptivity, mutual pleasure, and oneness.
So many women are living in a constant state of doing—managing families, navigating stress, and holding everything together. But when there's no space for play, our nervous systems stay locked in survival mode. And when our bodies are braced and burdened, intimacy feels more like a demand than a delight.
In this episode, Francie explores the surprising power of play as a key to unlocking feminine integration. Playfulness is one way to reclaim our God-given design for creativity, movement, laughter, and lightness.
You'll hear how play resets the nervous system, reawakens your sensuality, and gently loosens the grip of stress, making space for joy, beauty, and deeper connection.
"We weren't made to be efficient machines. We were made to dance, to laugh, to move with grace—and that freedom is part of God's design for intimacy." – Francie Winslow
In This Episode:
Why play isn't frivolous—it's foundational for emotional and sexual connection

How stress and shutdown impact your body's capacity for arousal and openness

Scientific studies on how dance increases female desire, satisfaction, and confidence—even post-menopause

Practical ways Francie and Wyatt build play into their connection as husband and wife

Gentle, creative ways to reawaken your feminine body and spirit through nonlinear movement

Go Deeper in The Circle
The Circle is a place to keep growing in freedom, understanding, and embodied joy. The Circle is Francie's group mentorship community where women gather monthly for live teaching, honest conversation, and support as they learn God's good design for intimacy, desire, and pleasure… not as performance, but as part of faithful discipleship. Inside the Circle you'll find safe connection with other women, access to Francie through discussion and messaging, and a gentle space to rethink what you've been taught about sex, your body, and your feminine design.
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It's too common that women feel disconnected from their bodies, unsure how to enjoy pleasure and physical intimacy without shame, anxiety, or confusion. 
This episode is an honest invitation to begin healing that disconnection.
Francie shares the first of three powerful keys to unlocking the female heart, mind, and body—wisdom formed through years of mentoring women inside her Circle community. These insights are about stepping into wholeness as a woman created for joy, connection, and delight in God's design.
"Your body isn't the obstacle. It's the place where God's presence wants to dwell and delight." – Francie Winslow
In This Episode:
Why so many women feel "shut down" and how trauma, theology, and nervous system patterns contribute

The subtle ways shame shows up in the bedroom—even after years of marriage

Daily practices Francie uses to move out of her head and into her body with peace

A vision for sensuality that is holy, safe, and spiritually grounded

An invitation to rediscover your body as a place of worship and wonder

 
Go Deeper in The Circle
The Circle is a place to keep growing in freedom, understanding, and embodied joy. The Circle is Francie's group mentorship community where women gather monthly for live teaching, honest conversation, and support as they learn God's good design for intimacy, desire, and pleasure… not as performance, but as part of faithful discipleship. Inside the Circle you'll find safe connection with other women, access to Francie through discussion and messaging, and a gentle space to rethink what you've been taught about sex, your body, and your feminine design.
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Whether we realize it or not, every one of us has a "sex view," a lens through which we understand and experience our sexuality. It's shaped by what we were told (or not told), by pain, silence, shame, weariness, and the culture around us. But what if that view isn't the full story? What if God has something better?
In Part 2 of this series, Francie gently but powerfully unpacks five common sex views that shape our beliefs and behaviors, and how to trade them in for a vision rooted in truth, beauty, and God's original design.
You'll hear:
The 5 most common lenses women carry into marriage
How wounds, weariness, and whispers from the past still affect your present
What it means to see your body and sexuality through the works of God
Why knowing your design is part of your healing
A fresh invitation to live integrated, connected, and whole
This episode is for every woman who has ever felt confused, shut down, or disqualified when it comes to sex, and longs to see with new eyes.
 
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The Circle is a place to keep growing in freedom, understanding, and embodied joy. The Circle is Francie's group mentorship community where women gather monthly for live teaching, honest conversation, and support as they learn God's good design for intimacy, desire, and pleasure… not as performance, but as part of faithful discipleship. Inside the Circle you'll find safe connection with other women, access to Francie through discussion and messaging, and a gentle space to rethink what you've been taught about sex, your body, and your feminine design.
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Most of us never had a sex talk that honored our design, reflected God's heart, or made space for our questions. In this powerful first episode of a mini-series, Francie begins to unpack three foundational truths every woman needs to know, but likely never heard.
This is not a conversation about shame, fear, or performance. It's about reclaiming God's original dream for our bodies, our pleasure, and our wholeness as women made in His image.
In Part 1, Francie walks us through:
Why knowing your body is a spiritual practice
How shame blocks our ability to understand and enjoy our design
What the Bible reveals about God's intention for sex (and why it's so good)
How women's bodies were made for pleasure, not just reproduction or duty
The radical truth that sex is for you, too
Whether you're married or single, just beginning your journey or decades in, this episode will help you take one step closer to wholeness… body, mind, and spirit.
Go Deeper in The Circle
The Circle is a place to keep growing in freedom, understanding, and embodied joy. The Circle is Francie's group mentorship community where women gather monthly for live teaching, honest conversation, and support as they learn God's good design for intimacy, desire, and pleasure… not as performance, but as part of faithful discipleship. Inside the Circle you'll find safe connection with other women, access to Francie through discussion and messaging, and a gentle space to rethink what you've been taught about sex, your body, and your feminine design.
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