Help! I Have a Narcissist In My Life

The Narcissist Wants You to Believe This Lie
Have you ever confronted a narcissist with undeniable proof, only to have them deny everything, twist the facts, or completely rewrite what happened?
If you've ever left a conversation wondering, "Did that really happen the way I remember it?" or "Am I losing my mind?"—you're not alone.
In this episode of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner explains why narcissists lie, deny, and rewrite history, and more importantly, how you can protect your sanity without getting pulled into their distorted version of reality.
You'll learn why narcissists often refuse to acknowledge the truth, how gaslighting and history rewriting are used to maintain control, and why trying to convince them to admit the truth usually leads to more confusion and emotional exhaustion.
Most importantly, you'll discover six biblical principles to help you stay grounded in reality, strengthen your emotional resilience, and keep your peace—even when someone is determined to manipulate your perception of the truth.
 In this episode, you'll learn:
• Why narcissists lie, deny, and rewrite history
• How gaslighting slowly erodes your confidence
• The real reason narcissists avoid accountability
• What DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) looks like in real life
• How narcissists use selective memory and confabulation to manipulate others
• Six practical ways to stay anchored in truth and protect your sanity
• Biblical encouragement for overcoming deception and emotional manipulation
• Why you don't have to accept someone else's distorted reality
If you're dealing with a narcissistic spouse, parent, adult child, sibling, coworker, or friend, this episode will help you recognize destructive patterns, remain emotionally grounded, and walk in truth instead of confusion.
Remember: You are not crazy. You are not alone. God sees the truth, and He is with you every step of the way.
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📚 Resources Mentioned
• Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy
• Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy
Both books are available on Amazon in Kindle and paperback formats.

🙏 Scripture References
• Psalm 46:1
• Psalm 46:10
• Proverbs 12:19
• Proverbs 12:20
• Proverbs 12:22
• Proverbs 14:8
• Proverbs 14:9
• Proverbs 23:9
• Proverbs 26:24–26
• 1 John 4:16
• 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
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Have you experienced a narcissist denying the truth or rewriting history?
Share your experience in the comments. Your story may encourage someone else who feels isolated and confused.
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In this episode of The Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner offers crucial relationship advice for those navigating the complexities of divorcing a narcissist. She shares insights into how individuals with npd behave during the divorce process and provides practical strategies for standing up for yourself. This discussion is essential for anyone experiencing narcissistic abuse and seeking narc abuse recovery.


Check out Laurel's books:
https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

Welcome to "The Help: I Have a Narcissist in My Life" podcast, where I, Laurel Slade-Wagoner, guide you through understanding narcissism. This episode, "Standing Up to a Narcissist's Hypocrisy and Double Standards," aims to help you navigate the complexities of narcissistic abuse. Thank you to all my regular listeners for your support; I pray for your strength and courage in dealing with emotional abuse and toxic relationships, and for your journey towards narcissistic abuse recovery.
 Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop

In this episode of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner breaks down 3 powerful and often overlooked signs you may be dealing with a narcissist—even if they don't fit the typical stereotype.
These early warning signs can help you:
Recognize narcissistic behavior quickly
Stop second-guessing yourself
Protect your mental, emotional, and spiritual health
Avoid getting pulled deeper into a toxic relationship
Many people look back and say, "I wish I knew this sooner." This episode will give you the clarity and discernment you need now.
In This Episode, You'll Learn:
The #1 conversation pattern narcissists always reveal
How narcissists react when they don't get what they want
The dangerous mindset that makes narcissists impossible to reason with
Why your instincts are often right when something feels "off"
If you're dealing with confusion, emotional exhaustion, or manipulation… this will help you see things clearly.
📘 Get Laurel's Book:
Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy
👉 https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy
💬 Need Help or Have a Question?
Email: lslade4@verizon.net
Website: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/
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If you're an empath who keeps attracting narcissists… this is not random.
In Episode 69 of Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life, Laurel Slade-Waggoner breaks down the powerful—and often painful—connection between empaths and narcissists, and why so many compassionate, caring people end up in toxic, one-sided relationships.
If you've ever felt:
Drained from constantly helping others
Responsible for someone else's emotions
Unable to say "no" without guilt or fear
Stuck in a relationship where you give everything and receive nothing
👉 This episode will bring you clarity, validation, and a path forward.
🔍 In This Episode, You'll Learn:
✔️ What an empath really is (and why it's NOT a weakness)
✔️ Why narcissists are drawn to empaths
✔️ How narcissists use charm, victimhood, and manipulation to hook you
✔️ The difference between godly empathy vs over-empathy
✔️ How over-empathy forms (and why it keeps you stuck)
✔️ Practical steps to stop being exploited by narcissists
✔️ How to set boundaries—even if you feel trauma-bonded
✔️ Why learning to say "no" is key to your healing
⚠️ The Truth Most Empaths Need to Hear:
Narcissists don't see your empathy as love…
They see it as supply.
And unless you heal your over-empathy, you may continue to:
Attract toxic relationships
Stay stuck in emotional abuse
Feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and unseen
But there IS a way out.
🙏 Biblical Encouragement & Healing
This episode also shares powerful biblical truth and encouragement, including:
📖 Galatians 1:10 – Stop living to please people
📖 Proverbs 29:25 – Fear of man is a trap
📖 Galatians 6:5 – Each person carries their own load
📖 Jeremiah 30:17 – God restores and heals your wounds
God does not call you to carry what was never yours.
💬 If This Spoke to You…
You are not alone.
You are not weak.
And you are not crazy.
You are likely wounded—and healing is possible.
📌 Next Steps:
👉 Subscribe for more content on narcissistic abuse recovery
👉 Leave a comment: "I'm healing" if this resonated with you
👉 Share this with someone who needs clarity and strength
📧 Connect with Laurel:
📩 Email: lslade4@verizon.net
📖 Books: Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy
https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy
🌐 Visit Laurel's website for resources, sessions, and her monthly "Sanity & Strength" newsletter
https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/