Kingdom Sexuality

Want better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too!

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Overview - 0:20

Verse of the Day - 0:45

Sponsor Break - 1:13

Why We Don't Talk About Preferences - 1:38

Purity Culture and Desire - 2:11

Communication in Marriage - 3:07

Exploration and Self-Discovery - 4:15

Guidance and Communication Levels - 8:24

Challenge for the Week - 17:11

Closing Prayer - 18:33
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What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom!

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The Sex Talk You Never Got  

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20

Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08

Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24

Arousal and Desire - 13:41

Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52

Shame and Evil - 33:49

Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25
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Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode.

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Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip

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After Hours: Parents Edition Sex Challenge  

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17

Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39

Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00

The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09

Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40

Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39

Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30

Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01

Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57
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Ever woken up from a sexual dream and thought, “What does this mean??and should I be worried?” Tune in as the KS team unpacks why sexual dreams happen, what they do (and don’t) say about your heart, marriage, and faith.

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Episode Overview - 0:00

Verse of the Day - 0:38

Discussion on Sex Dreams - 1:19

Dreams and the Continuity Hypothesis - 2:13

Inside Out Movie Reference - 2:35

Dreams and Emotional Processing - 4:31

True or False: Sexual Dreams - 8:22

REM Sleep and Emotional Brain Activity - 8:51

Psychotherapist Erin Walsh's Insights - 9:17

Understanding Sexual Dreams - 10:08

Dreams and Relationship Dynamics - 11:36

Wet Dreams and Nocturnal Emissions - 19:37

Conclusion and Prayer - 25:06
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Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life.

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Figuring Out What I Like Guide

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Approximate Episode Timestamps 

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Overview - 0:21

Sponsor Break - 1:18

Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25

Understanding Desire Types - 6:01

Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29

Dual Control Model - 19:26

Communication and Compromise - 23:23

Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09
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