In this bite-sized nugget, I’m tackling a big one—what I call tiny dictators. You know the type: the kid who decides who sits where, who can talk, or which parent is “allowed” in the bathroom. When I hear a parent say, “My child won’t let me…,” I know we’re already in trouble. Kids are hardwired to want control, but when we hand over the wheel, it makes them feel unsafe and chaotic. In this episode, I’ll walk you through why “keeping the peace” by giving in always backfires, how to reclaim your authority (without guilt), and why chores—not choices—are the secret to helping kids feel capable and connected. If you’ve got a little boss running your household, this is your permission slip to take back control—lovingly, firmly, and today.Timestamps:(00:00:00) Preventing Children from Becoming Tiny Dictators(00:00:47) Preventing Household Disruptions: Establishing Parental Authority(00:05:06) Empowering Children Through Setting BoundariesJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapeeBrick for Phones
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262: Taming Tantrums
In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most misunderstood parts of parenting—the toddler tantrum. What’s developmentally normal? What’s not? And why do some kids melt down over a peeled banana while others roll with it? I’m walking you through the four big triggers that cause tantrums (hungry, tired, overstimulated, and loss of control) and which of those you can actually do something about. From the truth about “hangry” kids and snack culture, to overtired toddlers, overstimulation, and the importance of autonomy, I’ll help you build a strong foundation for the zero-to-six years. Because when you get these four things right, you don’t just prevent tantrums—you create a calmer, more connected home.Timestamps:(00:00:47) Identifying Triggers and Responses to Emotional Outbursts(00:11:56) Nourishing Snacks for Children's Well-Being(00:14:57) Early Bedtime Impacts Child's Cognitive Development(00:21:18) Preventing Overstimulation Through Calm Environments(00:26:25) Soul-Nourishing Activities for ParentsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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261: Growing Pains & Restless Legs (Bite Size Nugget)
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m sharing some simple solutions for those middle-of-the-night kid struggles—growing pains, restless legs, and even the start of night terrors. We’ve all been there: your child is finally drifting off and suddenly their legs are twitching, cramping, or they’re up screaming in pain. I’ll walk you through what might be going on (from magnesium loss to plain old overtiredness), and the easy remedies that have worked wonders in my own home. From magnesium sprays and chamomile tinctures to Calms Forte and Rescue Remedy, these are gentle, safe supports that can help your child settle and finally get some rest. Because let’s be real—a good night’s sleep for them means a good night’s sleep for you, too.Timestamps:(00:01:40) Essential Magnesium Supplementation for Children(00:04:36) Magnesium Deficiency and Restless Legs in Kids(00:05:23) Calming Herbal Remedies for Children's RelaxationRollon Magnesium: https://a.co/d/daovH2FChamomille Tincture: https://a.co/d/iATjCEYRescue Remedy: https://a.co/d/2Gl4FAkJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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260: Halloween Candy Isn't "Neutral"
This week I’m diving into a hot-button October topic: Halloween candy, picky eating, and the myth that food is “neutral.” Everywhere I look, I see advice about making candy an everyday side dish so kids won’t care about it come Halloween. And you guys—I can’t even. Candy is supposed to be a big deal! It’s a treat, not dinner. In this episode, I unpack why serving candy at every meal backfires, how processed “snacky snacks” set kids up for picky eating, and why nourishing food matters way more than organic labels or Instagram trends. Plus, I’m giving you permission to bow out of Halloween (or any tradition) if it doesn’t bring you joy. This one’s part rant, part reality check, and hopefully a big exhale for parents who feel stuck in the food wars.Timestamps:(00:01:58) Navigating Halloween Candy Consumption with Picky Eaters(00:03:12) The Dangers of Making Food Neutral(00:07:38) Nutritional Value Beyond Organic Labeling(00:11:34) Empowering Children to Make Informed Food Choices(00:17:33) Whipped Cream Brand Fixation in Children(00:20:58) Parenting Challenges: Navigating Social Media PressuresJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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259: Interrupting Kids (Bite Size Nugget)
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m talking about one of the most sanity-sucking habits kids have: interrupting. You know the drill—you finally sit down for a conversation with another adult, and boom, your kid is right there, cutting in with something that definitely could have waited. I’ll share why letting kids constantly interrupt actually creates clingy behavior, how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, and the simple little trick I taught Pascal when he was three that he still remembers at nineteen. Spoiler: it’ll save your sanity, help you finish a sentence, and make people think you’re raising the politest kid on the block.Timestamps:(00:00:39) Respectfully Managing Child Interruptions in Conversations(00:00:39) Teaching Respectful Interruption Etiquette to Children(00:04:06) Respecting Turn-Taking: Child's Arm Signal MethodJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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