Self-Identities Podcast

Sarah reflects on growing up in Florida, losing her brother at a young age, and trying to make sense of grief before she was old enough to fully understand it. She shares memories of struggling in school, living in poverty, and constantly moving from place to place with her family.

In this episode, Sarah also opens up about her battle with heroin addiction and how it became a way to numb the pain and instability she carried from childhood. Her story is one of hardship, honesty, and resilience.

Thelma was first incarcerated at 16 and again at 21. In this episode, she reflects on a childhood shaped by instability, growing up in a home impacted by alcohol and a lack of structure, where she also experienced physical abuse.

Thelma shares that prison was the first place she ever truly felt safe. Inside, she discovered purpose and stability through the dog program, where she helped raise and train dogs. For Thelma, that work became a source of healing, responsibility, and connection. Looking back, she speaks honestly about how she believes her life could have taken a very different and much darker path if she had never entered the prison system—and how unexpected moments of care and purpose changed her sense of survival and self.

As a child, Amy found joy and expression through music and dance, including ballet, tap, and jazz. It became one of her earliest forms of escape and identity. However, her upbringing was marked by a deeply unstable and unsafe home environment.

By her early teens, Amy was already facing significant struggles, including alcohol use at just 13 years old as she tried to cope with the challenges around her. As she got older, survival became her priority. She eventually made the difficult decision to leave home and spent time living on the streets and staying on couches to stay out of harm’s way.

One of the most painful moments in her life came when she had to make the decision to sign custody of her child over to her mother. At 21, Amy entered the criminal justice system, marking the beginning of a long and complex journey.

Inside, she began to find support and perspective through connections with other women serving long-term sentences—relationships that helped her start to rebuild a sense of self and resilience. This episode explores themes of survival, loss, accountability, and the long road toward healing and self-understanding.

In this episode of Self-Identities, Kawania reflects on a life shaped by hardship, resilience, and survival. Incarcerated at 32 and now 65, she looks back on her upbringing in a dangerous, under-resourced environment where stability was rare and growing up meant learning quickly how to endure. Amid that instability, one teacher became a lifeline—mentoring her, strengthening her voice, and continuing to show up for her even years into her incarceration.

Kawania also opens up about the internal conflict she faced as a teenager coming to terms with her sexuality in a time and place where being gay was not accepted. At 15, she felt forced to hide who she was, entering a relationship with a man and becoming pregnant in the process. Later, while incarcerated, she faced life-threatening health crises, nearly losing her life twice. Through it all, her story reveals the complexity of identity, the cost of survival, and the lasting impact of the people who choose to stand by you.

Charmaine’s story begins in a deeply unstable and abusive home, where violence and control shaped her early life. Growing up in the 1970s and 1980s, she endured repeated abuse at the hands of her father during a time when there were few legal protections for children in Pennsylvania. Speaking out only led to harsher punishment, forcing her to run away again and again in search of safety.

In this episode, Charmaine reflects on how that trauma influenced her path and the ways it shaped her identity in harmful and lasting ways. Yet her story is not defined solely by what she endured—it’s one of resilience. She opens up about her journey toward healing and how, during her time in prison, she began to discover a different way of living and understanding herself.