The Adoption Files

Please join me for a conversation with author and adoption reform advocate Patricia Knight Meyer, about being trafficked for the purpose of adoption; an adoption that never legally took place
Patricias new memoir, Wonderland: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption will be available from Unsolicited Press on 3 November 2026
Patricia can be found at: https://myadoptedlife.com/ Please visit her website and join the launch list to receive updates and to sign up for free giveaways related to the release of her memoir.
Patricia can also be reached at Patricia@myadoptedlife.com, and at 512-289-5372
Patricia was born in Texas, and supposedly adopted under Texas adoption laws.
https://adopteerightslaw.com/texas/
https://www.dshs.texas.gov/vital-statistics/birth-records/original-birth-certificate-adult
Please be aware that, in order to receive a noncertified copy of an original birth certificate if adopted in Texas, the adopted person must already know the name(s) of any parents listed on the certificate
Mentioned in the episode:
Georgia Tann https://www.historydefined.net/georgia-tann/
https://lisacooperellison.com/
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-human-design-8729468
https://psychiatrymagazine.com/why-trauma-affects-memory-ptsd-memory-loss/
The listing of services and of human design is provided for informational purposes and should not be considered an endorsement by the host or the podcast
The opinions of the host and of their guest are just that, their opinions
The host is not a lawyer, a therapist or an adoption professional
https://www.healthcentral.com/mental-health/get-help-mental-health
Thank you for listening!

Hi! Please join Dani Joy and me as we continue our conversation about adoption and spiritual trauma. We are using the book Holy Hurt, Understanding Spiritual Trauma and the Process of Healing by Hillary L McBride PhD as a framework for our discussion.
Dani Joy is a mother of loss to adoption, a blogger, a homesteader and an advocate for family preservation, mothers rights and adoptee rights. She can be found at:
https://danijoy.substack.com/
https://medium.com/@danijoy/melissa-thank-you-for-adding-me-304c03f358be
https://www.facebook.com/joyfuldj
Holy Hurt: https://www.hillarylmcbride.com/holy-hurt
Mentioned in the episode:
https://ifs-institute.com/resources/articles/internal-family-systems-model-outline
https://ifs-institute.com/store/419
https://concernedunitedbirthparents.org/
https://health.clevelandclinic.org/a-psychologist-explains-how-to-deal-with-imposter-syndrome
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/self-talk
The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions
The host is not a lawyer, a therapist or an adoption professional
Please reach out for help if you are struggling. You matter.
https://www.healthcentral.com/mental-health/get-help-mental-health
https://rainn.org/
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

Thank you for listening!

Please join me and guest host Dani Joy as we continue our conversation on adoption and spiritual healing. We are using the book Holy Hurt: Spiritual Trauma and the Process of Healing, by Hillary L McBride, PhD as a framework for our series.
Dani is a homesteader, writer, mother of loss to adoption and family preservation advocate. She can be found at
https://medium.com/@danijoy/dissociation-8118d4adad70
https://danijoy.substack.com/
https:/www.facebook.com/joyfuldj
Holy Hurt book can be found at : https://www.hillarylmcbride.com/holy-hurt
Mentioned in the podcast:
https://concernedunitedbirthparents.org/
https://www.healthcentral.com/mental-health/get-help-mental-health
The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, our opinions.
The host is not a lawyer, a therapist, or an adoption professional.
Thank you for listening!

I did a scary thing. Now I am doing another scary thing and sharing some impressions from attending the annual retreat for Concerned United Birthparents without relistening or editing or anything! Because, why not?
https://concernedunitedbirthparents.org/
https://savingoursistersadoption.org/
https://thefamilypreservationproject.com/
https://www.adopteeson.com/
https://www.adopteesffp.org/
https://adoptionpop.com/
https://kristalparke.net/
https://aireroots.com/
https://depts.washington.edu/mswnews/2024/11/adoptee-consciousness-model-workshop-w-bipoc-adoptee-collective/
https://dearabbycounseling.com/
If you are struggling, please reach out for help.
https://www.healthcentral.com/mental-health/get-help-mental-health
The opinions of the host are just that, my opinions.
Thank you for listening.

What does Adoption Abolition mean? Please join me and my guest Lorah Gerald as we talk about some of our thoughts on this topic.
Lorah is a Baby Scoop Era, Domestic US adopted person. She can be found athttps://lorahgerald.com/

There are some statistics quoted in the episode that may be difficult to believe, and hard to find. This is because they change from year to year, and the way you input your query changes the results you will receive. I am going to just list some of the sources for information and you can go and check them out.
Regarding the number of private infant adoptions in the United States per year-these numbers are not adequately captured, as reporting is uneven and not tracked in many locations. The best we can do is estimates based on different adoption organizations. This means the numbers can vary even in a single calendar year. The numbers also vary depending on whether you consider the sale of frozen embryos to be adoption, which legally is not considered adoption, even if there is zero genetic connection between the birthing person and the embryo. This is because an embryo is not a person. It is a tissue transfer.
Unicefs reports on children in substitute care and on quality of life for children and families
https://unioncitizenship.com/best-family-friendly-countries/
childbenefitstracker.org

https://gitnux.org/current-foster-care-statistics/
World Population Review
https://www.usnews.com/news/best-countries/best-countries-for-quality-of-life
Scotland's baby boxes:
https://www.mygov.scot/baby-box
vs the US version, which is not a resource program:
https://stopshbbnow.org/
The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions
The host is not a lawyer, a therapist or an adoption professional
https://www.healthcentral.com/mental-health/get-help-mental-health
Thank you for listening!