Today, we have a special guest, the amazing Dr. Gila Reckess — a parenting coach who specializes in supporting single parents and those raising strong-willed or neurodivergent kids. Gila’s work centers on one of the most powerful but overlooked parenting skills: emotion regulation — for both you and your kids. If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly on the edge of losing it, or you’re not sure how to help your child calm down without losing your own cool first… this conversation is for you.
In this episode, Gila shares:
Why emotion regulation is the foundation of calm, connected parenting
A super relatable "sink" metaphor to understand emotional overflow
A powerful 3-part strategy to support your child’s big emotions
And how to model self-compassion (especially when you don’t get it right)
This isn’t about perfection — it’s about progress, connection, and learning to regulate together. Grab your lukewarm coffee, settle in, and let’s dive into this empowering conversation.
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INFO & BIO:
Dr. Gila (she/her) is a Jai-certified parenting coach, a psychologist and neuropsychologist, a speaker and educator, and the host of the "Single-Parenting with Connection (NOT Perfection)" podcast. But her most important role is as single mom to an incredibly awesome and beautifully strong-willed tween. She specializes in supporting single parents, and parents of strong-willed, spirited, or neurodivergent kids. Her motto is: Even if you're on your own, you don't have to do it alone!
CONTACT INFO:
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I pray this episode blesses you!
Michelle
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