Live from Talent, Oregon (just outside Ashland), Danny and Brittney share insights on cultivating spiritual connection and growth in everyday family life. From hosting the presence of God with your kids in creative and playful ways to managing triggers in marriage with mature, loving responses—the conversation is rich with practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and replay-worthy truths.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to invite God into your home in fresh, age-appropriate ways.
Why holding space for creativity and play shapes spiritual growth in kids.
How to identify—and lovingly address—when someone lacks awareness of deeper issues.
The “Kylo Five” model for regulating yourself with intention in relationships: Power, Love over Fear, Connection, Respectful Communication, and Healthy Boundaries.
How to respond to triggers with love, humility, and spiritual fuel instead of defensiveness or shame.
Key Takeaways:
Spiritual connection doesn't require perfect formats; it thrives where there's playfulness, honesty, and openness to God’s work.
Ease off “doing church everywhere.” God shows up most powerfully in everyday life when you're paying attention to your kids and how they're connecting.
Don't try to fix someone who hasn’t acknowledged a problem—scaffolding help only works when it’s invited.
Choose to respond from strength, not from pain: “My God has called me. I am prepared. I may not feel prepared—but I am.”
In conflict, say, “My goal with you is connection,” and communicate your experience first—then extend grace and set boundaries.
Join the Conversation:Which idea resonated most—“How are you experiencing me?” or choosing connection over distance? We’d love to hear how this insight is showing up in your home or relationships.
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell
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The Five Words That Heal Disconnection
In this heartfelt live episode from a historic church in Springfield, Danny and Brittney reflect on their visit to Kairos Church and dive deep into one of the most crucial topics in relationships: repairing disconnection. With humor, authenticity, and practical tools, they offer steps for addressing hurt and restoring connection. The conversation also explores how our view of God impacts our ability to receive love, the power of community in healing, and memorable God-moments that have shaped their journeys. This episode is rich with insight for anyone longing for deeper connection with God and the people they love.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to identify and express disconnection using five simple words
Why taking ownership is essential for restoring relationships
Practical ways to shift from judgment to vulnerability in conversations
How to receive God’s love and confront lies rooted in shame
Keys for single parents to raise their children in a godly home
Key Takeaways:
You can’t restore connection by judging others—healing starts with “let me tell you about me.”
Avoiding vulnerability only delays healing; honesty invites restoration.
Unresolved lies will keep you trapped in self-righteousness—truth sets you free.
Children learn what love looks like by watching how their parents live it out.
God’s love rushes in when we stop hiding and allow His truth to wash over us.
Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell
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How Are You Experiencing Me?
In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical parenting tips to the power of asking, “How are you experiencing me?”, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt encouragement. Whether you’re building a new path forward or just trying to maintain peace in your household, this episode offers the tools and truth you need to stay connected and keep growing.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to transition into a ministry career while supporting your family.
Why courage is a key part of developing confidence and calling.
The importance of unity with your spouse when stepping into ministry.
What it means to stay hungry for growth and embrace discomfort.
Simple, powerful ways to protect connection in marriage and parenting.
Key Takeaways:
Commitment precedes courage, and courage builds the confidence needed to follow your calling.
Ministry is a team effort—your spouse needs to be fully on board to walk in unity and power.
Growth requires discomfort. Staying in the process brings clarity, fruit, and family breakthrough.
“How are you experiencing me?” is one of the most transformative questions you can ask in any relationship.
In a culture of connection, disconnection is treated like a four-alarm fire—nothing else matters until it’s resolved.
Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell
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Family Revival, Foster Parenting and the Fear of the Lord
In the final episode recorded live at Jesus Pursuit Church in Albany, Danny and Brittney tackle two powerful questions. First, they speak directly to foster parents navigating the challenges of building family culture when children come from difficult backgrounds. Then, they offer deep insight into the biblical meaning of “the fear of the Lord,” clarifying how it differs from the fear of punishment. This episode is full of wisdom, practical parenting tools, and spiritual clarity for anyone walking through uncertainty or leadership in their home.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to create a healthy home culture as a foster or first-time parent.
Practical tools for building trust, structure, and stability with a child in transition.
The difference between punishment-based parenting and love-based leadership.
What the fear of the Lord truly means—and how it leads to wisdom.
Why heaven’s justice is always about reconciliation, not punishment.
Key Takeaways:
Lead on purpose: Whether you're parenting biological or foster children, the culture of your home should be built intentionally, not accidentally.
Aim small, miss small: Start with attainable goals and celebrate every win—especially when parenting in difficult circumstances.
Punishment isn’t power: True power in parenting and leadership comes from consistent love, not control.
Fear of the Lord = fear of disconnection: It’s not about punishment; it’s about protecting your relationship with God.
God’s justice reconciles: Unlike the world’s justice that demands retribution, heaven’s justice leads to repentance, reconciliation, and restoration.
Join the Conversation:
Are you a foster parent or navigating a new season of parenting? Have you wrestled with the meaning of “fear of the Lord”? We’d love to hear your reflections—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com.
Stay Connected:
Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell
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How to Handle Controlling People and Mom Guilt with Confidence
In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they share practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, taking ownership of your emotions, and remembering your identity in Christ—especially in the high-stakes relationships of family. Whether you’re navigating toxic dynamics or second-guessing your parenting, this episode will leave you grounded, encouraged, and empowered.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why no one can control you without your permission.
How to communicate from a place of self-control and clarity.
What makes a powerful person and how to become one.
The difference between toxic shame and healthy conviction.
Why you were chosen to be your child’s parent—flaws and all.
Key Takeaways:
You are a powerful person: You have the God-given ability to control yourself and choose how you respond in every situation.
Control is an illusion: Others may use fear or manipulation, but you still get to choose how you show up.
Mom guilt is not from God: You were chosen to parent your children, and He equips you for every season—even the messy ones.
Healthy shame builds connection: When handled well, correction and conviction strengthen relationships and model growth.
Lead with love and truth: In parenting and family dynamics, your confidence, honesty, and humility create a culture of safety and growth.
Join the Conversation:
Are you learning to say “no” in a relationship where control once ruled? Or finding freedom from mom guilt in your parenting journey? We’d love to hear your story—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com.
Stay Connected:
Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell
Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
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