Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, and how to guide kids through big emotions without losing connection. Whether you're navigating disrespect in your marriage, parenting toddlers with tantrums, or raising teens who resist chores, this episode offers deep wisdom, practical tools, and real talk from two leaders who’ve walked it out.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why trying to fix or change someone else (especially a narcissist) is a losing strategy.
How to use the KYLO 5 to protect yourself and preserve connection.
What it really means to set boundaries with love, not rejection.
How to cultivate responsibility in kids through feedback and connection.
Strategies for guiding children through sadness and anger with maturity and empathy.
Key Takeaways:
You can’t change someone who doesn’t think they have a problem—focus on managing yourself.
Boundaries are not punishment; they are a message of hope for reconciliation.
A ten-year-old isn’t too young to begin learning how to steward their part of the relationship.
Emotionally explosive moments are opportunities to teach—not control—your children.
As a parent, your job isn’t to stop emotions but to protect the culture of your home with self-control and leadership.
Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Have you been in a relationship where you tried to fix someone? How do you approach parenting through connection rather than control?
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Humility, Anger, and Parenting Through Disconnection
Live from Empowered Life Church in Talent, Oregon, Danny and Brittney dive deep into three of the most challenging relational dynamics: humility in marriage, anger and emotional regulation, and the evolving role of parenting teens and adult children. With powerful personal stories and practical strategies, they model how to keep your love on even when emotions are high, triggers are firing, or relationships feel strained. Whether you’re navigating covenant in marriage or coaching your teenager through anxiety and independence, this episode is packed with real talk and transformational truth.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How humility can de-escalate conflict and restore connection in marriage.
Why disconnection is more dangerous than you think—and what to do about it.
Practical tools for recognizing anger before it turns into destruction.
How to guide your children from childhood into adulthood with wisdom, empowerment, and connection.
The power of co-regulation and feedback in a healthy home environment.
Key Takeaways:
Humility isn’t weakness—it’s a superpower that diffuses disrespect and fosters trust.
Disconnection is like a couch on fire: don’t ignore it. Move toward the people you love quickly.
Learn to recognize the signs of fight-or-flight in your body—and hit pause before reacting.
Parents move from cop to coach to consultant; don’t try to skip stages or cling to control.
Empower your kids by building trust, not fear. They’ll keep you in their life if they know you can handle their mess.
Join the Conversation:What’s your go-to strategy for reconnecting after conflict? Share your experience with us online, or let us know which part of today’s episode hit home for you.
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Hosting God at Home and Healing in Marriage
Live from Talent, Oregon (just outside Ashland), Danny and Brittney share insights on cultivating spiritual connection and growth in everyday family life. From hosting the presence of God with your kids in creative and playful ways to managing triggers in marriage with mature, loving responses—the conversation is rich with practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and replay-worthy truths.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to invite God into your home in fresh, age-appropriate ways.
Why holding space for creativity and play shapes spiritual growth in kids.
How to identify—and lovingly address—when someone lacks awareness of deeper issues.
The “Kylo Five” model for regulating yourself with intention in relationships: Power, Love over Fear, Connection, Respectful Communication, and Healthy Boundaries.
How to respond to triggers with love, humility, and spiritual fuel instead of defensiveness or shame.
Key Takeaways:
Spiritual connection doesn't require perfect formats; it thrives where there's playfulness, honesty, and openness to God’s work.
Ease off “doing church everywhere.” God shows up most powerfully in everyday life when you're paying attention to your kids and how they're connecting.
Don't try to fix someone who hasn’t acknowledged a problem—scaffolding help only works when it’s invited.
Choose to respond from strength, not from pain: “My God has called me. I am prepared. I may not feel prepared—but I am.”
In conflict, say, “My goal with you is connection,” and communicate your experience first—then extend grace and set boundaries.
Join the Conversation:Which idea resonated most—“How are you experiencing me?” or choosing connection over distance? We’d love to hear how this insight is showing up in your home or relationships.
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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The Five Words That Heal Disconnection
In this heartfelt live episode from a historic church in Springfield, Danny and Brittney reflect on their visit to Kairos Church and dive deep into one of the most crucial topics in relationships: repairing disconnection. With humor, authenticity, and practical tools, they offer steps for addressing hurt and restoring connection. The conversation also explores how our view of God impacts our ability to receive love, the power of community in healing, and memorable God-moments that have shaped their journeys. This episode is rich with insight for anyone longing for deeper connection with God and the people they love.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to identify and express disconnection using five simple words
Why taking ownership is essential for restoring relationships
Practical ways to shift from judgment to vulnerability in conversations
How to receive God’s love and confront lies rooted in shame
Keys for single parents to raise their children in a godly home
Key Takeaways:
You can’t restore connection by judging others—healing starts with “let me tell you about me.”
Avoiding vulnerability only delays healing; honesty invites restoration.
Unresolved lies will keep you trapped in self-righteousness—truth sets you free.
Children learn what love looks like by watching how their parents live it out.
God’s love rushes in when we stop hiding and allow His truth to wash over us.
Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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How Are You Experiencing Me?
In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical parenting tips to the power of asking, “How are you experiencing me?”, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt encouragement. Whether you’re building a new path forward or just trying to maintain peace in your household, this episode offers the tools and truth you need to stay connected and keep growing.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to transition into a ministry career while supporting your family.
Why courage is a key part of developing confidence and calling.
The importance of unity with your spouse when stepping into ministry.
What it means to stay hungry for growth and embrace discomfort.
Simple, powerful ways to protect connection in marriage and parenting.
Key Takeaways:
Commitment precedes courage, and courage builds the confidence needed to follow your calling.
Ministry is a team effort—your spouse needs to be fully on board to walk in unity and power.
Growth requires discomfort. Staying in the process brings clarity, fruit, and family breakthrough.
“How are you experiencing me?” is one of the most transformative questions you can ask in any relationship.
In a culture of connection, disconnection is treated like a four-alarm fire—nothing else matters until it’s resolved.
Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!
Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
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