165 | Don't Fake Orgasms, Foreplay Begins Outside of the Bedroom, and More Tips on Intimacy
In this episode of The Living Easy Podcast, Lindsey Maestas opens a biblical and deeply practical conversation about intimacy in marriageābecause God makes all things new, even in the bedroom. (Watch this recording on YouTube and subscribe!) Sex may not really matter to you, but it does matter to your marriage. See the FULL curriculum for: The Sex and Intimacy Project: A 4-Week Video Study a His + Hers Workbook for a Stronger Sex LifeĀ Lindsey unpacks how physical connection is both a spiritual and emotional act of service, not just a physical one. She discusses the dangers of pornography and limerence (infatuation during affairs), how these habits alter neural pathways, and how to create a sex life in your marriage that you don't need to escape from.Ā You'll hear about: Why Scripture calls us not to deprive one another of sex (1 Corinthians 7:5) Why the clitoris reminds us that God created sex for pleasure How faking orgasms creates emotional distance and false intimacy What it means to "show and tell" in your marriage ā teaching your spouse what makes you feel good during sex How foreplay actually begins outside the bedroom, through kindness, affection, and communication The importance of serving one another in physical foreplay The "microwave vs. crockpot" concept and understanding your spouse's arousal rhythms Seeing your partner's body as a book to study ā learning, honoring, and cherishing it as a form of worship to God This is a conversation about reclaiming intimacy, breaking shame, and learning to experience sex as a holy gift that strengthens your connection rather than erodes it. When we become intentional about how we love each other physically, we build the kind of trust, pleasure, and connection that keeps our marriages from burning down. SEO Keywords: Christian marriage intimacy, biblical sex advice, foreplay tips, Christian relationships, marriage podcast, faith-based intimacy, godly marriage connection, how to improve intimacy, healthy sex in marriage, Lindsey Maestas podcast Connect with Lindsey: Instagram: @livingeasywithlindsey Website: www.sparrowsandlily.com Preorder Lindsey's book Don't Burn Your Own House Down
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164 | Is It ADHD or Just Being a Kid?: Dopamine, Boredom & Why Your Child May Be Frustrated with Sara Hartley
Do you ever look at your child and wonder: Is this ADHD? Or is this just childhood? Today, I'm joined by Sara Hartley, author of The Purposefully Me Series, to talk about ADHD in children from a realistic, compassionate, and research-based lens. Together, we break down: TheĀ most overlooked signs and symptoms of ADHD in kids What's actually happening in the brain when childrenĀ whine, complain, melt down, or seek constant stimulation Why some kids chaseĀ dopamine ā screens, snacks, danger, noise Parenting a neurodivergent vs neurotypical child (and why your strategies must shift) Emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity The difference between "won't" andĀ "can't yet" Practical strategies toĀ increase regulation, confidence, and connection at home If you're parenting a child who is always bored, never satisfied, complains constantly, or struggles to focus ā this episode will give you clarity, relief, and actual tools, not shame. Sara Hartley: Website: saralewishartley.com SLH Creative Group LLC+2Instagram+2 Instagram: @saralewishartley Instagram+1 Books: The Purposefully Me Series (Children's social-emotional books tackling ADHD, neurodiversity, etc.) calmmamacoaching.com š Connect with Lindsey Instagram: @livingeasywithlindsey Website: sparrowsandlily.com Ā
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163 | How to Handle Your Money Like It Actually Belongs to God with Bob and Linda Lotich
In this episode, Lindsey and Jesse Maestas sit down with Bob and Linda Lotich, authors of Simple Money, Rich Life, to talk about what it truly means to see your money as God's moneyāand how that perspective can completely change the way you live, give, and plan for the future. Bob and Linda share how they started as a couple earning minimum wage and dreamed of giving away millions of dollarsāand how God helped them make that happen.Ā Together, they unpack the power of generosity, the pitfalls of "YOLO" spending, and how to build a life that reflects eternal impact over temporary comfort. In this episode, we cover: What it means to view your finances as God's assets that you're managing, not owning Why "YOLO thinking" can become self-serving instead of freeing How radical generosity transforms both the giver and the receiver What happens when you give beyond your comfort zone Practical ways to live simply, earn purposefully, and give abundantly Resources Mentioned: Simple Money, Rich Life by Bob & Linda Lotich ā simplemoneybook.com SeedTime Money Podcast Gradually Then Suddenly by Mark BattersonĀ Ā Search Keywords: Christian finances, biblical money management, generosity, stewardship, giving, simple living, financial peace, Christian wealth, marriage and money, living generously Connect: Follow Lindsey and Jesse: @livingeasywithlindsey Follow Bob and Linda: @seedtime Visit: sparrowsandlily.com
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162 | Charlie Kirk: Cultural Hypocrisy, Forsaking Casual Christianity, & God's View on Division in a World That's Tearing Itself Apart
In this episode, Lindsey Maestas tackles the outrage and confusion surrounding Charlie Kirk's death with a bold Christian perspective.Ā Why casual Christianity is no longer acceptable ā lukewarm faith won't survive in a world that mocks conviction. Why celebrating murder is pure evil ā and how Christians must reject a culture that cheers for death. The weaponization of memory & "martyr" narratives ā how both sides twist a man's life and death for political gain. The silencing of dissent and free discourse ā why cancel culture threatens both faith and freedom. God's uncompromising view on murder ā the sanctity of life and the danger of playing judge. God's call to radical love over destructive division ā how believers can be peacemakers in a fractured, hostile world. This is a wake-up call for Christians who are tired of surface-level faith and cultural compromise. With biblical truthĀ and real talk on politics and discipleship, Lindsey calls us higher: to boldness, holiness, and unity in a world that's tearing itself apart.
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161 | HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT!!!: A 5-Minute Episode
I am SO THRILLED to announce that....(drumroll)... My new book: Don't Burn Your Own House Down: Prioritizing Your Marriage, Your Spouse, and Yourself is available for pre-order TODAY!!!! And I'm asking for your HELP to please PRE-ORDER today!! I know it can be easier to wait for the launch, but it makes a huge difference to Amazon and to my publishers to have pre-orders if you wouldn't mind!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!Ā Your marriage doesn't need to be perfect. It just needs two people willing to start again . . . together. This book is for newly engaged couples, newlyweds, and couples who have been married for anywhere from 5-50 years. DBYOHD is the most vulnerable thing I've ever written; it's a window into my marriage and into the marriages of so many of you. I share the messes that tore us apart, and the tools, wisdom, and resources that brought us back together, stronger than ever. This biblical marriage book is filled with a decade of research on relationships and theology and scripture, pointing you toward a marriage that is truly God-centered. My hope is that you will see one another through new eyes, as you did when you first dated, and that you won't ever feel stagnant or stuck within your marriage, but that you will thrive with joy, playfulness, shared responsibility, intimacy, and intentionality.Ā Order Don't Burn Your Own House Down today!Ā
Marriage, adult friendships, relationships, personal growth - all with a biblical foundation. Lindsey Maestas talks about the raw and hard topics with a focus on growth and encouragement. She discusses her own personal marriage and motherhood struggles, learning how to forgive, heal and grow, how to study the Bible and thrive in your faith and how to continue growing as a person every day in all areas of life. Her motto is, 'Nothing changes if nothing changes' and calls her listeners up to make active changes after listening to each episode.
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