252 episodes
251. How to Manage Irritability, Intense Emotions and Judgment in Inner Autumn (Alexandra & Sjanie)
29/10/2026 | 1h 5 mins.Today we’re continuing our series about the limits of the four inner seasons of the menstrual cycle, and exploring these limits less as a problem that needs to be fixed, and more as a gateway to accessing the power of each cycle phase.
So far we’ve discussed the pre-ovulation and ovulation phases - inner spring and summer - and it’s time for us to get into the premenstrual phase, which is a cycle hotspot for many of us.
Alexandra and Sjanie describe their own experience of the core limit of inner autumn, the reduction in energy and capacity, which can create a kind of reactive, hyper-critical sharpness in our minds and we become attuned to what isn’t working around us. In other words, everything becomes so annoying, and it’s very hard not to tell everyone around us just how annoying they are.
We explore how, when we slow down in ourselves and honour this natural limit, we’re more able to access the benefit of this mental sharpness, in the form of a profound kind of discerning truth-telling and intuitive knowing.
We explore:
How to reframe your premenstrual irritability from a problem to endure, into a potent invitation into a vital sense of connection with your deep self, and your human needs.
The necessity of allowing and feeling the intense emotions that can rise up in the second half of the cycle - even amidst the busyness of life - and how to hold ourselves if old trauma arises.
How, in the premenstrual phase, we become lightning conductors releasing the charge in the field around us; for our children, our families, our communities or our workplace - and what to do when our disruption triggers people around us.
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22/10/2026 | 1h 3 mins.Today we’re talking about the reality of the grittiness of the forties; the physical health challenges, the emotional intensity, the responsibilities, the overwhelm, the stress. And we also explore how the forties are also a meaningful preparation for the great spiritual awakening and initiation of menopause.
Sjanie and Sophie share their personal stories from this life phase, which we call the Quickening at Red School, and we explore how to practically navigate the challenges that come up including; how to manage our energy, find nervous system regulation inside the fullness of life, hold the tension with intense reactivity and grow the emotional muscles to be inside the many mini death-and-rebirth moments of perimenopause.
We explore:
How to work with the uncertainty that can come from shifting menstrual cycles in your forties, and what to do when you find yourself outside of the map of the inner seasons.
Sophie’s story of working with perimenopause rage, and how we can all re-write the stories we’ve been telling ourselves about ourselves, and claim fuller responsibility for our lives.
The importance of finding ways to slow everything down, even if it’s just inside yourself, when you’re navigating the edges of perimenopause.
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15/10/2026 | 52 mins.Over the past week, I’ve been sitting with women going through or on the other side of menopause hearing their profound insights about the spiritual gifts of their menopause process for our Spiritual Power of Menopause series.
And today we’re sharing one of our conversations here on the podcast - with internationally-acclaimed yoga teacher, author, and public speaker, Seane Corn. Seane has been at the forefront of yoga, activism, and community service for over thirty years. She’s now dedicated to challenging cultural narratives about menopause, reframing it from a physical decline to a sacred spiritual initiation and rebirth.
We explore:
How Seane confronted internalised misogyny around midlife and aging
How her Yoga practice supported her to do the menopause shadow work of releasing outgrown identities
How the alchemy of the menopause process awakens our intuition so that we can step into new levels of leadership.
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Seane Corn: @seanecorn - https://www.instagram.com/seanecorn- It’s world menopause awareness month and today we’re sharing a conversation that Alexandra and Sjanie had with the brilliant writer, international speaker and transformational coach Bethany Webster a couple of Octobers ago for the Wise Power retreat, all about healing the ‘Motherwound’ in menopause.
At Red School we’re busy preparing our Spiritual Power of Menopause conversation series which is starting next week, as well as Alexandra and Sjanie’s popular free three-day menopause event: How to Awaken The Power of Menopause, which will also serve as an introduction to the Menopause: The Great Awakener course. It all starts on October 12th and you can register for free at redschoolmenopause.com.
Bethany sat down with me and very generously shared her story of perimenopause healing and transformation for the upcoming Spiritual Power of Menopause series, and her conversation is coming up on day five, called: Perimenopause - A Defiance in Service to Love…
But for now, let’s hear from her about how her personal understanding of the Motherwound impacted her in the approach to menopause, how menopause can help us to make peace with our mothers, and how to cultivate a meaningful inner mothering practice.
We explore:
How Bethany's personal understanding of the Motherwound is impacting her in the approach to menopause, inspiring her to negotiate a new relationship with power and truth.
How menopause can help us to make peace with our mothers and release the residues of the messages we unconsciously received from them.
How to start the work of healing the Motherwound at menopause, and cultivate a meaningful inner mothering practice.
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Receive our free video training: Love Your Cycle, Discover the Power of Menstrual Cycle Awareness to Revolutionise Your Life - www.redschool.net/love
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The Menstruality Podcast is hosted by Red School. We love hearing from you. To contact us, email info@redschool.net
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Sophie Jane Hardy: @sophie.jane.hardy - https://www.instagram.com/sophie.jane.hardy
Bethany Webster: @themotherwound - https://www.instagram.com/themotherwound - It’s the first day of world menopause month, and we’re continuing to re-write the cultural narrative around menopause, by exploring the connection between psycho-spiritual initiation of menopause and leadership. Especially the kind of emergent, relational, responsive leadership that is needed in our world today.
In Alexandra and Sjanie’s book, Wise Power, they share that menopause is a training ground in power, where we can learn how to lead from a place of vulnerable humility, holding the tension with complexity, uncertainty, and ambiguity. What could be more needed in the coming decade which will demand new levels of creativity, courage and leadership from us all?
We explore:
The menopause shadow work that enables us to fully face our inner critics, so that we can own our strengths and our blind spots.
How to navigate the dark night of the soul that can come in menopause without getting lost to bitterness and resentment, and whilst staying open to life in all it’s messy fullness.
How menopause ultimately helps us to unashamedly love what we’re good at, recognize our limits and blind spots and liberate ourselves to live and share our unique gifts
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Receive our free video training: Love Your Cycle, Discover the Power of Menstrual Cycle Awareness to Revolutionise Your Life - www.redschool.net/love
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The Menstruality Podcast is hosted by Red School. We love hearing from you. To contact us, email info@redschool.net
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Social media:
Red School: @redschool - https://www.instagram.com/red.school
Sophie Jane Hardy: @sophie.jane.hardy - https://www.instagram.com/sophie.jane.hardy
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About The Menstruality Podcast
How can menstrual cycle awareness and conscious menopause enhance your health, creativity and leadership? That's the question we'll explore together in the Menstruality Podcast, brought to you by Red School, where we’re training the menstruality leaders of the future. Your host, Sophie Jane Hardy will be joined often by Red School’s founders, Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer, as well as pioneering thought leaders, troublemakers and culture-shifters to discover how you can unashamedly claim the power of the menstrual cycle to activate your unique form of leadership; for yourself, your community, and the world.
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